They Made Stability Look Corny on Purpose

[africngiant]

They push out any black male that aint criminal or street adjacent and indirectly blackball them from many black social circles while rewarding the future crashout for entertainment sake.

the funniest part is most of THESE nikkas are the ones putting on a persona. as someone who’s been fukked over and dealt with a lot of “real nikka” shyt in life, i am unassuming and dont like to share my failures or act like im this hard socially posturing nikka. im a human. nikkas on instagram and real life posturing fake personas for women are SOOO fukkING CORNY THAT IS THE REAL CORNY. these bytches are disillusioned af.

that is what actually pisses me off then. the group mentalities.

 

[Treblemaka]

There are 10s of millions of women in our community. If a woman considers stability corny shes not someone I want to invest in and she probably shouldn't be procreating.



Why are yall complaining about the preferences of a woman that aint worth a damn?

If youre a legit good man with self discipline, decent morals, ambition, and a work ethic you shouldn't have issues finding a good healed woman to build with (if thats what you actually want). If you have your shxt together as a man you get to choose, because youre rare.

Chasing by definition is an act of desperation. If youre chasing women its probably a sign you need to focus more on your day to day and less on pu$$y

 

[Amo Husserl]

Sometimes women get fooled....yet women also claim to have superior intuition and situational awareness.

Either men are smarter, more clever master manipulators.....OR.....women decide to overlook obvious red flags for the sexy, 3-legged bum. Men don't suddenly become shyt bags. Their base personality is always there. It's just a matter of whether you choose to listen to those instincts.

They think their superior intuition can replace a well-developed ability to read people. It can't, so there in lies the problem: intuition has its limitations.

 

[RamsayBolton]

you know what? i never even considered this

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

My interpretation of the video is she is saying the media engineered a culture that made us value the wrong things and the entire community has fallen prey to it. This video wasn’t an attack on Black men, it was an attack on the systems that intentionally created these narratives to destabilize our communities. I think she’s trying to say we need to wake up and take control of our own social narratives.

This is exactly what she’s trying to do. This site is a prime example of what she’s talking about with the GMB nonsense and the ridiculing of stepfathers

 

[NYC Rebel]

Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.

These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.

She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.

It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.

That is the problem with a lot of these gurus. They can only see one side of the problem, while wearing blinders when it comes to the otherside. The problem is a problem both sexes contribute to. If you only focus on one sex to fix the problem, you will never fix the problem.

What sickens me is that many of you fail to see that women are followers of what WE men validate as manhood.

They follow OUR lead. We are the ones who called these dudes corny. We are the ones who called them simps. Women follow OUR lead.

How many more suburban black boys do you need to see "perform hood," thinking that's "real Black manhood" for you to NOT get it?

Have a bit of chauvinism in your whining. Women follow US and who WE as MEN validate.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

What sickens me is that many of you fail to see that women are followers of what WE men validate as manhood.

They follow OUR lead. We are the ones who called these dudes corny. We are the ones who called them simps. Women follow OUR lead.

How many more suburban black boys do you need to see "perform hood," thinking that's "real Black manhood" for you to NOT get it?

Have a bit of chauvinism in your whining. Women follow US and who WE as MEN validate.

These eggheads overthink shyt that ain't inherently that complex

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Men chase women.

Women choose men.


Ultimately women are the gatekeepers. Only exception is the top 10% of men (income/wealth, looks, education etc) that can pull almost any woman they want.

Sometimes women get fooled....yet women also claim to have superior intuition and situational awareness.

Either men are smarter, more clever master manipulators.....OR.....women decide to overlook obvious red flags for the sexy, 3-legged bum. Men don't suddenly become shyt bags. Their base personality is always there. It's just a matter of whether you choose to listen to those instincts.

Women can identify creepy ugly men in 0.05 seconds. Turn that creep into a handsome man and suddenly their instincts disappear. I don't "blame" women, but ladies have to be honest with themselves. The good man that's stable and solid versus the wild man that's fun but problematic.....in RPG gaming terms, women tend to "min-max" when picking men. Sometimes it's better to get the guy whose a 6 or 7 in multiple categories over the breh that's a "10" in some ways and a "2" in other ways.

fukking bar

And you’re absolutely right about that bullshyt intuition. Problem is, women have started liking that used car salesman type of game. Where the “gift of gab” get them chicks out the draws and into decades of regret.


