To be honest, I'd be OK with a single mother...

[MikelArteta]

So u just wanna scrap a whole generation? That's kinda cold hearted. Out of curiosity, did u grow up in a single parent home? Just curious.

And yes, the behaviour that creates single mothers should be shunned but once the kid is here, u should really try to help a little instead of shunning. That's how I feel. I mean, obviously there are a lot of lost causes out there but my man @J-Nice has already put it very well, this is a case by case basis scenario.

Ur whole steez on this thread reminds me of Kurupt's verse on Xxplosive. Like why do you give a fukk so much? Where is all this anger coming from? What the fukk do u care what other men do? If its not for u, its not for u. That's cool. I just don't understand ur personal vendetta. Have u been wronged by a single mother before?

again with the simp menality

I already told you why I care, unlike folks here I actually volunteer in low income communities and see the decay of society first hand. I've worked in different courts and see first hands fatherless nikkaz filling up the jail system. I actually dated a chick who was molested by her step father, the highest molestation rate is between step fathers/ boyfriends and thier partners kids first hand.

Single mothers are scum and any nikak who wifes one is scum

pass up childless beautiful women for baggage filled ones brhes

 

[MikelArteta]

listen i try to help out with what i can. the wife works too. but when kids is constantly eating everything in sight. enough is enough. Until i had my own kids man, it didn't really hit you. but now things are different. now instead of a 2 bedroom house, you gotta get a 3 or a 4 bedroom. now instead of feeding one mouth to feed, you feeding 2-3 mouths. christmas comes up, you wanna spoil your seed but you cant because you dont want the stepkids to be left out.

why did you do it breh

 

[Roberto Dinero]

again with the simp menality

I already told you why I care, unlike folks here I actually volunteer in low income communities and see the decay of society first hand. I've worked in different courts and see first hands fatherless nikkaz filling up the jail system. I actually dated a chick who was molested by her step father, the highest molestation rate is between step fathers/ boyfriends and thier partners kids first hand.

Single mothers are scum and any nikak who wifes one is scum

pass up childless beautiful women for baggage filled ones brhes

I'm far from a simp breh. And I'm not looking for a single mom, I'm just saying I could wife one, in the right conditions. But OK breh. Whatever makes you happy. I don't have much else to say to you. Too much hateration, coming from a Christian brother. We're supposed to have compassion, breh. But I'm going to bed anyway. I'll holla tomorrow.

 

[Remote]

A woman with kids isn't most men's 1st choice.
But a man with kids isn't most women's 1st choice, either.

Some single mothers are reckless and caught up in drama and probably deserve some level of tough medicine. I get that.
But some single mothers are good women that just had a relationship that didn't work out, for a variety of reasons.

If you'll allow me to troll for a second...

Someone earlier in this thread said something about....like 79% of black women are single mothers and that they need to be shamed into choosing better men.
But doesn't that sort of imply that 79% of black men aint shyt?

Now obviously I don't think 79% of black men are bad. But I'm just saying...we gotta be careful about how we frame statistics around here.

 

[Roberto Dinero]

again with the simp menality

I already told you why I care, unlike folks here I actually volunteer in low income communities and see the decay of society first hand. I've worked in different courts and see first hands fatherless nikkaz filling up the jail system. I actually dated a chick who was molested by her step father, the highest molestation rate is between step fathers/ boyfriends and thier partners kids first hand.

Single mothers are scum and any nikak who wifes one is scum

pass up childless beautiful women for baggage filled ones brhes

I don't like the way ur going on with those kinds of comments either. Like who the fukk are you? But whatever makes you happy dude. That's all that matters. Comments like that make you seem corny to me though, tbh.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm far from a simp breh. And I'm not looking for a single mom, I'm just saying I could wife one, in the right conditions. But OK breh. Whatever makes you happy. I don't have much else to say to you. Too much hateration, coming from a Christian brother. We're supposed to have compassion, breh. But I'm going to bed anyway. I'll holla tomorrow.

Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

As for those who persist in sin, rebuke them in the presence of all, so that the rest may stand in fear.

 

[MikelArteta]

A woman with kids isn't most men's 1st choice.
But a man with kids isn't most women's 1st choice, either.

Some single mothers are reckless and caught up in drama and probably deserve some level of tough medicine. I get that.
But some single mothers are good women that just had a relationship that didn't work out, for a variety of reasons.

If you'll allow me to troll for a second...

Someone earlier in this thread said something about....like 79% of black women are single mothers and that they need to be shamed into choosing better men.
But doesn't that sort of imply that 79% of black men aint shyt?

Now obviously I don't think 79% of black men are bad. But I'm just saying...we gotta be careful about how we frame statistics around here.

20% of dudes get 80% of women

 

[ThatTruth777]

do you breh

 

[Roberto Dinero]

Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

As for those who persist in sin, rebuke them in the presence of all, so that the rest may stand in fear.

It doesn't seem like it comes from a righteous place with you at this very moment though. Seems like it comes from bitterness. But its all good.

And yeah, I don't think a lot of the single mother behaviour is something that we should condone but at the same time you act like you've never made a mistake in ur life. Anyway, this topic has been but I'll holla tomorrow.

 

[MikelArteta]

It doesn't seem like it comes from a righteous place with you at this very moment though. Seems like it comes from bitterness. But its all good.

And yeah, I don't think a lot of the single mother behaviour is something that we should condone but at the same time you act like you've never made a mistake in ur life. Anyway, this topic has been but I'll holla tomorrow.

truth hurts

 

[Roberto Dinero]

truth hurts

Not really. Truth is enlightening. It just sounds like you've had some kind of bad experience with a single mother, on some level. Otherwise, why would you be so militantly against it? I dunno, I'm not a shrink. But its all good. Its all a learning curve. Saying ALL single mothers ain't shyt is just silly...

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Brothas trading in their cars for mini vans

 

[mamba]

My parents have been married for over 30 years. My close female friends aren't single mothers. And I'm not a fatherless simp.

You don't have to directly relate to a situation in order to support it. Not everyone thinks like you and there's no need to try and label or put people who have differing opinions down.

Communities that have been undermined by it should not support it.

Many of the problems in the Black community, currently, have nothing to do with the white man. They have a lot to do with fatherless nikkas running around with a lack of discipline and direction. They have a lot to do with fatherless chicks running around with a lack of self-esteem. The fatherless seeds repeat the cycle and we continue to see our community and culture degrade.

Deadbeat nikkas and their single mother counterparts should be shamed into oblivion.

@GiGi , what do you think?

@Yup

 

[Desirous]

Communities that have been undermined by it should not support it.

Many of the problems in the Black community, currently, have nothing to do with the white man. They have a lot to do with fatherless nikkas running around with a lack of discipline and direction. They have a lot to do with fatherless chicks running around with a lack of self-esteem. The fatherless seeds repeat the cycle and we continue to see our community and culture degrade.

Deadbeat nikkas and their single mother counterparts should be shamed into oblivion.

...what's that have to do with him saying that only those people support single mothers?

You're not shaming the deadbeat fathers...this thread is only bashing single mothers. Also, you realize that children without a father are more likely to repeat their deadbeat dad's mistake...that is the cycle that will repeat itself. They will not know what a two parent home is, as opposed to someone who gets to experience that.

 

[mamba]

...what's that have to do with him saying that only those people support single mothers?

You're not shaming the deadbeat fathers...this thread is only bashing single mothers. Also, you realize that children without a father are more likely to repeat their deadbeat dad's mistake...that is the cycle that will repeat itself. They will not know what a two parent home is, as opposed to someone who gets to experience that.

I'm on the record saying both need to be shamed into oblivion. The social penalty is what's needed in the Black community. Currently, there's no social penalty for c00ning, creating OOW children, etc. That needs to change.

Women with children should try to marry men with children. Single, childless men rewarding single mothers with marriage and commitment is a reward for reckless behavior.