True or false: Having a childhood before social media took over was a such a blessing.

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Idk man some things were just objectively better before vs now.
Well yeah, it exacerbates low attention spans. It also even affected communication quality, even on this very forum...

Daps wouldnt exist if it wasnt for "likes". Negs wouldnt exist either....

Believe it or not, if you disagreed, or wabted to cinvey you appreciated someones perspective..you would add on to their idea. OR combat it through discourse and debate

Disagree? Dont neg me, tell me WHY. Correct me, own me. Thats quality discourse. But tlnow the mindset is "i have no time for that" intellectually LAZY.

Thats why you'll never see me neg or dap a motherfukker. If i like what you said, ill quote you, if i dont; Ill quote you.

im not exacted for daps. I get excited when someone quotes me. But unfortunately, social media has cheapened even the forum. And 99% of you submit to it
To add to this. People aren't responding too because they wanna preserve their "dap to post" ratio lol
Just like on social media people wanna get their followers up but keep the number of people they are following down
 

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Social media is having a lot of adverse affects on kids.

This. Especially girls.

Oldest son just got his phone last year right before turning 15.

Youngest wants one, but it's gonna be a hard no until high school as well. Use your Ipad nikka. :yeshrug:

shyt has fukked up these kids mental too much IMO.
 

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I dont know,I think having social media wouldve been great as a child. Its the adults using social media who make it a horrible place:mjlol:.


So this is a tough question. I dont like social media now. But I think as a kid I would have,and I did somewhat. But not sure I would give up the majority of my childhood without it. Under the assumption my childhood would have been better with it.
 

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Idk man some things were just objectively better before vs now.

To add to this. People aren't responding too because they wanna preserve their "dap to post" ratio lol
Just like on social media people wanna get their followers up but keep the number of people they are following down
Yeah for example, i think i have some insight and perspective that I added to this thread that had value. Thats not conveyed through my "reputation"

I can give two fukks about that of course.

But look how moronic that system is for intelligent discourse. You have people cautious of their imaginary "social standing" in environment where we are SUPPOSED to be different. rather than just purely having unhibited discourse.

Once again, i will never rep, OR neg anyone. If I dont like what you have to say
..its because I can retort whatever idea you presented. So i will.
 

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I think we need to have a bigger discussion on daps and negs and whatbit adds and takes away. And how its a product of social media thinking.
I come to forums to get away from social dynamics, and social media. Not run intk it even more.
 

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Well yeah, it exacerbates low attention spans. It also even affected communication quality, EVEN ON THIS VERY FORUM

Daps wouldnt exist if it wasnt for "likes". Negs wouldnt exist either....

Believe it or not, if you disagreed, or wanted to convey you appreciated someones perspective..you would add on to their idea. OR combat it through discourse and debate

Disagree? Dont neg me, tell me WHY. Correct me, own me. Thats quality discourse. But tlnow the mindset is "i have no time for that" intellectually LAZY.

Thats why you'll never see me neg or dap a motherfukker. If i like what you said, ill quote you, if i dont; Ill quote you.

im not excited for daps. I get excited when someone quotes me. But unfortunately, social media has cheapened even the forum. And 99% of you submit to it

hahah exactly. The attention issue is where we circle back. I just didn't want to go there, but forums and texts (now) have many of those same features,

the like, the love, the EMPHASIS, all without saying why do you love what I sent? What about do you love? do you agree or disagree?

It's not all bad, of course no one is going to engage in a Platos Cave debate with you every hour, about a 90's hip hop shooting, or a drug cartel arrest in Sinaloa (no matter how much I may want to) but it doesn't really build towards understanding or in depth thought, it's all superficial, again bringing it back to the slot machine idea, we get these likes and notifications with noises and colorful emojis, and sometimes, that can be efficient communication, but a lot of the time it isn't.

to underline a point, if your attention span gets so shortened, how can you attempt to understand things, that require more than a half second consideration?

and if we always do what's easy, what does that say about our resolve for the rest of life?

The idea that was this page about the performative nature of communication is also really insightful, goes back to the text convo I referenced, as in who can communicate LESS to preserve the idea of being more powerful?
 
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hahah exactly. The attention issue is where we circle back. I just didn't want to go there, but forums and texts (now) have many of those same features,

the like, the love, the EMPHASIS, all without saying why do you love what I sent? What about do you love? do you agree or disagree?

