Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

the thing is...
the women who "can" choose better... do...

it's only the leftovers who need advice...

and obviously they aint doin too well if they aint already getting the results they think they deserve...



the men are out there... the stats show it...

theres a missing part of the equation that yall cant seem to see...

like i said... the call is coming from inside the house...

I don’t really care, people should just date whoever they want to date or not at all if that floats their boat

 

[Wild self]

We need to clarify what "standards" are, in this case.

Its Superficial shyt like height, luxury cars, luxury vacations, status, high end clothes.

 

[Savvir]

I don’t really care, people should just date whoever they want to date or not at all if that floats their boat

Sorry to hear about your lack of concern for black families' issues

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Sorry to hear about your lack of concern for black families' issues

Sorry to hear you hear a Tyler perry quote and apply it to all of a demographic

 

[BigMan]

ok, i found a source that directly refutes that

"In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money. Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16% have a breadwinner wife."

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-... marriages today,16% have a breadwinner wife.



This directly contradicts your assertion...

majority of marriages (55%) are women marrying a man that is higher earning/"higher class"

maybe you mean the families the women come from are in the same class?

because the stats dont line up with what you're saying

you're conflating alot of different terms and concepts and misinterpreting what i said

breadwinner =/= class

what i bolded is more what i'm saying. dudes making 300k who went to top colleges are dating women making 150k-300k or women who's parental household was 200k plus and also went to a top college. they are similarly yoked. in this scenario the man is the breadwinner but the woman is not low income or of a lower class than him

 

[Savvir]

you're conflating alot of different terms and concepts and misinterpreting what i said

breadwinner =/= class

what i bolded is more what i'm saying. dudes making 300k who went to top colleges are dating women making 150k-300k or women who's parental household was 200k plus and also went to a top college. they are similarly yoked. in this scenario the man is the breadwinner but the woman is not low income or of a lower class than him

oh ok so now it's the families class... not specifically the woman's income

so that aligns with the point of the person you were trying to argue with that started the rabbit hole on this topic

Because they don't qualify for the men they want, they qualify for the nikka making 60k/yr and drive Uber on the side.

If a man make 500k/yr he's not looking for a woman making 500k/yr. he's looking for a woman who is pretty, easy to be around, and can get on his program.

A woman making 500k/yr wants a man "on her level" despite being typically old, masculine, and overweight.

the bold is wrong

majority of wealthy or high income men are looking for women of a similar class / income

How many men do you personally know making that kinda money are looking for women that are their financial equals.

literally all of them

it now goes from you arguing that men want women who make equal income...

to men want women who come from the same class... income is independent of that designation

this i can agree with... but you need to concede the point to @bdizzle

you basically said he was right in the end

all i was doing was saying "income" is not a big factor just like he was

 

[Savvir]

Sorry to hear you hear a Tyler perry quote and apply it to all of a demographic

um.... im black... grew up in a black family... grew up around black people...

do you think the first time I've ever encountered this narrative/topic is through a tyler perry clip in 2023?



the video just opened up the topic for discussion in this thread....

you cant really think this issue has only existed since 8:27 this morning....

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

um.... im black... grew up in a black family... grew up around black people...

do you think the first time I've ever encountered this narrative/topic is through a tyler perry clip in 2023?



the video just opened up the topic for discussion in this thread....

you cant really think this issue has only existed since 8:27 this morning....

If course it’s not the first time, as been pointed out in the thread several times, people love to talk about the same random nonsense lol

 

[AtomicUse]

"Someday? Someday my dream will come? One day you'll wake up and realized it never happened..."

I still watch that shyt just for the ether.

I was in the theater watching it and everybody in there hit the right with Foxx cause we all got something we ain’t never gonna get to do.

I was supposed to be a Marine Biologist damn it.

 

[BigMan]

oh ok so now it's the families class... not specifically the woman's income

so that aligns with the point of the person you were trying to argue with that started the rabbit hole on this topic









it now goes from you arguing that men want women who make equal income...

to men want women who come from the same class... income is independent of that designation

this i can agree with... but you need to concede the point to @bdizzle

you basically said he was right in the end

all i was doing was saying "income" is not a big factor just like he was

Please read what I actually said lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

At this rate Jesus will come back before the black man isnt a slave to a fukking hoe

 

[Savvir]

Please read what I actually said lol

@bdizzle was talking about income...

you argued with him then started throwing in "class" with your argument...

but @bdizzle was talking about income specifically... he mentioned specific income amounts...

you didnt make a distinction...but kept pushing the point...

so you still need to concede to that man...

if you made the distinction clear... I wouldnt have pulled income statistics either and would have agreed with your point

 

[BigMan]

@bdizzle was talking about income...

you argued with him then started throwing in "class" with your argument...

but @bdizzle was talking about income specifically... he mentioned specific income amounts...

you didnt make a distinction...but kept pushing the point...

so you still need to concede to that man...

if you made the distinction clear... I wouldnt have pulled income statistics either and would have agreed with your point

I’ve was clear and consistent with what I said I can’t make it clearer than that

 

[Renegade47]

Tell me how y'all would feel about this, and be honest:

Oprah or Beyonce or Michelle Obama uses her platform to say "Listen. Black men are typically more fit and easygoing than black women. Black men want fit and feminine and friendly but the reality is, your soulmate may be overweight and have an attitude because black women go through a lot. It's okay. Choose her anyway because love is all that matters."

Y'all cosigning that or nah?

nikkas choose that everyday with no problen tho

 

[Savvir]

I’ve was clear and consistent with what I said I can’t make it clearer than that

If a man make 500k/yr he's not looking for a woman making 500k/yr.

1. the bold is wrong

2. majority of wealthy or high income men are looking for women of a similar class / income

1. you are completely wrong on this point.. statistics show that @bdizzle was corret.

2. men definitely are looking for women of similar class... but income is not a factor acording to statistics... so you're half right on this second statements.


you kept using that second half-right statement to feel like you were correctly refuting the point...

if you still feel like you are "right" then i just have to accept how you view things...

but @bdizzle didnt say anything that contradicts what you ended up to agreeing with in the end



so you were 25% right... arguing with a man who was 100% right...