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he really said this shyt?!?!?
“I understand the impulse to wanna be with another man” - Kevin Samuels
he really said this shyt?!?!?
He didn't say women should accept infidelity. His point was that if you truly want a man who only makes up 10% of the population, it would be in your best interest to be a bit more open minded when it comes to dealing with things you normally wouldn't deal with.Women should accept infidelity.
Edit: from HVM.
Nobody said that wasn't true. But when we want to compare women to the standard, we are not saying Kelly Rowland's name. Have you ever heard, "You ain't no Kelly Rowland!"? Probably not.Kevin's opinion on Kelly's beauty wasn't strategical. Many black men preferred Kelly over Beyonce. I heard the same opinion in the Coli and in real life. Kelly is highly rated and adored by many men.
Kevin was a clown who just happened to say true shiit from time to time.
The fact that he totted himself as a HVM, yet did not meet his own set criteria for it was my first indication that he was full of shiit as a person. Two things always stuck out to me:
1. No other "HVM" in the real world acknowledged him
2. He claimed to be a professional consultant, but never had any credentials or documented businesses
FYI. Any person that is a full time YouTuber that tries to tell you they are also a professional elsewhere in another business avenue which requires a lot of time, is usually full of shiit.
And of course in a perfect world we can say only the message matters, but at some point you have to walk the talk. You cannot be preaching for black marriages and families, but you are not trying to do the same yourself and you refuse to speak about your past. He spoke truth about a lot of things, but to me he was always full of shiit as a person. I'm a person that can take a message regardless of who or how it's delivered, but most people can't and that was why he was villified.
Plus he has said he was a 3x black belt, a club bouncer, a drug abuse counselor, graduated top of his class in engineering, worked in finance, image consultant, dated Victoria secret models and Hollywood actresses, etc..and was able to fit two marriages into that
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Women should focus on finding a husband instead of education.
I mean God forbid something happens to a woman's husband, how will she support herself if she is primarily dependent on the husband for everything.
It shouldn't be this hard to focus on BOTH.
That was one of his most dangerous and illogical talking points if we’re being honest. Not even sure how he didn't catch more flack for it especially because bullshyt like that goes directly against his alleged desire to strengthen the black family/community. And while I’m sure that shyt was music to an insecure bum ass nikka’s ears, you know who REALLY benefits from black women foregoing education in favor of marriage and children in this day and age? CACS. One of the best ways to control a population is to delude them into believing that stifling their own advancement is ACTUALLY in their best interest. If you can successfully convince a group of driven, smart and highly motivated women that chasing dikk, marriage and babies is BETTER than getting an education, while simultaneously incarcerating or murdering their male counterparts at high rates you’ve already won.