Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

[Fanservice]

Black women do not make more money than black men.

Anyway, terrible fukking advice, and nobody ever says this to other races of women.

Why didn't he suggest that black men get their money up instead?

You don’t hear other races talk that “independent” stuff until after they settled, got married, started a family, divorced the man and took half his shyt.

BW be stressed out in nursing school with 4 kids talking about “I don’t need no man” and “my baby daddies ain’t shyt” on FB

Just what I’ve observed.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

1. you are completely wrong on this point.. statistics show that @bdizzle was corret.

2. men definitely are looking for women of similar class... but income is not a factor acording to statistics... so you're half right on this second statements.


you kept using that second half-right statement to feel like you were correctly refuting the point...

if you still feel like you are "right" then i just have to accept how you view things...

but @bdizzle didnt say anything that contradicts what you ended up to agreeing with in the end



so you were 25% right... arguing with a man who was 100% right...

The numbers don't even make sense using his logic. If you're looking for women making 100k+ you're immediately ignoring 90-95% of the female population.

And that's even before you factor in if the ass is fat or not.

 

[TheNig]

No other race of women speak on being independent and not needing men like black women...



other women know and accept that they are expected to fall in line with their men

no other race of women has the concept of "settling" for their own community

I blame welfare. Lol

 

[↓R↑LYB]

literally all of them

you probably live in Atlanta where everyone is a trick but the vast majority of people marry within their income class

My mom was a housewife and my dad paid 100% of the bills. What you call tricking other men call providing for their family

 

[King Poetic]

Understand clearly what he’s talking about, but nikkas want to argue about oh oh u be only paying the light bill..

But i just say ,,,stay on that unrealistic expectations movement , but STFU when black men are out passing u by and u at home eating ice cream watching stella got her grove back

 

[teeswinger]

I blame welfare. Lol

Don't forget section 8 lol

 

[Voice of Reason]

Tone breaks this down

 

[Savvir]

literally all of them

you probably live in Atlanta where everyone is a trick but the vast majority of people marry within their income class

hmmm... maybe you meant social class...

because you cant claim your parents "income" class as your own when you are not living under them

a college graduate working an entry level job in nursing cant claim her "income class" is the same as her dad's who runs a million dollar plumbing supplies company...

she can claim the "social class" because she attended the private schools, universities, social functions etc. of the people within that social class..

a man who is making 400k a year isnt in the same "income class" as that woman who is making upper 80-90k in nursing

even though she come from a millionaire family..

but her "income" doesnt affect her ability to get with that 400k a year dude... other factors do

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

No other race of women speak on being independent and not needing men like black women...



other women know and accept that they are expected to fall in line with their men

no other race of women has the concept of "settling" for their own community

Stall em out breh ...

You'll see Mexican woman holding it down with their dude on the side of the road selling fruit, tamales, flowers, etc. But our "boss bytches" don't need (nor want) us but for money.

 

[TheNig]

Don't forget section 8 lol

I gotta homegirl that I grew up with that is straight up government assisted and will tell you in a heartbeat that she's getting money and don't need no man.

 

[teeswinger]

Yep got a cousin her rent like 50 bucks plus she get stamps and child support from 3 dudes tax free of course black women are doing better lol

 

[Big Boss]

 

[Easy-E]

This is random

 

[King Poetic]

What is settling anyway??

1. U as a woman with a kid or two or three, should never talk about settling if the baby daddies are ex cons, nikkas living in mama or granny basement or just a plain bummy , which majority of the time they are.. but u have the nerves to say u not settling but bummy Eddie knocked u up and bounce

2. U also cant be a 5 or 6 , chubby or overweight talking about u need a man making 6 figures and in rock type shape.. and thats what majority of these weave wearing, 5 pounds of makeup on they face, sexy redd looking chicks be looking like

 

[Tair]

Tone breaks this down

These negroes in this thread are confused and arguing in circles.

Just a damn headache.

If we are in a SoWS, then there is no such thing as "settling" because those who are at the bottom can't even properly integrate to be at a level of "settling" due to the very nature of the system. We are all trying to find a spot to survive and be the best we can be.

From there, each successive generation has to learn from the previous one until a proper solution is created or until this system is either changed naturally or falls due to too great of an imbalance.
Either way, as Tyler Perry put it, he's correct. Find you a person that has integrity, good moral judgement, and loves you on a level deeper than the physical. That type of relationship takes work by both parties. Otherwise folks will just keep getting into transactional relationships, not relationships that are worth a damn or ones that create sustainable communities.

I am all for being a provider and protector but it takes work to get there, especially if you are Black in America. Be patient with one another out here.