This advice on prenups is probably the best I ever heard

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I'm not sure she can get the house if you had it before the marriage. Unless you're a dumbass and add her name to it, which I'm sure she would suggest.

I know a dude who got married and the chick immediately started talking about buying a new house. I told him she's doing that for a reason.
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I would never add a bytches name to the crib. I'm passing my wealth to my seeds
 

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Another reason why should marry a woman at your level or higher/


These women tend to not be against prenups. All my successful lady friends support prenups
This! All the women I know with money aren’t opposed to a pre-nup, they said they aren’t getting married without one. The ones with no money trying to guilt niccas with that “you must not trust her, why get married then” nonsense :mjlol:
 

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Allowance and obedience are words in the English langage. If a woman is upset at words then she need to take her ass to a therapist to work out her psychological issues.

And your wife is your ward. It's the reason she moves into your house, changes her last name to match yours, and follows your leadership. But unfortunately we have a generation of men with broken spirits that don't even know they're supposed to be in charge.

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I don't put too much weight in a woman's profession in a relationship. Personally, her attitude, character and the way she carries herself are my main focal points.



What does marrying up mean to you?
I'm considering all of those things on top of yearly salary :yeshrug:


I want a woman with an equally high income because I want to main a high savings rate, grow my wealth and still actually live my life.

A broke woman severely limits that opportunity :yeshrug:
 

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Men need to marry at their level. This ideology that men marry down is an ideology that has done nothing for them. It’s all based on male ego.
In today's world, people are getting married for all the wrong reasons. Everything is a competition between the sexes to see who has the upper hand in the relationship.

Which is silly

But it also depends. My kids aren’t going to have an accounting dad married to a lady working at McDonald’s
A woman's profession does not equate to her ability as a mother. Don't care if she is an accountant but is repulsed by changing diapers.


I'm considering all of those things on top of yearly salary :yeshrug:


I want a woman with an equally high income because I want to main a high savings rate, grow my wealth and still actually live my life.

A broke woman severely limits that opportunity :yeshrug:
The people in here calling women broke, are missing the point. Before you get into a relationship, everything that you want in life, because it is your life, work to attain that on your own. You should not need your spouse's money to reach those goals. Her salary should only ADD to it.

A lot of men and women are missing out on a great life partner because of their personal standards. The overwhelming majority of men look for peace in a relationship because men learn at an early age to be self-sufficient and not have to be reliant on a woman to make ends meet.

And contrary to all the "I don't need no man" talk from birds on social media, most women intrinsically look for a man with stability, because most women don't want to be superimposed into the position of breadwinner.
 

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I get it, but this is a discussion for the wealthy. Y’all nikkas in here talking about prenups cause you dont want to lose your Toyota Tacoma
Not really. Donald Trump can afford to lose half his shyt and be OK. If I lose half my shyt, it's a wrap. I don't have the energy to build back up cos I ain't young no more.
 
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