If you have an active sex life you’ll soon realise having a big dikk is more of a curse than a blessing. I can’t pound the shyt of them. As soon as I go to poundtown, they start telling me to stop cos it’s hurting, so I’m usually forced to do slow sex which sucks for me.
I also hate getting head. Like OP said, they’re usually not good at it, and Im just lying there like like

until I get bored and I just wanna start smashing
Sex for me usually last maximum an hour. As soon as I come, I just want it to end but then a few minutes later I’m like I wanna go again, but usually that’s enough for her.
Oh and porn really has messed up a whole generation and will continue to. I feel sorry for these kids who grew up on porn before they start having sex.