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Aint nothin to front about. Aint nothin sad about it. Its neither exciting or weary. it just is what it is. nikkas aint gotta be overly emotional about everything. Some of ya'll is some Ricki Lake Maury ass nikkas..talkin about what you will and wont do. Birds are gonna fly my nikkas.

Point in case, youve been in little to no relationships if youve never encountered a girl who still speaks, spoke to or received message from their ex before. Ol 7th grade my first girlfriend ass nikkas. You might be that nikka right now callin ur ex whos seeing someone new talkin about "lets talk :sadcam:" Ol lemme just see you one more time ass nikkas.

In typical dating\relationships sometimes you gotta let that shyt go and if it comes back well, maybe it was meant to be or not. Some of you nikkas are one and done ass nikkas anyway. Ol she didnt talk to me for 1 week im never talkin to her again. She fukked Chauncey I cant believe that bytch ass nikkas. I cant fault you though, if your pops bounced on ur moms, you might be one of those I dont need a bytch ass nikkas, thinkin fukk hoes i'll get another. You might want to stick around for a lil bit though, you never know what can happen you might actually end up with something good.



breh did you really type all of this and you telling me there's no emotion in the situation for you?

sometimes you meet someone and the timing is off so you gotta KIM and like you said "maybe it was meant to be or not". but the way you worded the thread it seems you were trying to put up a false bravado of being neutral when you really :to:
 

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breh did you really type all of this and you telling me there's no emotion in the situation for you?

sometimes you meet someone and the timing is off so you gotta KIM and like you said "maybe it was meant to be or not". but the way you worded the thread it seems you were trying to put up a false bravado of being neutral when you really :to:

nah my standpoint was purely neutral...i wasnt sweatin, lookin at pictures of us thinking about all the fun we've had, hopin we get to make more memories. i was like damn..this weekend im sharing that girl :manny:

if me and her are together for like 7months then this dude come out the blue then im gonna have some type of emotional standpoint, either anger, jealousy, frustration or something..but now like i said it just is what it is

you cant expect to start a new dating cycle or relationship with someone who just go out of one and not go through this...she knows all about the girl who is stalking me and leaving notes on my car...im sure for some people its like aight you do you resolve that issue and get back to me, but she sticks around...she does find it weird when she spends the night and we leave in the morning and theirs a note on my windshield....but that hasnt stopped her from callin or kickin it. like she openly said her prior relationship is a sore spot. i expect her to be more guarded than she is but just because theres something there im not gonna run away with my tail between my legs...
 
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nah my standpoint was purely neutral...i wasnt sweatin, lookin at pictures of us thinking about all the fun we've had, hopin we get to make more memories. i was like damn..this weekend im sharing that girl :manny:

if me and her are together for like 7months then this dude come out the blue then im gonna have some type of emotional standpoint, either anger, jealousy, frustration or something..but now like i said it just is what it is

you cant expect to start a new dating cycle or relationship with someone who just go out of one and not go through this...she knows all about the girl who is stalking me and leaving notes on my car...im sure for some people its like aight you do you resolve that issue and get back to me, but she sticks around...she does find it weird when she spends the night and we leave in the morning and theirs a note on my windshield....but that hasnt stopped her from callin or kickin it. like she openly said her prior relationship is a sore spot. i expect her to be more guarded than she is but just because theres something there im not gonna run away with my tail between my legs...



:yes: breh you seem to have a good understanding of the position you suppose to play. its just that first initial post started off on the wrong foot. wolves had to prey :shaq:
 

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Wait quick question. Is it possible that she was hanging out with some chicks from out of town?
 

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:yes: breh you seem to have a good understanding of the position you suppose to play. its just that first initial post started off on the wrong foot. wolves had to prey :shaq:

Oh believe me. I know, Im human. I think I know every damn thing. I went with my feelings, thoughts and intuitions and I posted in the midst of it. When I should have used logic. I should have said from the get go.. "Who comin in from outta town?" She would have said her girl and that woulda been it.
 
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I mean emac :manny: you seems like a dude who knows your situation. you chillin and thats that. i respect it. just continue to keep the cards open.
 
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OP sounds like :wtb:

A nikka who controls situation doesn't go on a message board and post walls of text about sharing his girl confronting other nikkas in the process.

nikka you sound dramatic as fukk.

fukk you. :smugdraper:
 

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Just looking at those pics, she seems like she is in the clubs fairly often. I can't really see her as the wifing type to be 100% honest with you. The fact that she is kind of seeing you, but then letting an ex or whoever swoop through and mash it out and won't answer her phone for you tells you all you need to know. NEVER and I mean never wait up on a chick. 85% of how a woman will deal with you is how much she feels you. If she really wanted to take it on that other level with you, she ain't gonna let another guy come over and get her bang on because she'd be too concerned with you and how you'd perceive that situation. I'm telling you, at most, ya'll might sleep together, but if you make it official with her it's going to be some funny business with her disappearing on occasions. Mane you in that buddy, sweet romantic guy zone while the other cat is on the don't gotta do a thang but swoop through and blast it out zone. You are NOT in a great position with her, so my advice? Chill with her now and then, but only when you feel like it, but move on and talk to other women. Do NOT wait on her and hope she handles her business to get with you. If she really wanted you like that, wouldn't be no such thing as some fella coming through.
 
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