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Would you recommed waiting that long to settle down or is the pickings slimmer at that age?
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The pickings are slim but the guys I run into a lot more put together. Don't get it confused because deep down inside, these nikkas ain't shyt either! :pachaha:
 

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Anarchy is the best way to describe the mentality that's in your head. Look at the phrase you used: find someone to struggle with. Not find someone to build with. But find someone whose dysfunction you can tolerate.

Balancing schedules, finances, and parenthood is the struggle you're referencing? shyt that should be a conversation you have way early in the relationship to make sure you're even compatible in the first place.

Like I said, women like you are dangerous because in your mind, having struggle in a relationship is normal.
Encountering hardship is normal....communication not just before but during and after various situations is needed.... you have to make sure that the partner you select has the communication and teamwork skills to overcome that hardship.
You should really stop trying to perverse my words and twist them into some "sordid angry bitter woman who wants to fight with her partner" hate speech.
You know very well that is not what I am saying.


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Women like colicat love drama and arguments.

:mjlol:...women like me?..... what do you know about women like me?
 

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As long as you are not a woman and have a decent job as a man no need to be in a hurry.

But at 30 you can forget with getting with a black woman without kids.
It's equivalent to finding a unicorn.

That shyt doesn't exist
 

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As long as you are not a woman and have a decent job as a man no need to be in a hurry.

But at 30 you can forget with getting with a black woman without kids.
It's equivalent to finding a unicorn. That shyt doesn't exist
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You don't want a Black woman period.... why are you concerned? :comeon:.... you clearly have an agenda... tell the truth.... you are white...
 

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They're is so many sexy Chinese Japanese Vietnamese women that can cook then smush
My dude just pick up a mail order bride, it's a bunch of women that compete for you
 

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You don't want a Black woman period.... why are you concerned? :comeon:.... you clearly have an agenda... tell the truth.... you are white...
30+ year old single black woman without kids :mjlol:

come on even you know that's a stretch. Most of them will have baby daddies by then.
I will marry a lightskinned black woman. I have said it so many times.
Preferably a mixed one.

2nd gen African here...I'm more blacker than you....FACT.
 

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Encountering hardship is normal....communication not just before but during and after various situations is needed.... you have to make sure that the partner you select has the communication and teamwork skills to overcome that hardship.
You should really stop trying to perverse my words and twist them into some "sordid angry bitter woman who wants to fight with her partner" hate speech.
You know very well that is not what I am saying.

Encountering hardships in a relationship is NOT normal. The fact you think it is why I used the word anarchy. When you think about the relationships you have with people who are not fukking you, do you encounter hardships with them? Your mom, siblings, coworkers, friends, boss, etc?

Now if those relationships are dysfunctional, then yes you'll have a shyt ton of problems with them. But that shyt is not the norm. So your homework for this weekend is for you to figure out why hardship and struggle is the norm for you when you're with someone :mjpls:.
 

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At that age you find more ACCOMPLISHED women who have worked on building themselves up and their careers and are now ready for a partner. As opposed to the club hopper chicks you used to come accross in their 20s who swear they're the sh!t but arent
 

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30+ year old single black woman without kids :mjlol:

come on even you know that's a stretch. Most of them will have baby daddies by then.
I will marry a lightskinned black woman. I have said it so many times.
Preferably a mixed one.
2nd gen African here...I'm more blacker than you....FACT.

a)More blacker?

b)Why will you marry a light-skinned woman? (don't tell me what is wrong with dark skin.... tell me what is great about light-skin)

c) most women have children by 30? And it still means some don't have...
 
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