This weekend Im sharing her

[OH SOHH TRILL]

the dark one on the right is pregnant...not even big news

your girl went to wake forest, right?

 

[BedRoomI'z]

 

[OH SOHH TRILL]

she did. this chick is not the "way" you described her in the op. when will you negros learn that just because a chick is good looking, doesn't mean she ain't a smut.

 

[emac]

Just looking at those pics, she seems like she is in the clubs fairly often.

elaborate. ur a pretty level headed cat that has been known to drop knowledge here and there. Your wrong (she doesnt like social situations like bars\clubs) but, I still would like your input.

I can't really see her as the wifing type right now man to be 100% honest with you.

I would hope not. considering your not seeing her at all. although I wouldnt consider it a dap if you said 'lock it down son, I would!'

The fact that she is kind of seeing you, but then letting an ex or whoever swoop through and mash it out and won't answer her phone for you tells you all you need to know. NEVER and I mean never wait up on a chick. 85% of how a woman will deal with you is how much she feels you. If she really wanted to take it on that other level with you, she ain't gonna let another guy come over and get her bang on because she'd be too concerned with you and how you'd perceive that situation. I'm telling you, at most, ya'll might sleep together, but if you make it official with her it's going to be some funny business with her disappearing on occasions. Mane you in that buddy, sweet romantic guy zone while the other cat is on the don't gotta do a thang but swoop through and blast it out zone.

What the hell are you talking about Kev?

You are NOT in a great position with her, so my advice? Chill with her now and then, but only when you feel like it, but move on and talk to other women. Do NOT wait on her and hope she handles her business to get with you. If she really wanted you like that, wouldn't be no such thing as some fella coming through.

Good looking out, I never have and never anticipate putting all my eggs in one basket. Im still scratchin my head wonderin about some of the shyt youve mentioned. I think your under the belief that shes the only broad in my phone and that her ex is blowin up her phone 12 hrs a day and poppin in every couple of weekends..It was a false flag....it wasnt her ex that came into town, it was her girl who just found out she's pregnant.

 

[kevm3]

This weekend she had a 'friend' come from out of town. Busy all weekend brehs Its ok, I had dinner with a breezy last night (friday)..I mean if it dont work out, it aint meant to be, but it was (still is) a dope experience finding a dope ass girl. Its never happened since water has been wet, but we might actually be friends if this ever does end. I honestly expect things to be cool and go back to 'new normal'. But we will see.

I'm havent talked to her since early friday cause I knew her 'friend from outta town' was comin...and Ima let her do her, then monday we will see whats up. I expect him to hit....

That's what you posted in your first reply. Sounded like a homeboy from out of town was coming through and probably was going to hit it.

Reason I say she looks like a club going girl is how she's dressed. Something about her just has a 'going out' vibe to me. I bet you if you ask her what her and her homegirl were up to on the weekend, she will say, 'oh we went out.' "Oh word, where ya'll go to?" "Oh we just had dinner and things like that." "Did you go to the club?" "yeah"

One thing a man needs to realize is that women LIE all the time. They stay playing roles for different dudes. You sit down with the freak of the neighborhood and get to chopping it up with her and you'll start thinking she's mad cool and she'll have you believing, "Man they were wrong about her. They don't know about this GEM I have right here. They are just jealous because she's not giving them any play." She ain't going to flat out tell you she goes out all the time. I just get the sense she does from all them outfits she be wearing, with those extra tight pants built for garnering attention. I might be wrong, but hey, I ain't doing nothing but being honest.

When a girl really feels you, she will find a way to get in contact with you, even if her homegirl is over. I know that for a fact. When a woman was really digging me, she would find a way to get in contact with me even if FAMILY was over. Her homegirl ain't occupying 100% of her time, so she could easily contact you. She just chose not to. When the women started losing interest, that's when all the excuses start coming of how they were busy with family and friends and this and that start coming. Maybe she might tell you her phone probably died when you tried to call her so she ain't get your ring or how she was just sooo busy but now is glad to see you.

When it comes down to it, most modern women got two categories they will put men in that they actually deal with. He can be that raw negro or he can be that romantic negro. The raw negro is the one who can stop in whenever, and she'll do whatever with him... she'll make time for him, but it ain't really no relationship. He doesn't have to spend a dime or even much time with her. On the other hand, she will have the romantic negro, the one who she will play prim and proper with and act like she doesn't do this or that with. He'll be the one taking her to dinner and listening to all her problems. She'll be friendly and cordial with him, but she won't be available for him on the weekends and will randomly be busy at unpredictable times. When he asks what she's doing, it'll always be how busy she was or how something came up... and that was because she was chilling with that negro that came raw with it or at least with her homegirl looking for that dude. She might tell you, "I want to take it slow... I don't want my heart broke and I just want a man I can love" to the romantic dude, but then you'll see her post random statuses on facebook talking about "ugh worst day ever... never make someone a priority when you're only an option" in reference to that dude that comes through but is smart enough not to lock her down.

 

[emac]

That's what you posted in your first reply. Sounded like a homeboy from out of town was coming through and probably was going to hit it.

Reason I say she looks like a club going girl is how she's dressed. Something about her just has a 'going out' vibe to me. I bet you if you ask her what her and her homegirl were up to on the weekend, she will say, 'oh we went out.' "Oh word, where ya'll go to?" "Oh we just had dinner and things like that." "Did you go to the club?" "yeah"

One thing a man needs to realize is that women LIE all the time. They stay playing roles for different dudes. You sit down with the freak of the neighborhood and get to chopping it up with her and you'll start thinking she's mad cool and she'll have you believing, "Man they were wrong about her. They don't know about this GEM I have right here. They are just jealous because she's not giving them any play." She ain't going to flat out tell you she goes out all the time. I just get the sense she does from all them outfits she be wearing, with those extra tight pants built for garnering attention. I might be wrong, but hey, I ain't doing nothing but being honest.

