got gems in this thread as usual
I'm 32, my girl 25. Get you a young tender with her head on straight looking for some guidance and![]()
This makes sense to me these days. Some women our age lose focus with what's current.Would you recommed waiting that long to settle down or is the pickings slimmer at that age?
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Encountering hardship is normal....communication not just before but during and after various situations is needed.... you have to make sure that the partner you select has the communication and teamwork skills to overcome that hardship.Anarchy is the best way to describe the mentality that's in your head. Look at the phrase you used: find someone to struggle with. Not find someone to build with. But find someone whose dysfunction you can tolerate.
Balancing schedules, finances, and parenthood is the struggle you're referencing? shyt that should be a conversation you have way early in the relationship to make sure you're even compatible in the first place.
Like I said, women like you are dangerous because in your mind, having struggle in a relationship is normal.
Daps
Women like colicat lovedrama and arguments.
...women like me?..... what do you know about women like me?who hurt uThe pickings are slim but the guys I run into a lot more put together. Don't get it confused because deep down inside, these nikkas ain't shyt either!
:erroneous:As long as you are not a woman and have a decent job as a man no need to be in a hurry.
But at 30 you can forget with getting with a black woman without kids.
It's equivalent to finding a unicorn. That shyt doesn't exist
.... you clearly have an agenda... tell the truth.... you are white...Just make sure you are not the contingency plan.
This makes sense to me these days. Some women our age lose focus with what's current.


30+ year old single black woman without kids:erroneous:
You don't want a Black woman period.... why are you concerned?.... you clearly have an agenda... tell the truth.... you are white...

Not even really about their focus, younger broads just look better
Just make sure you got them certs![]()
Cause they focused on looking good, gym memberships and knowing it.
Encountering hardship is normal....communication not just before but during and after various situations is needed.... you have to make sure that the partner you select has the communication and teamwork skills to overcome that hardship.
You should really stop trying to perverse my words and twist them into some "sordid angry bitter woman who wants to fight with her partner" hate speech.
You know very well that is not what I am saying.
.30+ year old single black woman without kids
come on even you know that's a stretch. Most of them will have baby daddies by then.
I will marry a lightskinned black woman. I have said it so many times.
Preferably a mixed one.
2nd gen African here...I'm more blacker than you....FACT.