Tomi Lahren says “what happened to young men? They are lazy and don’t want to have families the want to order door dash from their mom basement” 🥶

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One thing I've learned dating is that a lot of women have had interactions with dudes that live in unstable conditions. I'm 35 so it's wild to me how folks in my same bracket are still dating dudes that live with their parents, don't have a stable home/car/job, or dudes that sleep on air mattresses. Y'all just don't know how much of a leg up you have on the competition just being a normal stable adult lol
The thing is, having your own place shows stability, which makes you appear to be suitable husband material. White people are more likely to want marriage, because more of them were raised in married, two parent households. If the white women were raised with their white fathers running the household, why would they choose a man who answers to another man? It’s even worse with black men because we know it’s his mama’s house. I felt stupid leaving the house, and my mom asking me where I was going at 27.
 

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The thing is, having your own place shows stability, which makes you appear to be suitable husband material. White people are more likely to want marriage, because more of them were raised in married, two parent households. If the white women were raised with their white fathers running the household, why would they choose a man who answers to another man? It’s even worse with black men because we know it’s his mama’s house. I felt stupid leaving the house, and my mom asking me where I was going at 27.
It's the thing I highlight all the time. The red pill/incel community have a huge identity crisis. They worship and idolize a version of manhood/masculinity that a lot of them can't live up to or actually emulate. Because in this new climate it takes work to become that man and it's not handed to you just for having the complexion like the old days. So instead of doing the work and adapting to the rules of the game, they want to break the game board. But like you said a lot of their women don't want to have kids with them because they haven't shown them a reason to. You're staying at your mom's crib and aspiring to be a streamer but you want this woman to be at your beck and call while also respecting you and laying down with you :mjlol:
 

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One thing I've learned dating is that a lot of women have had interactions with dudes that live in unstable conditions. I'm 35 so it's wild to me how folks in my same bracket are still dating dudes that live with their parents, don't have a stable home/car/job, or dudes that sleep on air mattresses. Y'all just don't know how much of a leg up you have on the competition just being a normal stable adult lol

Yep you could probably date 2 chicks easily with your own place
 

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It's the thing I highlight all the time. The red pill/incel community have a huge identity crisis. They worship and idolize a version of manhood/masculinity that a lot of them can't live up to or actually emulate. Because in this new climate it takes work to become that man and it's not handed to you just for having the complexion like the old days. So instead of doing the work and adapting to the rules of the game, they want to break the game board. But like you said a lot of their women don't want to have kids with them because they haven't shown them a reason to. You're staying at your mom's crib and aspiring to be a streamer but you want this woman to be at your beck and call while also respecting you and laying down with you :mjlol:

Y’all don’t get it we don’t care about dating. You noticed men aren’t complaining.

And I have a comfy stable office job.
 

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Yep you could probably date 2 chicks easily with your own place
More than that if you have the means and fortitude to juggle multiple women. But women that choose to date unstable men in their 30s also shows that it's something unstable within her. Early 20s is cool since everyone is broke and figuring it out. Once you hit your 30s things change. Some fruit should be visibly present from whatever you were doing or striving to do in your 20s.
 

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It aint rocket science...its never been easier to be a bytch ass nikka. Why the fukk am I gonna go out and built a tent and hunt if I can stay at moms and get food delivered? Dirty little secret is broads going along with this. Weak ass nikkas be out here getting p*ssy. No clicks but thats probably why she bytchin...she done served up that little griftin ass p*ssy to a ne'er do well ass nikka or two or 50.
 

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Y’all don’t get it we don’t care about dating. You noticed men aren’t complaining.

And I have a comfy stable office job.
if you didn't you wouldn't throw out your stable job or what money you've accumulated as a salve for your ego. It's the same as the women y'all make fun of for their multiple degrees but no men. Y'all would just exist and be happy. But y'all also pop up in every dating topic talking about the opposite sex and remind people that you're happily single and mention material things as the reason why while also still dumping on the other side as the reason why you're not participating in the dating market.
 

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34. Still live with my parents and yes I’m becoming even more picky. I may never get married at this point. Only because I refuse to be a woman’s back up plan. Nothing against women I just can’t live with myself.

So the only thing that happens now is I become a rich uncle. It could be worse.

I do agree if your put together it’s Christmas out here. And these girls are desperate for any guy with a pair of balls and money.




I was 29 when Covid hit in 2020. Was going to move out but decided to stay home until everything blow over. A year now turned into 5. I’ve saved paid of debt and invested.

Im waiting for the houseing market to dip. I’m mean I’ve waited this long. At least in a few years I’ll get to choose something nice for myself for hopefully a good bargain.
More people should stay home and get their finances straight instead of jumping out there with no credit or savings when they reach that age to move out or graduate college
 

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I wonder why :ohhh:

It doesn’t have to be as drastic as have kids and wife leave shyt dating seems to be like man pays for everything and puts in the majority effort for months for….?

Personally a marriage and kids if it last forever or not IS success…
 

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As a high school teacher, sadly she's correct. I work at an alternative school, and even there, the girls are more motivated and lap the boys academically. 90% of the students who make it out are either girls or the boys who are considered to be motionless weirdos.

Even at the general ed schools I have taught at, all the boys care about is smoking za, playing Marvel Rivals, saying no Diddi while engaging in non-Harlem activities and shyt talking feminists. But ask them what they want their future to look like, it's either "IDK", streamer, or music. Only the athletes had a post high school plan in mind. These boys are truly lost out here and desperately need guidance 🙏🏽

P.S. - some of the boys want to be auto mechanics as well or work with their hands. But I also got students who are active Kia boys and pull up to school in stolies smh 🤦🏿

High school age?

I’m 34 and still stay at home. :blessed:

Net worth over a milli now :sas2:

What do you bring to the table :youngsabo:

How did you achieve your net worth?
 

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High school age?



How did you achieve your net worth?
I teach 10th-12th grade currently but I have taught middle school as well. Middle school it isn't quite as bad but as soon as the boys hit high school, it's like a switch is flipped and they achieve less and the only certainty they have is that they are uncertain. Boys need a firm hand in the high school years to keep them on track. Gotta start raising the boys and stop this benign neglect shyt a lot of them suffer from.
 

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I teach 10th-12th grade currently but I have taught middle school as well. Middle school it isn't quite as bad but as soon as the boys hit high school, it's like a switch is flipped and they achieve less and the only certainty they have is that they are uncertain. Boys need a firm hand in the high school years to keep them on track. Gotta start raising the boys and stop this benign neglect shyt a lot of them suffer from.

Are you telling them about trade schools?
 
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