Thanks breh. And your right, like I said ur a level headed cat thats been known to drop some knowledge. Real recognize real. I just wanted to know ur thoughts thats why I asked when I told you to elaborate. She does dress cute but why not....Her girl is pregnant...shes a little excited but they didnt go dancin. Shes just as boring as I am, like I said we play tennis and go on ride bikes on the trail across the city and she plays softball. Or we might play some old school Mario 1, 3 or sonic....Im not here to validate her status or mine. I know women, you know women, we know women. There are some cats here that can and need to learn but im not that nikka, not in this situation anyway. But good lookin out.

 

[714562]

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[kevm3]

Boy, you gave the wolves what they wanted. Regardless all you are gonna see is her getting disrespected by some dude that planned all the foul ways he will degrade her on the plane ride over. I know because I've been that dude that beast a chick with another dude she is just "seeing", because thats what she calls you to him. Grab your sack, son...he pulling hair and putting his foot on the back of her neck while you taking some chick on a "date" paying for chicken tenders for yet aNOTHER broad that's friend zoning you.

Yeah this is real right here. As soon as a woman is ready to make a move, her boyfriend of however long is either just someone she is 'talking to' or 'seeing', or she magically got all kinds of problems with him, aka he doesn't pay enough attention to me, etc. Instead of that being her boyfriend, he's just that dude that I've been getting to know. That's what women call friendly fellas.

The boyfriends she still wants to mess with, that negro is the one she 'wanted more' out of but it didn't work out, aka he did his thing and she wanted to get a ring on her finger and he dipped. These days it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver.

 

[Rominati]

Yeah this is real right here. As soon as a woman is ready to make a move, her boyfriend of however long is either just someone she is 'talking to' or 'seeing', or she magically got all kinds of problems with him, aka he doesn't pay enough attention to me, etc. Instead of that being her boyfriend, he's just that dude that I've been getting to know. That's what women call friendly fellas.

The boyfriends she still wants to mess with, that negro is the one she 'wanted more' out of but it didn't work out, aka he did his thing and she wanted to get a ring on her finger and he dipped. These days it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver.

I think I found my new sig. Epic Game right here. Told from a OGs point of view.

 

[PabloEscobar]

I know women, you know women, we know women. There are some cats here that can and need to learn but im not that nikka, not in this situation anyway..

nikka FOH. in ur first post u was sounding like u were cool with raising dude seed once he knocked that whore up and washed his hands of her. Just because she wasnt doing what you suspected she was, doesnt change the fact that you were cool with ur initial thought. Its not about what her and her ex had its about you RESPECTING urself as a MAN.

 

[Family Man]

He's in love with the image that he has concocted of this bytch in his head. She aint really like that bro.

 

[Wildin]

nikka FOH. in ur first post u was sounding like u were cool with raising dude seed once he knocked that whore up and washed his hands of her. Just because she wasnt doing what you suspected she was, doesnt change the fact that you were cool with ur initial thought. Its not about what her and her ex had its about you RESPECTING urself as a MAN.

i read this entire thing. Never saw anything about seeds.

 

[Rominati]

your girl went to wake forest, right?

she did. this chick is not the "way" you described her in the op. when will you negros learn that just because a chick is good looking, doesn't mean she ain't a smut.

Gaaaawtdamm. nikkas in this thread didnt even peeped what jus happened. Slim starting feeling himself and posted up pics of his shorty a few pages back. And Oh Sohh Trill idenftified her. LMFAO.


So he went back and deleted all the pics of her.










And to make it worse. Homie even confirmed that shorty is NOTHING like how o/p desribed her . Coli/Sohh stay getting these fools in sticky situations lol. Damm son homie over her trying to save some reformed hoes

 

[Wildin]

Yeah this is real right here. As soon as a woman is ready to make a move, her boyfriend of however long is either just someone she is 'talking to' or 'seeing', or she magically got all kinds of problems with him, aka he doesn't pay enough attention to me, etc. Instead of that being her boyfriend, he's just that dude that I've been getting to know. That's what women call friendly fellas.

The boyfriends she still wants to mess with, that negro is the one she 'wanted more' out of but it didn't work out, aka he did his thing and she wanted to get a ring on her finger and he dipped. These days it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver.

You do a lot of talking but ain't really saying shyt I think op has an outlook, or had an outlook on sharing that intended to show that he wasn't down and out as most people tend to be. He wasn't cryin in the thread wondering how to win the girl or nothin just spitting the situation from a/his neutral standpoint.

At least that's what I think I'm gettin out of it. Kev I don't know what type of bizarro world you live in, but it sounds like nobody wins. Every guy is doggin some girl, every girl is doggin some guy.....

This thread really exposes some people, you don't need to comb through the 100+ comments to see who may need to log off and try dating some women in real life or at the very least talking to some.

 

[Wildin]

Gaaaawtdamm. nikkas in this thread didnt even peeped what jus happened. Slim starting feeling himself and posted up pics of his shorty a few pages back. And Oh Sohh Trill idenftified her. LMFAO.


So he went back and deleted all the pics of her.










And to make it worse. Homie even confirmed that shorty is NOTHING like how o/p desribed her . Coli/Sohh stay getting these fools in sticky situations lol. Damm son homie over her trying to save some reformed hoes

It could been that..there woulda/shoulda been a huge exposal unless Trill got busy or something....3 nikkas got on him about pics...ADD,Phonzi, and SoChi