Training your partner = Emotional Abuse?

[Hijo de luna]

I tell my wife what to do and when to do it. I would never put my hands on her but when I get mad I go off. Ppl on the outside looking in would think I'm emotionally abusive. But wife stay on someso I must be doing something right

 

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[Arishok]

I used to do this but I realized even early on, this solves nothing. So I just talk about whatever issue is bothering me. I'd rather have my man know why I'm mad so we can work it out and that problem doesn't turn up again rather than doing nothing and coming back like it's all good.

 

[Raava]

A week? A month? just stay away we broke up.

You just need to grow up...if you shut down when there is an issue nothing gets solved. Wouldn't deal with a person like that.

 

[the bossman]

if this is just some random chick you're dating/fukking sure. but if this is your main lady or your wife nikka you need to learn how to talk to her about any issues you have with her and get your point across. regardless you still have to "train" her on how you want to be treated

 

[Hans Wurst]

i do this as well, you gotta handle her like a pimp. shatter her world with a single look.

 

[ba'al]

Is the beige phillip show really that good? I haven't keep up with dante since Patrice died. The black phillip show was pretty good mostly because of patrice's knowledge and jokes.

 

[Matt504]

A week? A month? just stay away we broke up.

You just need to grow up...if you shut down when there is an issue nothing gets solved. Wouldn't deal with a person like that.

Talk about issues instead of training a woman by emotionally abusing her into compliance?

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

If you're unable to communicate and have to resort to these tactics, YOU ARE NOT FIT for a relationship with a woman.
Either you're a real man or you're a pimp/fakkit, BUT YOU CANT BE BOTH. Remember a fakkit/pimp are the same thing. It's just a fakkit has come to terms with the fact that he just wants to fukk other men. Both him and the pimp hate women, but the pimp wants to play games because he's more of a coward and can't just admit he wants some diqq.

There's a lot of maturity required to be in a healthy relationship. If you don't respect women enough to treat them accordingly, then I just don't see women as being for you. Because you value men and their opinions/feelings OVER women, then honestly you probably should date men. At least you'll respect them.

I'm a big listener of the beige phillip show, which is Dante Nero, a former pimp, talks about relationships and how to keep stability and proper order in terms of power in relationships. Basically applies pimp principles to regular relationships.

Dante on a particular episode talekd about something I naturally do that women call me emotionally abusive for.

He recommends, when your chick is acting up there must be consequences that are firm. The one action that stuck out the most is what I do all the time....

When a chick starts tryna control me, or tell me what's going to happen, or deliver an ultimatum. I go ghost and remove my love and affection . Immediately. Could be for a day, a week, a month, or for good depending on the offense.

I'm kind of mean and always thought maybe it wasn't healthy... but maybe it is...

Is ignoring someone for a period of time as a result of something they said or did that you felt was not respectful, abusive? Would talking things out be better and explaining why you don't like xyz be better?

 

[48and0]

yes thats emotional abuse

foh

 

[Elle Driver]

Whats wrong with y'all seriously

 

[thirdeye]

Whats wrong with y'all seriously

This is what I'm saying lmaoooo. Only on the coli, the only type of abuse that exists is physical then in another thread they'll bring up how white supremacy is mentally and emotionally taxing lol. (Not downplaying it but a lil comparison to put things in perspective). Idgi

 

[Matt504]

This is what I'm saying lmaoooo. Only on the coli, the only type of abuse that exists is physical then in another thread they'll bring up how white supremacy is mentally and emotionally taxing lol. (Not downplaying it but a lil comparison to put things in perspective). Idgi

I don't think that's an unfair comparison at all and if ppl weren't in here pointing out how problematic emotional abuse is, there would be tons more men coming to cosign "training women".

 

[thirdeye]

I don't think that's an unfair comparison at all and if ppl weren't in here pointing out how problematic emotional abuse is, there would be tons more men coming to cosign "training women".

I'm just sayin'

 

[Raava]

Talk about issues instead of training a woman by emotionally abusing her into compliance?

Maybe it will work if she has an "underdeveloped mind" :princepls: