I had a good friend get burned with the same logic that
@Swagnificent is talking about. He said (and I can still quote him nearly verbatim) "I'll never say not to get married but I will say fukk paying for everything when she works also because you don't have the law on your side. 12yrs I can't get back where she worked and saved all of her money. I rushed back after my car accident injuring my back because she made me believe it would strain us down the line by me using my savings to offset the income loss from the Short Term Disability claim. I had no idea she had over $300k stashed away bc I was just paying for everything out of habit. So when I started asking about her money bc she quit her job & was half stepping around the house she wanted to separate. She divorced me a year later and I pay alimony because she was 'accustomed to a lifestyle' based on the fact I paid everything. So in hindsight she played the hustle perfectly and now I'm working 18hrs days between this job and another to still take care of her, the kids and my household. I only found out about what she had saved after finding her bank statements when I was shredding old documents. "
He said he confronted her about it and she bragged about now being about $400k and told him he should be grateful she didn't put him on child support too.