Tomi Lahren says “what happened to young men? They are lazy and don’t want to have families the want to order door dash from their mom basement” 🥶

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

F*ck the messengers but the message is rooted in fact.




Young niccas (and young people in general) put comfort and contentment above grinding and busting your ass.

 

[Wiseborn]

34. Still live with my parents and yes I’m becoming even more picky. I may never get married at this point. Only because I refuse to be a woman’s back up plan. Nothing against women I just can’t live with myself.

So the only thing that happens now is I become a rich uncle. It could be worse.

I do agree if your put together it’s Christmas out here. And these girls are desperate for any guy with a pair of balls and money.




I was 29 when Covid hit in 2020. Was going to move out but decided to stay home until everything blow over. A year now turned into 5. I’ve saved paid of debt and invested.

Im waiting for the houseing market to dip. I’m mean I’ve waited this long. At least in a few years I’ll get to choose something nice for myself for hopefully a good bargain.

I can’t recommend it but it is the smart financial move.

 

[Wiseborn]

Most women don’t want their cheeks clapped with your parents in the next room. You want her to make you breakfast with your mom sitting at the table drinking coffee? Having your own place shows stability, and responsibility. And when you get that place, don’t have a mattress on the floor, and expect her to be grateful to chill on that mattress, and watch movies.

women want to meet you at the finish line so as you say the nikka at home gets no p*ssy but neither does the guy with the air mattress.

Women don’t respect grind they respect results.

Homie can eat by taking her to a couple of five star hotels that he got with credit card points, It would still be cheaper than renting.

Again I believe God Blesses the Child that got his own skipping the hood apartment phase does make sense. They do it all the time in the developing world and it will become a thing again in america.

 

[Wiseborn]

Said by a Medium Ugly.

But this is women’s sentiments.

 

[Wiseborn]

The thing is, having your own place shows stability, which makes you appear to be suitable husband material. White people are more likely to want marriage, because more of them were raised in married, two parent households. If the white women were raised with their white fathers running the household, why would they choose a man who answers to another man? It’s even worse with black men because we know it’s his mama’s house. I felt stupid leaving the house, and my mom asking me where I was going at 27.

I moved out when I was 15. Y’all nikkas be leaving late.

Women do want stability (eventually) having a home is stability having a cold water walk up is not a flex.

 

[Tookalossfellbackcameback]

women want to meet you at the finish line so as you say the nikka at home gets no p*ssy but neither does the guy with the air mattress.

Women don’t respect grind they respect results.

Homie can eat by taking her to a couple of five star hotels that he got with credit card points, It would still be cheaper than renting.

Again I believe God Blesses the Child that got his own skipping the hood apartment phase does make sense. They do it all the time in the developing world and it will become a thing again in america.

I was a bum ass nicca in my late 20's living at home and I was running through women.




I was 33 making $10 an hour and living in a tight ass, 1 bedroom apartment...and I was knocking down a professor at Michigan State University.




Niccas today are broke...AND lame. That's the issue. Women have their own issues but most of these young niccas today wouldn't have even been able to be around me and my boys when I was their age.

 

[Wiseborn]

if you didn't you wouldn't throw out your stable job or what money you've accumulated as a salve for your ego. It's the same as the women y'all make fun of for their multiple degrees but no men. Y'all would just exist and be happy. But y'all also pop up in every dating topic talking about the opposite sex and remind people that you're happily single and mention material things as the reason why while also still dumping on the other side as the reason why you're not participating in the dating market.

So basically what women do all day

 

[Wiseborn]

I teach 10th-12th grade currently but I have taught middle school as well. Middle school it isn't quite as bad but as soon as the boys hit high school, it's like a switch is flipped and they achieve less and the only certainty they have is that they are uncertain. Boys need a firm hand in the high school years to keep them on track. Gotta start raising the boys and stop this benign neglect shyt a lot of them suffer from.

They say boys mentally drop out in the 4th grade. Interesting that Middle school boys are Ok but High school boys aren’t.

There’s been many studies that show that Boys develop later and it’s been said that Boys should be separated from girls at least until they’re 16 or 17.

The firm hand needs to be applied by parents.

 

[TNC]

Tomi in a weird situation

She is conservative and she like the values

But she also want a man that will let her say what she wants when she wants with no backlash


It’s tough to get that kinda of guy that also looks how you want and with the money


That wants to settle down with her and only her

It’s their 2pac in a suit

Chris Evans in some wrangler's

 

[Jazzy B.]

It’s always old nikkas who ain’t built shyt talking down on youth

 

[Wiseborn]

We are pushing everything. In Mass, our school has implemented the MYCAP (Career Academic Platform) which is 6-12 grade career and post high school tracking for not only college apps, but building resumes and obtaining trade licenses and certifications as well. We got a Jobcorps recruiter who is semi attached to our building plus we have in the city a vocational high school. We push alternatives to college heavy but the young men, with the exception of some, just aren't interested in even starting the fact finding process.

Hell, our college and career readiness counselor has put together job fairs the last three years with military recruiters being present (a bit ghoulish since our school is 100% SPED). I truly sympathize with a lot of our boys who are out here living quiet lives of desperation and no one gives af until they crash out and we see them on Masslive. But the young men to their detriment, are checking out quietly in large numbers.

well the issue is the american comprehensive school system.

We follow the Prussian school system but not Modern German schools.


I get tracking is bad but instead of putting everyone in the Gymnasium style prep school they sent kids to a Real schule instead maybe things would be better for both.


But who wants to say that their kid ain’t college material?

 

[Wiseborn]

Massachusetts. Another thing fukking these boys up, is the parents might get benefits for the kid. They will let the kid drift, only appear in school every 45 days (benefits get cut off if a kid misses 45 consecutive school days) and "graduate " with a certificate of completion. And will let the kid stay at the house till their mid 20s so the benefits aren't cut off. The boys are intentionally coddled or ignored to keep that check coming while the girls are being pushed out of the house and into the job force asap. Nasty work.

Plus they won't allow the kid to work or earn any money so that benefits aren't reduced. shyt is cooked out here with the COL being so high and a lot of jobs up here pay well, but are gate kept af if you don't have license certification etc.

Momma raised son husbands.

Did you hear of that Latina school who sued Hartford because they let her graduate with honors despite being illiterate?

 

[Scaaar]

Gen Z men ain't getting married because they are the most socially awkward generation so far.

you can't get married when you can't even get in a relationship to begin with.

It's a lot of brehs in here that is see always complaining about women and dating but also stating that they're living with their parents. It's surreal but all lines up lol

 

[Scaaar]

So basically what women do all day

Essentially. Like I say two sides of the same coin.

 

[Wiseborn]

Actually, i don't think housing is a problem. It's a human distribution problem. There are dozens of states in middle America where you can legitimately buy a house for 150k (outside the hood) and within 30min of a major metro.

You could legitimately pay the mortgage on such a property as a single man making a modest 60k. This is before factoring in a spouse. And I don't want to hear anything about jobs being unavailable, because there are lots of normal jobs that pay that amount. This ignores the various remote jobs from the coast which are accessible in these areas.


The issue is that most people are crowding on the coastal states and then complaining that prices are too high when everyone is bidding for the same 600k house

The good paying jobs are also not distributed well. That’s a global problem. Be in Kenya and you’d make more money begging in Nairobi than starving in the countryside.

Nairobi also has slums though. Bring back slums and you get cheap housing and closer to jobs.