tramatic events in your childhood that effected you for life

[its_normal]

My dad stopping coming to see me at 2 and my sisters dad beating my mum. I don't really remember either event really but am sure they both have something to do with me having trust and anger issues. In fact I do remember getting brave because my auntie was there and attacking my sisters dad when I was about four.

 

[SunZoo]

i'd get to writing a fukkin book in here if i were to really go there, there's too much shyt in between the more big events to even get into

 

[ROFL_GUY]

my llama got ran over

 

[Sansprix]

when i was 7, my father passed away.

i went and saw him at the morgue just laying there on top of one of those metal tables.

we were so close and i was always by his side and he by mine. he treated me like his little prince.

those were the last days of me ever feeling truly secure.

as a child, the hurt that i felt was so great that i lost a major part of my youthful innocence.

seeing my mother cry and be in such agony and despair that there was no sound coming from her mouth...

it was horrible brehs.

Damn, that's sad breh. No child should have to go through that. I'm sorry.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

I was molested by my teacher who looked like Kim Karadashian's mom










































love me some cougars now

 

[Avion]

I was sexually abused as a child

I'm fairly certain it's why I'm uncomfortable around/dislike/don't trust people on principle, why I hate being touched without permission, and why I'm so protective of children.

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

Yeah my dad was addicted to coke for thirty plus years
Beat my stepmom...

Last sunday
So he got a new chick.. shes pushin 70, hes 64. He still fukkin 30 yr olds tho.
Either way, she got beginners alzeimhers and mydad goin the fukk off bc she didnt want to make the baked beans for our fathers day pregame bash. Im standing outside smokin a cig havin flashbacks while he in there going ham. I love my dad but my man def got issues and it is sad to see that still goin on in his golden years.

 

[Francis White]

When i graduated high school and was about to start college , my step dad comes up with this bs story on how i spent my tuition check and now could not go to college, i was asking him to explain to me how i cashed a check made out to a college and he sat there like a dikk, my mom was quiet also. to the both of them, to this day i don't care for them, matter of fact i have not even seen them in 8 years.

 

[skeetsinternal]

Got raped by teenage female babysitter. Started fukking before I was 5

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

3 events in my childhood that I remember:

1.

My cousin's female cousin(she was 16) would make me eat her out and suck her titties when i was 8 (i didnt feel molested tho)

but i realize that it made me oversexed as a teen and adult

2. When i was 10 I was with my cousins for Mardi Gras and we were in the French Quarter and they took off running after this certain float and i got lost from them

i started wandering down Burbon St. and got way down the end where the Gay area was(didnt know) and i saw this white dude giving this black dude a blow job next to a lamp post i took off running man- i damm near started crying

3. When i was 6 or 7 my cousin Lisa had a boyfriend that was a fugitive for Murder and slaging dope
the Louisiana State Troopers, National Guard, and local police were searching cars,homes, and the woods looking for dude

shyt had me soo fukking shook seening police with dogs going thru the hood

everyone was afraid he ws going to be killed

the finally got him and he did 12 years

 

[unit321]

Never really had a super-traumatic event in my childhood.

I got mad at a neighborhood kid, I forgot about what but he was a super jerk, but I chased him and he ran back to his house. I tried to break his garage window with my hand (I was still in elementary school) but the glass was stronger than I thought. So, I picked up a piece of heavy wood and struck the glass. It took a couple tries. But, I broke the window pane and I got a cut on my hand from the broken glass. My hand was bleeding pretty bad and I went to the ER to get is stitched up. I never punched glass after that.

 

[Pazzy]

dude that sounds awful. what could have possibly happened to you to make you feel that way? explain in detail so we can try to help you best as possible.

i was going to elaborate but i felt that it was too personal. what makes me cringe is when people tell me how i should get over it as if nothing happened like this one shrink that i went to and left after the next visit because dude was straight up insensitive. you know, when other people hurt you like that for no reason starting at an early age where it continues for a period of time and nobody is there to save you (your parents, adults and nobody stands up for you as a child) and help you cope with how you feel, what happened to you or the emotional and mentally pain that you dealt with, you deal with it in your own way. i grew up around that where it made me start to hold grudges by the age of 9 and mad with the world and other people by the age of 12 or 13 where i felt that the way to go was by hurting other people in order to be respected or to have nobody f*ck with you. it pisses me off when people tell me like "get over it" as if that sh!t happened in one day when i had to go through that sh!t for years. that's why you have some people turn into homicidal maniacs because they aren't taught how to cope with their emotions after going through such.

 

[TonyStarks]

Being Autistic and getting beating up at a special needs school

 

[Dooby]

i was going to elaborate but i felt that it was too personal. what makes me cringe is when people tell me how i should get over it as if nothing happened like this one shrink that i went to and left after the next visit because dude was straight up insensitive. you know, when other people hurt you like that for no reason starting at an early age where it continues for a period of time and nobody is there to save you (your parents, adults and nobody stands up for you as a child) and help you cope with how you feel, what happened to you or the emotional and mentally pain that you dealt with, you deal with it in your own way. i grew up around that where it made me start to hold grudges by the age of 9 and mad with the world and other people by the age of 12 or 13 where i felt that the way to go was by hurting other people in order to be respected or to have nobody f*ck with you. it pisses me off when people tell me like "get over it" as if that sh!t happened in one day when i had to go through that sh!t for years. that's why you have some people turn into homicidal maniacs because they aren't taught how to cope with their emotions after going through such.

You pretty much extended what you initially said in a long ass post...you never told what actually happened.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Got raped by teenage female babysitter. Started fukking before I was 5

If true, this explains A LOT.