Those of yall 27+ and older, has it become easier to find the type of mate you've wanted
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Chrishaune
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I was thinking about making a thread like this earlier.... YES... The older and younger females look at you as a potential mate much more for sure. A working black man can have his pick of the litter. Don't worry brehs your time is coming...
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
Very much so
fortheblessings
Banned
fukk your thread nikka, the warriors are gonna win again blowing out the thunder
I pray for the death of this monstrosity
I pray for the death of this monstrosity
Clark Griswold
Banned
I’m not looking for a mate or dates because the thought of both make me nauseous. I’m not sitting on my hands waiting for bytches either. The perfect bytch doesn’t exist and they are made to my liking when I meet them and they like me. Youngsters only for me too, 18-25.
I am 27 and have been married since 22. In my opinion, I would say the longer you wait, the harder it is to find a mate. By “mate”, I mean a woman that you can get along with, are attracted to, that doesn’t have any children.
If you find a woman who has good morals, good hygiene, takes care of herself, you find attractive, you get along with, has no children and is ready to settle down....you better scoop her up before someone else does or before she’s compromised. I don’t really believe in “soulmates”. As a man, I believe in finding someone like I stated above, and molding her (not changing her) into your soulmate. You both have to tolerate each other and things will never be perfect, though.
If you find a woman who has good morals, good hygiene, takes care of herself, you find attractive, you get along with, has no children and is ready to settle down....you better scoop her up before someone else does or before she’s compromised. I don’t really believe in “soulmates”. As a man, I believe in finding someone like I stated above, and molding her (not changing her) into your soulmate. You both have to tolerate each other and things will never be perfect, though.
Chrishaune
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I'd imagine it only seems that way because people start looking at realistic options as they get older
An old hungry lion might have to stop chasing young, fast gazelles and settle for a slow elephant
An old hungry lion might have to stop chasing young, fast gazelles and settle for a slow elephant
Dont tell thots this
They on fb telln us we need to settle down with a bytch with 3 kid n no job
.foh lol
They on fb telln us we need to settle down with a bytch with 3 kid n no job
.foh lol
Chrishaune
Veteran
I'd imagine it only seems that way because people start looking at realistic options as they get older
An old hungry lion might have to stop chasing young, fast gazelles and settle for a slow elephant
The young women too though.... They give you that vibe of wanting to be chosen. Not that all of them need to be chosen, but you can definitely tell more women are open to you.
I feel u, but it sounds like settling if you're not ready to settle down yet. Why you can't find a good woman as an older dude? She don't gotta be super young to you, but I feel it's possible for men to find good chick's at 30. Dudes be getting with hoes while they young, so it can happen anytime I think.
Lord_nikon
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You don't find the type of mate you want, You can only find the one that irritates you the least. 
ill_will82
What you see, is what you get
No.
I rather find my life first then figure out who I want as a mate.
I rather find my life first then figure out who I want as a mate.