This generation's idea of dating makes me never want to date.

[Antwon Mitchell]

That's why for me personally I'm having trouble finding a girlfriend that I can seriously build a future with and be married, because nowadays alot of these well particularly young women pride themselves on playing dudes (and when I say play I'm not talking about money) emotionally like Lori Harvey "juggling between three men".

I don't want to wind up in a relationship with a woman that I'm getting emotionally attached to and then find out she got another man (or two) thinking they're about to sweep her off her feet as well. So yeah it's very hard to seriously date in this era, just like how dudes used to play women for sex and sometimes money well women now are playing men particularly when it comes to sex because these women will straight up tell you how much they're banking!

 

[Ain't That Something]

What I find amusing is the ideas that this is a new phenomenon as if women haven't been juggling dikks since forever ago

 

[badtguy]

Women are only doing what we've been doing to them for years and plus she did it to two big known dudes that be having girls on deck future and Trey songz. So what goes around comes around. She's young and trying to see what she likes and test the waters i'm sure she will be married by 30.

If marriage is the goal then sure.

But most age 25+ guys who are single and never been in a long term relationship are not quality guys or the types who have "ideal" marriages

These types of women will have to compromise something, sexual attraction, wealth or fedelity- being the wife of a guy who has other women.

Or they'll be single and lonely.

22 is graduating college age most chick's I know that we're gf material in college are either engaged or married by 28. only single ones are the just got out of a LTR or straight thots.

 

[I Really Mean It]

When it comes to women, a lot of black men are poor judges of character. After looking at a fat ass and cute face, they automatically start drooling and plotting on how to get in the drawers, never giving any consideration to how thoughtful or humorous or kind the object of their lust might be. Call me gay, but I'm not attracted to thots.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

These the women y'all mess with

You simps heard them Y'all better get on code

 

[Red Comp]

You just need to weed these people out and avoid them. The silly thing is there are dudes that go along with women who say this. I've seen dudes say "a woman doesn't owe you anything unless she's your wife" on this forum.

Someone has to be really stupid to think that allowing your spouse to do what they want until they're rewarded with marriage is going to end well. Being loyal, having standards, and having respect for your spouse isn't something that's turned on like a light switch. I'm not checking for any female that has this childish toxic mentality.

Beautiful.

Men are starting to get it.

 

[NinoBrown]

What's the issue then, she's 22 now, let her do her thing

Just saying most dudes don't want the town pump....

 

[Gold]

I feel sorry for her because Future's gonna get her pregnant & she don't even know it.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

The chickens have come home to roost....

They just doing what we been doing since the dawn of time.....eventually this wave will die down when you see all these washed up hoes with no ring, couple of kids and single all up in the club....

The universe will balance itself back to normal just gonna be a little while

that's already happening. I see depressed single females age 28-35 daily... some are finally trying the "good man" route and others still don't know what they want

 

[The Message]

single mom....she was on her period so she wouldn't have to go all the way (manipulation tactic); started randomly canceling dates and moving them to the next day, or just flat out not texting me the day we had setup something.

New year's came around and she randomly invites me to a party 1 hour before it started, only to get mad that I was only going to drop by and not stay the whole time.

it was flags on the play well before that party. you shouldve been left this broad alone and avoided all that foolishness.

invites you to a party an hour before it started honestly breh...she thought you were a sucka

chick is a single mom...she better had been approaching you with THREE THOUSAND percent cooperation from the beginning.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

nikka literally made a thread like

"Oh my gawd hoes is being hoes,
When did this start guys?"

 

[Hawaiian Punch]

Listen it’s all good for chicks being like this, as long as they realize they biological clock shorter than men. Take Derek Jeter for example. Dude was a player until his late 30s and once he decides to settle down in his 40s he managed to easily pop out 1 kid and another on the way. The woman example of that is Gabrielle Union. Barren womb, man got a sidechick pregnant and you gotta settle for an adopted baby. Reason? Biological clock.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Let twitter dictate dating, brehs.

 

[Reece]

She’s not that good looking. She’s just okay like pizza from Pizza Hut is okay. I don’t understand how she got multiple rich nikkas after her.

 

[daboywonder2002]

Honestly I don't see anything wrong with dating around. That goes for men and women. Honestly, it's hard to know what you really want until you experience it. No one is obligated to do anything. You're not obligated to have sex, to commit, marry or anything else. Do you go for the first job offer your receive? No. When selling your house, do you take the first offer? NO. And I get my analogy is sort of bad because with jobs and houses, you take the highest bid. My thing is be single, learn about what you want in a relationship and go from there. The only way you are gonna find out is by dating.