First, sorry breh about the water situation. Same thing happens to one of my boys.
Indeed, the bills/ unexpected maintenance are/is no joke but I rest on the assurance that I'm gaining equity/ wealth with our property.
One thing never talked about
with us was the improvements you'd want to make...if that makes sense. We've been in our house for 8 years now and have spent maybe thousands on landscaping and the backyard. It is worth it (more living space and such) but that shyt adds up like a mf. Luckily, with the pandemic, I've taking the time to learn how to do things myself (cutting costs); creating a new hobby of sorts.
My wife and I sit back and watch as our families love the improvements we've made on some

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