he actually has proved that he's black:erroneous:
You don't want a Black woman period.... why are you concerned?.... you clearly have an agenda... tell the truth.... you are white...
To the 30 Year + Plus Singles
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Encountering hardship is normal....communication not just before but during and after various situations is needed.... you have to make sure that the partner you select has the communication and teamwork skills to overcome that hardship.
You should really stop trying to perverse my words and twist them into some "sordid angry bitter woman who wants to fight with her partner" hate speech.
You know very well that is not what I am saying.
...women like me?..... what do you know about women like me?
As for the bolded, I'm not insinuating your some bitter broad. I don't know how many nikkas throw you in the bushes, that's a convo for you and your therapist.
What I am saying is for some reason, you feel relationships should have hardship, and that's a psychological issue that you should work out before getting with someone.
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Most nikkas really ain't looking for career women though (that's that shyt hoes look for in us).
Obviously I'm speaking for myself here, but most dudes would trade in that career women for a broad who's goal is to make her career her family.
a)More blacker? -Damn right...
b)Why will you marry a light-skinned woman? (don't tell me what is wrong with dark skin.... tell me what is great about light-skin)--I prefer lightskinned women. especially the mixed ones. I just think they look better. Nothing more just preference. Just like a woman can prefer a 7 foot nikka with Shemar moore looks, I prefer women who are lighter.
c) most women have children by 30? And it still means some don't have...Black women like drama so it's only natural they have kids by then and scream on facebook about how their baby daddy aint shyt.
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Nah, B.
Maybe YOU dont. But I do and most dudes that I know do too. I refuse to be with a woman who i'd have to support in a marriage and probably support in a divorce (alimony and sh!t). I need me a female who can help me build wealth.
And before you say it's only for rich mofos please know that I personally know dudess making $60K a year paying alimony to their ex wives.
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Why are we discussing single black women who are 30+? If you are a 30-year old male you don't need to be dating women who are also 30. Unless you are 
you should be able to get women in their 20's with no issue.
I'm approaching your age but I look like I'm 22 face wise. It's nothing for me to talk to 24-year old women. I just be careful. If they got kids and daddy issues, it's
.. I'm not trying to raise someone else's family.
you should be able to get women in their 20's with no issue.I'm approaching your age but I look like I'm 22 face wise. It's nothing for me to talk to 24-year old women. I just be careful. If they got kids and daddy issues, it's
.. I'm not trying to raise someone else's family.
tbh for me there is no rush, each relationships helps me weed out what I don't one in the next one, people say I'm too picky but a relationship is not supposed to be a pain in the ass, as much as I loved the last girl I was seeing a couple of months ago when we stopped dealing with each other it felt like weight was being lifted off my shoulders
Encountering hardships in a relationship is NOT normal. The fact you think it is why I used the word anarchy. When you think about the relationships you have with people who are not fukking you, do you encounter hardships with them? Your mom, siblings, coworkers, friends, boss, etc?
Now if those relationships are dysfunctional, then yes you'll have a shyt ton of problems with them. But that shyt is not the norm. So your homework for this weekend is for you to figure out why hardship and struggle is the norm for you when you're with someone.
Why do you keep equating hardships with fighting with your partners or members of your circle?
People lose their jobs, people die, people have health scares. That's a natural part of life. Learning how to work through those things with people is a struggle.
I am gonna give a personal example since you seem to not understand what I am saying.
My grandmother and great grandmother died within the same week. I was an apple in their eyes and my great grandmother was the G.O.A.T matron. The gentleman that I was with didn't know how to deal with that type of heaviness and I didn't know how to communicate my immense amount of grief. We struggled to maintain our bond. Had we known how to discuss our issues and needs, we would have been actively struggling through it.
You can't discuss that in advance. You never know what is going to happen and how people are going to react. Hell, I didn't know how I was going to react to that situation. People learn an grow everyday, B. and if you want a partnership, you have to learn with them. THAT is difficult. I am done responding because I know that you just want to label me argumentative.... I ain't not with that wave....
The age for Mexicans at age 20
Can't argue with this
I think some dudes are afraid of just being honest with what they want since the females in their circles tend to shame them for what they prefer out of a woman.85 percent of the coli is black
And this too is true, can't argue with that either
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Before we go deeper in this conversation first question I need to know is how many certs you got
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
That's a damn lie. 95% of this site are cacs (curry cacs, mexicacs, yellow cacs, even a couple Africacs)
Nope.
