Tomi Lahren says “what happened to young men? They are lazy and don’t want to have families the want to order door dash from their mom basement” 🥶

[AAKing23]

I don’t understand what you mean here. I was saying that you could definitely #bothsides the gender war.

I know what you meant. I was posing more of a general comment to the poster you responded to and should have quoted him.


I just notice the pattern that men are fine to be talked at, fussed about or chastised on the Internet but the minute men respond it's deemed as complaining and bytching on the male side.

But I guess that's more of a testament why men just shouldn't say shyt and move in silence

 

[Pirius Black]

If any of y'all are interested, I'd recommend the book Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves. White dude but he puts an emphasis in the book on the struggles that Black male youths encounter in the school system (plus similar to a suggestion made by @Wiseborn , he advises boys starting a year later and in a separate track than the girls.) I'm currently reading the Boy's Crisis and the Marva Collins Way. I love seeing the gains that the girls have made but our guys need support in the worst way.

@Wiseborn I think the data with male students checking out in 4th grade coincides with reading and literacy milestones not being met. If a kid isn't reading at a proficient level by the 4th grade, they will fall further and further behind. And if a kid can't even understand what's in front of them, how can you expect them to be engaged? Lot's of kids fall off of a cliff in 4th grade and the next major literacy milestone is 8th grade. If a kid isn't reading at a basic level of proficiency by then, the cake as they say is already baked.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

If a man doesn't want a family, that's perfectly fine, but if that is the case, that dude should at least have his own place instead of living with his momma.

I disagree. As someone who has lived alone. It becomes boring and pointless. It's god to have alone time, but I found myself spending most of my time away from home. It's just a waste of money. Of course this ain't a once size fits all, but i definately understanding living at home if you have no intentions of starting a family,

 

[Peruvian Connect]

We need more rich uncles and aunties in the world. I wish I had better relationship with my nieces but my sister is jealous that I wasn't dumb enough to let a man sit down and become a baby momma like she did. My niece would be so much better off if we have relationship.

Oh well. I'm taking my money to go see Beyonce.

You should buy tickets for your sister and nieces. Great shared experience

 

[Wiseborn]

If any of y'all are interested, I'd recommend the book Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves. White dude but he puts an emphasis in the book on the struggles that Black male youths encounter in the school system (plus similar to a suggestion made by @Wiseborn , he advises boys starting a year later and in a separate track than the girls.) I'm currently reading the Boy's Crisis and the Marva Collins Way. I love seeing the gains that the girls have made but our guys need support in the worst way.

@Wiseborn I think the data with male students checking out in 4th grade coincides with reading and literacy milestones not being met. If a kid isn't reading at a proficient level by the 4th grade, they will fall further and further behind. And if a kid can't even understand what's in front of them, how can you expect them to be engaged? Lot's of kids fall off of a cliff in 4th grade and the next major literacy milestone is 8th grade. If a kid isn't reading at a basic level of proficiency by then, the cake as they say is already baked.

Dr. Jawanza Kunjufu talked about this in the early 80’s people didn’t care then and they don’t care now.


The Major problem is the coddling doll baby approach of Momma raised boys isn’t working.

Maybe if we leaned into the Super predator image and had a national emergency of Boys Town’s for the children of under resourced single mothers shyt might be different.

Notice how no one is bashing Black women in this thread.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You should buy tickets for your sister and nieces. Great shared experience

fukk no.

My sister has a whole husband and walks his ass around like a badge of honor when that nikkas cheats on her with every WW he can find.

She chose to be a BM and spend her life running behind men and now she's broke for it. She doesn't get the benefit of my money especially when she purposely keeps my nieces from having a relationship with me.

 

[Wiseborn]

I know what you meant. I was posing more of a general comment to the poster you responded to and should have quoted him.


I just notice the pattern that men are fine to be talked at, fussed about or chastised on the Internet but the minute men respond it's deemed as complaining and bytching on the male side.

But I guess that's more of a testament why men just shouldn't say shyt and move in silence

because at the end of the what Men do matter and what women do doesn’t matter nearly as much.

