To the people that live with your significant other, let me ask you something real quick...

[InGodWeTrust]

Shes adopted and her parents didn't like her dating someone like me bc she was in all AP classes and I was dabbling in the illegal sales of pharmaceuticals. They told her either leave me or get out so she left. My mom has a big heart and didn't want to see someone on the street with so much going for them in life after all she's been thru so she let her live with us. Been with her ever since

“Sex Luthor”
“I’m like kryptonite to these thots”
But been with your girl since 15

 

[Gunz&Butta]

It's a no brainer. She'd rather live her boyfriend than live with her lil brother and his girlfriend.

The moment she checks him out and finds out he's not a serial killer, she's moving in with him, it's not about being with him for 7 months or 7 weeks.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

We moved in together 2 days after we were married. She’d stay at my crib from time to time but none of that shackin’ up shyt.

 

[old pig]

Shes adopted and her parents didn't like her dating someone like me bc she was in all AP classes and I was dabbling in the illegal sales of pharmaceuticals. They told her either leave me or get out so she left. My mom has a big heart and didn't want to see someone on the street with so much going for them in life after all she's been thru so she let her live with us. Been with her ever since

your mom let you have in-house p*ssy at 15…what a bless-ed woman

 

[Solomon Lurke]

We moved in together 2 days after we were married. She’d stay at my crib from time to time but none of that shackin’ up shyt.

Pretty much same here. Prior to marriage she would maybe stay a night or occasional few days at my place once her parents we very comfortable with me. Just out of respect for her parents, for most of our relationship I still took home at the end of the night. We got married then a few days later blindly moved crossed country.

With that said I think it’s more about figuring out how the way you like to live works with the way the other person lives and finding that balance more than it is about timing. OPs situation is unique and similar to wife’s parents in that they basically grew up together. Where as my wife and I were very grown adults by the time we lived together. I had lived on my own for a long time and she had never. So it takes a little time to learn each other’s ways and to find those compromises to have a balanced peaceful home. Being two people in a 3 bedroom place doesn’t hurt either. Having separate areas helps a lot during this time when life happens more in the house.

 

[Solomon Lurke]

your mom let you have in-house p*ssy at 15…what a bless-ed woman

OP gotta have mad kids at this point

 

[Tr0yTV]

If ya girl got emancipated. Then moved in with your mom. Would that make her your sister?

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Pretty much same here. Prior to marriage she would maybe stay a night or occasional few days at my place once her parents we very comfortable with me. Just out of respect for her parents, for most of our relationship I still took home at the end of the night. We got married then a few days later blindly moved crossed country.

With that said I think it’s more about figuring out how the way you like to live works with the way the other person lives and finding that balance more than it is about timing. OPs situation is unique and similar to wife’s parents in that they basically grew up together. Where as my wife and I were very grown adults by the time we lived together. I had lived on my own for a long time and she had never. So it takes a little time to learn each other’s ways and to find those compromises to have a balanced peaceful home. Being two people in a 3 bedroom place doesn’t hurt either. Having separate areas helps a lot during this time when life happens more in the house.

I think one thing that helps is to be with someone that comes from a similar background or shares the same values as you. This way you can kind of gauge how they will approach cohabitation. A lot of people try to make things work with someone they’re unevenly yolked with and lose their way after getting side swiped by some fukkry.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I personally think you shouldn’t move in together unless marriage is on the table (in the immediate future meaning within 6 months) otherwise DONT move in together. Been there done that. All the drama of the break down of the relationship and then the whole process of looking for a place, moving out. Nah.

 

[RARI_Godwind]

Has your sister been in other relationships or lived with any of her ex’s? Does she already spend a lot of or most of her free time with him or at his place? Do they have upcoming plans together? If the answers to those kind of questions are yes then I don’t think it’s a rushed decision.

If she’s in her 30’s she more or less knows how things go and how to weigh pros and cons. If she’s serious about the guy, and he about her, it surely makes sense.

 

[Sex Luthor]

your mom let you have in-house p*ssy at 15…what a bless-ed woman

I wasn't expecting her to say she could stay. Like I said shes adopted so she didn't have any other family there. My mom felt that bc my oldest brother is adopted too.

 

[Sex Luthor]

OP gotta have mad kids at this point

Nope. Don't have any. Pull out game is A1. I remember when she moved in my mom gave me a bag of rubbers. I had them shyts forever. She thought nothing was going on but I just wasn't using them

We had a few scares but we lost one a while ago before birth. After she lost that one she never really want to go thru that again so we don't try

 

[the bossman]

but we lost one a while ago before birth. After she lost that one she never really want to go thru that again so we don't try

Damn breh sorry to hear. How did you feel when you found out she lost the baby

 

[Sex Luthor]

Damn breh sorry to hear. How did you feel when you found out she lost the baby

One of the worst times of my life honestly. I was upset bc it was my first and only child, upset for her bc she went thru hell for months, my mom took it hard and I was only 19.

 

[Spence]

I think it was about 3 or 4 months but it was more out of convenience than anything else. Her father was abusive, I didn’t want to go back to the dorms, so we said fk it lets combine our finances and see where it goes.