This advice on prenups is probably the best I ever heard

[Rekkapryde]

If you do it the right way, and you both have your own lawyers, it will not be thrown out.

this.

 

[Geek Nasty]

He never explains how you get your stay at home wife to agree to a whatever allowance you give her or how much you have to put in the "our" fund

 

[Insensitive]

The best thing to do is to have a religious ceremony for the wedding but make some sort of legal contract that covers cohabitation, division of assets, etc. Without getting officially married. As mentioned before, prenups can be thrown out by a bytch ass judge.

Some of us are actually on that path though.
If I can achieve my goals, I'm easily on the path to $150k+ salary inside of 10 years, all along the way, I'm collecting
wealth. After a certain point, you're MORE LIKELY to be MORE SUCCESSFUL than any woman you're entertaining.

And it's better to protect yourself that to put yourself in harms way.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I've always had this thought process. 3 accounts. 2 personal and 1 for bills

Nobody knows what the future holds, it's best to keep things seperate.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Also don’t marry a stay at home mom. That pre-nup will mean nothing once the judge determines she’s accustomed to a certain lifestyle and you will be responsible that she maintains that lifestyle. Marry equal or up, never below.

This is a tired trope too. If a woman decides to be a stay at home mom, that's 100% on her, she shouldn't get rewarded alimony. The courts don't seem to care though.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I get it, but this is a discussion for the wealthy. Y’all nikkas in here talking about prenups cause you dont want to lose your Toyota Tacoma

No it's not. In the prenup you can specify that each party will pay for their own attorney fees in the event of a divorce, instead of the husband having to pay for both attorneys.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

He never explains how you get your stay at home wife to agree to a whatever allowance you give her or how much you have to put in the "our" fund

Reading shyt like this baffles my mind . We're arriving into our 3rd generation of men who seemingly have no clue how to be masculine.

You don't get her to agree to anything. You tell her what it is and she either stays or leaves. So if you tell her she gets a $500/mo allowance and she don't like it then tell her to get the fukk on and replace her with and obedient woman.

 

[BobbyWojak]

Only on thecoli is a stay at home mom a 'broke woman'

 

[BobbyWojak]

Reading shyt like this baffles my mind . We're arriving into our 3rd generation of men who seemingly have no clue how to be masculine.

You don't get her to agree to anything. You tell her what it is and she either stays or leaves. So if you tell her she gets a $500/mo allowance and she don't like it then tell her to get the fukk on and replace her with and obedient woman.

It's not even about obedience, it's common fukking sense, if she's not working where the fukk does she think the money is coming from? If she trust you enough to marry this isn't something she should be worried about.

'Allowance' and 'obedience' are harsh words to use, it's symbiotic, she's not your ward.

 

[Heafcliffe]

No prenup but this is how the wife and I get down.

I don't need to know what she spends her money on and vice versa.

We just keep that joint account accounted for and on lock.

After 10 years of marriage, we've yet to have a argument over money.

 

[Ashley Banks]

He never explains how you get your stay at home wife to agree to a whatever allowance you give her or how much you have to put in the "our" fund

I’m not a stay at home wife/mom but how we decide what goes into “our” bank account is if it’s for the house, cars, vacation, or kids, or holidays it goes in there and we have a certain amount we both put in there a month.

He spends less money on himself than I do and he pays more bills than me so he puts more money into it than me. Sometimes he’ll just tell me not pay anything that month so I won’t put anything into it. I guess you just have to find a woman that trusts your judgement, no use is trying it with someone that is against it.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Most self-made millionaires will tell you that marrying the right person is one of the most important things you can do to create wealth.

What he’s saying is true, but it’s also common sense. And if a woman doesn’t want an allowance as a stay at home “mother”, find a way to make your own ends or better yet, legally work for your husband and help create more wealth

 

[↓R↑LYB]

It's not even about obedience, it's common fukking sense, if she's not working where the fukk does she think the money is coming from? If she trust you enough to marry this isn't something she should be worried about.

'Allowance' and 'obedience' are harsh words to use, it's symbiotic, she's not your ward.

Allowance and obedience are words in the English langage. If a woman is upset at words then she need to take her ass to a therapist to work out her psychological issues.

And your wife is your ward. It's the reason she moves into your house, changes her last name to match yours, and follows your leadership. But unfortunately we have a generation of men with broken spirits that don't even know they're supposed to be in charge.

 

[Houston911]

Men don't marry up.

Plenty of men marry up

 

[Mike Nasty]

I look like giving a new bytch half my house/retirement/savings/cash/investments. she wasn't with me shooting in the gym

I'm not sure she can get the house if you had it before the marriage. Unless you're a dumbass and add her name to it, which I'm sure she would suggest.

I know a dude who got married and the chick immediately started talking about buying a new house. I told him she's doing that for a reason.