Training your partner = Emotional Abuse?

[Black Ball]

Passive aggressive as fukk

If y'all can't talk things out don't be together.
If your only options are passive aggression or ceaseless emotional drama just save the headaches and walk away.

It is, but it's effective and sometimes very necessary.

I've been married for 12 years, if my wife is tripping for no reason and is in her emotions & lashing out at me. Aint nothing you can say to change the mood she's in, she don't really want to discuss shyt, she really just wants to be mad & bytchy right now. I'm not about to feed into that. I just keep it moving and do my thing so I don't end up getting pissed and frustrated about it. I won't say a single word to her, just be my happy & joyous self, and act totally oblivious to her misery.

When she ready to resume things in a sensible fashion, she'll let it be known by reaching out to you in a lovey dovey or apologetic way. You cant simp your way out of those situations.

 

[CinnaSlim]

If you are ignoring me for weeks or a month, you are telling me that it's over. Nah, I'm not down with that passive aggressiveness. Maybe when I was younger but if you can't communicate with me, you are not right for me.

That's childish.

 

[hotbeezie]

If she angry or we arguing, and I feel it's going nowhere I stop talking until we both cool down.

One thing I've learned is that you can't let anyone steal your joy, kill your vibe, or ruin your mood...but you gotta learn how to argue and work shyt out without either saying some fukked up shyt or even worse fukking each other up.

It takes time and dedication

 

[Diondon]

Hov dropping a new album?

 

[Vilified not verified]

This shyt will get you tossed aside for a so called real nikka so fast your head will spin

 

[DreadBrown]

Some of you nikkas are just weirdos you don't control someone you love. Stop watching so much anime that submissive shyt doesn't apply with black women.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

Any advice an old pimp is kicking in YouTube ain't shyt. As if he'd put you on to the real game like that, he just tellin you 100 lil tricks anyone with any game already know, pimp shyt is way beyond this

Basically this.

I listen to that show also.

 

[13473]

if you don't like how your partner treats you, then leave him/her rather than trying to change them.

 

[hotbeezie]

This shyt will get you tossed aside for a so called real nikka so fast your head will spin

Then you didn't need her, it's her loss

I'd just keep it moving.

 

[Matt504]

Some of you nikkas are just weirdos you don't control someone you love. Stop watching so much anime that submissive shyt doesn't apply with black women.

tell us what works with Black women

 

[Citi Trends]

lot of obvious womanly counter arguments and bytch ass nikkas in here

 

[Matt504]

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Good post.

 

[the bossman]

Some of you nikkas are just weirdos you don't control someone you love. Stop watching so much anime that submissive shyt doesn't apply with black women.

so black women can't be submissive? how do you deal with them then?

 

[iBrowse]

That's a pretty unique way to get cheated on.

Probably a win/win.