To the 30 Year + Plus Singles

[↓R↑LYB]

Why do you keep equating hardships with fighting with your partners or members of your circle?

People lose their jobs, people die, people have health scares. That's a natural part of life. Learning how to work through those things with people is a struggle.
I am gonna give a personal example since you seem to not understand what I am saying.

My grandmother and great grandmother died within the same week. I was an apple in their eyes and my great grandmother was the G.O.A.T matron. The gentleman that I was with didn't know how to deal with that type of heaviness and I didn't know how to communicate my immense amount of grief. We struggled to maintain our bond. Had we known how to discuss our issues and needs, we would have been actively struggling through it.

You can't discuss that in advance. You never know what is going to happen and how people are going to react. Hell, I didn't know how I was going to react to that situation. People learn an grow everyday, B. and if you want a partnership, you have to learn with them. THAT is difficult. I am done responding because I know that you just want to label me argumentative.... I ain't not with that wave....

None of what I bolded should be normal though, that's my whole point. My mom had kidney disease for about 10 years and she just had a transplant. My girls mom had breast cancer and needed to have a double mastectomy.

But as I said, those scenarios are not normal.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Nope.

You right, 98%. I should have rounded up.

 

[JasonSJackson]

I recommend following your own truth on this one.

 

[www.THUG.com]

who hurt u

e'rybody I ever talked to, LOL

 

[mbewane]

That's a damn lie. 95% of this site are cacs (curry cacs, mexicacs, yellow cacs, even a couple Africacs)

 

[intruder]

Before we go deeper in this conversation first question I need to know is how many certs you got

I have a Bachelors degree in EET/TCET.

 

[intruder]

That's a damn lie. 95% of this site are cacs (curry cacs, mexicacs, yellow cacs, even a couple Africacs)

Stop lying to yourself B. 3/4 users on the coli are black and majority of those are american. The white, latino and asian pop on the coli is small. Hell SOHH had far more diversity than the coli.

 

[beck]

your best days should always be always ahead of you...thats how you stay young

 

[Dig]

30+ year old single black woman without kids

come on even you know that's a stretch. Most of them will have baby daddies by then.
I will marry a lightskinned black woman. I have said it so many times.
Preferably a mixed one.

2nd gen African here...I'm more blacker than you....FACT.

My main is 30, has her degree, and doesn't have any kids.. She got five years on me so it prolly don't work down the road but

 

[The Bilingual Gringo]

Pickings are fine, the appeal of having someone that's around my age (35) is good because chances are they established, have their own stream of income. Unless @Emperor_ReinScarf comes and shoots this down about professional women cheating.

But honestly, my 30's have been better to me than my 20's, cash flow and overall quality of life is far improved. Girls in their mid 20's are pretty easily bagged at this point in life.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

@ dudes being scared to turn 30

If u playin the game right thats when the cash spigot should be wide open

Plus thats when u have access to women from 30 down

Its a no brainer

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I have a Bachelors degree in EET/TCET.

So that would be 0

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Stop lying to yourself B. 3/4 users on the coli are black and majority of those are american. The white, latino and asian pop on the coli is small. Hell SOHH had far more diversity than the coli.

You're wrong breh. I got equations and shyt

 

[intruder]

So that would be 0

I actually have 1 cert on top of my degree and taking a class for another and studying on my own for a third
My skillset and work experience speaks for itself. I know i need to get some certs but it's not an immediate need right now

 

[intruder]

You're wrong breh. I got equations and shyt

You're just a delusional black dude who wants to blame other ethnicities when you see our fellow black males doing dumb sh!t on the site.

The first step to fixing a problem is admitting you have one, doggy.