Twitter argument : If a Husband and Wife both make 80k/year who pays the bills ?

[Hejdå]

This is one of the dumbest fukking questions of 2019.

 

[BrehWyatt]

Tag team them in an arrangement that makes the most sense for your union.

However ... if the bills themselves are so high to where the husband or wife couldn't pay them alone (in the event something happened to the other partner i.e. job/income loss), you're overspending.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Twitter: If a Husband and Wife both make 80k/year who pays the bills ?

Jesus Christ what kind of hell did I just click on? What sane person would ask their SO to pay for everything if you’re making the same amount of money? Just keep ur finances separate and split everything 50/50 every month if ur that worried about some stealing ur money or something. Pure insanity

 

[Devilinurear]

This why I am the man.
The couple switches it every month.
*drops mic


All the rest of yall are fools for letting this go on for 17 pages.

 

[Mr. Glass]

Black Rob said, “Shoulda known it. Me, I could never condone it. Bum bytch walk around my shyt like she own it.”

I’m siding with that nikka.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

This dude @Swagnificent with the WOAT advice lol

 

[MF budz]

She paying half or she is going to have to go buy her own damn house and pay full.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

If a man pays all the bills, he GOTTA have free reign to do what he wants. If not, that's a fukked up deal.

nikkaz out here payin' all the bills and being forced to sleep on the couch when their woman gets mad.

fukk that.

 

[General Mills]

I had a good friend get burned with the same logic that @Swagnificent is talking about. He said (and I can still quote him nearly verbatim) "I'll never say not to get married but I will say fukk paying for everything when she works also because you don't have the law on your side. 12yrs I can't get back where she worked and saved all of her money. I rushed back after my car accident injuring my back because she made me believe it would strain us down the line by me using my savings to offset the income loss from the Short Term Disability claim. I had no idea she had over $300k stashed away bc I was just paying for everything out of habit. So when I started asking about her money bc she quit her job & was half stepping around the house she wanted to separate. She divorced me a year later and I pay alimony because she was 'accustomed to a lifestyle' based on the fact I paid everything. So in hindsight she played the hustle perfectly and now I'm working 18hrs days between this job and another to still take care of her, the kids and my household. I only found out about what she had saved after finding her bank statements when I was shredding old documents. "

He said he confronted her about it and she bragged about now being about $400k and told him he should be grateful she didn't put him on child support too.

i say Ghatdam

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

So these women want us to use all our funds, while they walk around with $80,000 being able to buy whatever they want when they want.

What the hell type of mentality is this? How does one reach this level of toxicity towards a man with good intentions?

 

[Music Fiend]

At the end of the day,

Do yourself a favor and don't. Split rent 50/50 or 100/0. shyt should literally be based on income.

If rent is 2000 and you make 100k and she makes 50k you should pay 2/3rds of the bills and vice versa.

That way everyone nets out the same compared to their income.

 

[Mr. Glass]

Black men need to step up and do wtf they are supposed to do. If I pay all the bills, I don’t need a man. I’ll do it on my own.

If I pay all the bills, what the fukk I need a woman for? p*ssy is free.