Whole post a bar.. repped

 

[NYC Rebel]

fukking bar

And you’re absolutely right about that bullshyt intuition. Problem is, women have started liking that used car salesman type of game. Where the “gift of gab” get them chicks out the draws and into decades of regret.


Whole post a bar.. repped

Women choose men who men validate as real men.

It's not women painting murals of dead drug dealers killing the community.

 

[jilla82]

Any "discussion" about Stable Black Men, being seen as "Corny" that doesn't ALSO address the fact that many WOMEN also see those type of Men as "Corny", is one-sided and FULL OF SHYT.

These conversations are always presented in a way where ALL of the issues of relationships in the Black community are placed solely at the feet of Black Men.

She didn't even BOTHER to mention what Woman should be/could also be doing.

It's just MISANDRY dressed up in a Dashiki, masquerading as some sort of "Pro Black" sentiment.

This is part of being a man.
You gotta take the good with the bad....
and realize the meta message behind people always blaming men is that men are the leaders and women follow.

You cant say that in a mainstream setting but people say it with their actions and beliefs.

Men are on their own...
you have to find your own path and get a woman that is down with it...
or dont.

Its up to you.

But if youre a man going along with whats sold to you youre basically a woman/child...
which is why so many brothas are in prison, in the streets or just flat out down bad.

 

[MajesticLion]

There are 10s of millions of women in our community. If a woman considers stability corny shes not someone I want to invest in and she probably shouldn't be procreating.



Why are yall complaining about the preferences of a woman that aint worth a damn?

If youre a legit good man with self discipline, decent morals, ambition, and a work ethic you shouldn't have issues finding a good healed woman to build with (if thats what you actually want). If you have your shxt together as a man you get to chose, because youre rare.

Chasing by definition is an act of desperation. If youre chasing women its probably a sign you need to focus more on your day to day and less on pu$$y

I agree with this as a short-term method of keeping a level of sanity in your day-to-day dealings. Mid- to long-term, no.

Family unit, extended family ties, community, local governance, nation-states...none of it survives, at any level, if it continues to allow itself to be disjointed. And for that there must be agreed-upon rules. Even mercenaries and pirates have rules by which they operate. Otherwise nothing lasts; everything becomes a short-term hustle masquerading as a life.


The only way forward is together.

 

[Uachet]

What sickens me is that many of you fail to see that women are followers of what WE men validate as manhood.

They follow OUR lead. We are the ones who called these dudes corny. We are the ones who called them simps. Women follow OUR lead.

How many more suburban black boys do you need to see "perform hood," thinking that's "real Black manhood" for you to NOT get it?

Have a bit of chauvinism in your whining. Women follow US and who WE as MEN validate.

Funny, you added my statement and my statement was general to both sex's gurus doing this. So what problem do you actually have with the idea of responsibility being placed where it should be, instead of focusing on just one sex?

Oh, and any fool who thinks women do not have agency is a simp. They can make their own decisions in this country, and can choose whom they desire to date in this country. So if women are choosing unfit men, it is because that is what they want. The same can be said about the men who choose unfit women. That is why my statement was a general statement about gurus only seeing oneside of the equation, which funnily enough you just demonstrated above.

 

[Gloxina]

Been talking to yall folks about “chaos agents” for years..

Like I been saying… hope this spreads.


Been talking about this for YEARS. Black culture (only culture I’m concerned with) has for a long time been about what’s “cool”.

My older sister told me as a teenager to fukk what these people think is corny or cool. How tf someone doing worse off, dumber, no foresight, immoral, no codes, etc., gonna dictate to me (or you) what’s cool or not.

Came back here surrounded by nikkas who don’t do shyt trying to look down because I’m not fitting their “cool” standards.


Pass

And it was ALWAYS purposely done.

 

[Gloxina]

Hit stop at

"Adopts her child".

Always about what a man should do for a woman instead of what a man should do to enjoy the short time he has on this Earth.

I agree. I almost wasn’t gonna post the video because she messed up there, but she had more to say lol

 

[Richard Glidewell]

Good thing I follow my own mind.......