When you talk about the nature of Men and women this whole shyt sounds goofy

The reason why they care is that 99% of women would rather be the ones living at home watching soap operas.

 

[Pirius Black]

Dr. Jawanza Kunjufu talked about this in the early 80’s people didn’t care then and they don’t care now.


The Major problem is the coddling doll baby approach of Momma raised boys isn’t working.

Maybe if we leaned into the Super predator image and had a national emergency of Boys Town’s for the children of under resourced single mothers shyt might be different.

Notice how no one is bashing Black women in this thread.

I agree the coddling shyt ain't working. I used to deny that a lot of our boys were coddled and neglected until I started working in education. Anyone who thinks the entirety of the problem can be dumped at the feet of single mothers or Black women is entirely unserious. Same dudes who won't lift a finger to volunteer or mentor btw

 

[Wiseborn]

I agree the coddling shyt ain't working. I used to deny that a lot of our boys were coddled and neglected until I started working in education. Anyone who thinks the entirety of the problem can be dumped at the feet of single mothers or Black women is entirely unserious. Same dudes who won't lift a finger to volunteer or mentor btw

I agree it’s not all women’s fault but the community has to work together to mentor the boys High school age is way too late literally Boys need mentors at 8 or so Before they are no longer Intimidated by Men

The real issue is that a Boy could low key look like a Man and you’d have to show rather than tell them.

You should’ve taught at my alternative High school we had a Gym teacher who taught KenPo karate with Gym and anytime we’d talk back he’d tell us To Step into the circle He said that to super ghetto ass dudes some who were actual adults ( Alternative school) a Kid got killed in the school while playing dice No one seriously tried him.

Just think what would happen if you routinely challenged your students to fight you but at my school it was OK.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Women don’t want families

Exactly they want slaves at best and men are like bet good luck with that lol

 

[Pirius Black]

I agree it’s not all women’s fault but the community has to work together to mentor the boys High school age is way too late literally Boys need mentors at 8 or so Before they are no longer Intimidated by Men

The real issue is that a Boy could low key look like a Man and you’d have to show rather than tell them.

You should’ve taught at my alternative High school we had a Gym teacher who taught KenPo karate with Gym and anytime we’d talk back he’d tell us To Step into the circle He said that to super ghetto ass dudes some who were actual adults ( Alternative school) a Kid got killed in the school while playing dice No one seriously tried him.

Just think what would happen if you routinely challenged your students to fight you but at my school it was OK.

We got too many eyes and prying white liberals for that to ever happen. In my District they'd file a 51A on his ass for child abuse smh. Another problem, no accountability for students anymore for anything: deadlines, keeping up with materials, homework (shyt is no existent) attendance and bad behavior. Covid made it 10x worse because it became a pretext to drop all standards in the name of so-called "equity."

 

[Wiseborn]

I agree the coddling shyt ain't working. I used to deny that a lot of our boys were coddled and neglected until I started working in education. Anyone who thinks the entirety of the problem can be dumped at the feet of single mothers or Black women is entirely unserious. Same dudes who won't lift a finger to volunteer or mentor btw

even though High school is usually too late for boys they will generally fall into line if shown what right looks like. I went to Catholic school and there was a displinarian or whatever his title was and his short ass wasn’t intimadating no one but he reminded me of my displinarian father So I Listened

besides everyone esle was suited and booted ( no uniforms but suit and ties were required). I lost the scholarship and went back to the Hood High school saw nikkas wasn’t bringing books to class and it seemed goofy So I did the same.

 

[daemonova]

 

[Wiseborn]

We got too many eyes and prying white liberals for that to ever happen. In my District they'd file a 51A on his ass for child abuse smh. Another problem, no accountability for students anymore for anything: deadlines, keeping up with materials, homework (shyt is no existent) attendance and bad behavior. Covid made it 10x worse because it became a pretext to drop all standards in the name of so-called "equity."

Yeo no standards but it happened before and not just Black Kids

 

[Gizmo_Duck]