It's not all bad, of course no one is going to engage in a Platos Cave debate with you every hour, about a 90's hip hop shooting, or a drug cartel arrest in Sinaloa (no matter how much I may want to) but it doesn't really build towards understanding or in depth thought, it's all superficial, again bringing it back to the slot machine idea, we get these likes and notifications with noises and colorful emojis, and sometimes, that can be efficient communication, but a lot of the time it isn't.

to underline a point, if your attention span gets so shortened, how can you attempt to understand things, that require more than a half second consideration?

and if we always do what's easy, what does that say about our resolve for the rest of life?

The idea that was this page about the performative nature of communication is also really insightful, goes back to the text convo I referenced, as in who can communicate LESS to preserve the idea of being more powerful?

On here we know this isn't real life tho.

Vast majority also aren't posting under their gubment names because we know the ridiculous shyt we post and do on here.


it's a getaway from reality, jokes, and just having a good time. Also insightful shyt and knowledge when we ain't bullshyttin.

Cats on Social Media really think the shyt is real and do what they do without repercussions. The likes are a major drug to many of these people.
 

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Yes yes yes

Nothing like being on the basketball courts and nikkas talking shyt from the game, to the bytches and want everyone getting into the weekend

Nothing beat either walking or driving down the street picking up chicks and setting up when will we go out and end up back at the hotel fukking

No social media to hide from beef.. u see a nikka in the street or at school and it’s own..
 

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hahah exactly. The attention issue is where we circle back. I just didn't want to go there, but forums and texts (now) have many of those same features,

the like, the love, the EMPHASIS, all without saying why do you love what I sent? What about do you love? do you agree or disagree?

It's not all bad, of course no one is going to engage in a Platos Cave debate with you every hour, about a 90's hip hop shooting, or a drug cartel arrest in Sinaloa (no matter how much I may want to) but it doesn't really build towards understanding or in depth thought, it's all superficial, again bringing it back to the slot machine idea, we get these likes and notifications with noises and colorful emojis, and sometimes, that can be efficient communication, but a lot of the time it isn't.

to underline a point, if your attention span gets so shortened, how can you attempt to understand things, that require more than a half second consideration?

and if we always do what's easy, what does that say about our resolve for the rest of life?

The idea that was this page about the performative nature of communication is also really insightful, goes back to the text convo I referenced, as in who can communicate LESS to preserve the idea of being more powerful?
Well problem is that even in this very forum, and ironically this very thread. you wont see engagement or a back & forth like this just piggying back on ideas.

So as much as people act as if social media is a problem, they submit to whatever is faster and easier anyway, and social media lends itself to that. Some people will read this and just well...dap it.

I rather the daps just be gone then, and those people just nod in silence to themselves. Because that would encourage those who want their voice to ve heard, to expand on ideas.
 

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On here we know this isn't real life tho.

Vast majority also aren't posting under their gubment names because we know the ridiculous shyt we post and do on here.


it's a getaway from reality, jokes, and just having a good time. Also insightful shyt and knowledge when we ain't bullshyttin.

Cats on Social Media really think the shyt is real and do what they do without repercussions. The likes are a major drug to many of these people.

That's an interesting point too

The real name disconnect, I would think is because in theory, forums are for the convos, about topics that may not get enough in real life, like certainly I have friends I can talk to about movies, but not detailed analysis on a bi weekly basis?

I'm not really much different "off line", I'm the same person who wants to talk about the 1999 Puff Daddy shooting, or Jennifer Lopez performance in Out Of Sight, or talk about a recent vacation, or where to eat in Beverly Hills

this just gives me access and exposure to people who may want to do the same.

whereas social media, the real name is because this represents who you are in it's entirety. but the ego attached to the self is going to want to perform for likes with cause a dopamine hit? Someone run with that more. I never had social media, so I can only speak from a distance.
 

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On here we know this isn't real life tho.

Vast majority also aren't posting under their gubment names because we know the ridiculous shyt we post and do on here.


it's a getaway from reality, jokes, and just having a good time. Also insightful shyt and knowledge when we ain't bullshyttin.

Cats on Social Media really think the shyt is real and do what they do without repercussions. The likes are a major drug to many of these people.

Oldschool forums didnt have a "likes" system man. You HAD to expand on ideas or just not post. You could still have fun obviously, and expand on jokes and hunor. (Which was also more fun to read)But a rep system isnt fun, its arguably trying to bring real life social heirarchies into a realm that shouldnt have it.

Its like the jocks and cheerleader normies cant survive in a world where that doesnt exist, and HAD to bring it with them in a place where only perspective matters.

Now imagine if i just dapped or negged you instead of writing this...
 
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