Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

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I never want to hear the words settling out of any woman with kids, if the baby daddy wasnt making $100,000 a year and good health benefits.. which majority of the baby daddies was bums

I never want to hear the words settling from any woman who constantly sports weaves and u 5’5 180 pounds with a H shape booty

I never want to hear the words settling from any woman who been out here fukking random ex cons, dope men who only was selling nickel and dimes and took your ass to the same clubs/lounges every week..

And I especially dont want to hear the words settling from a chick her damn self struggling to pay bills and needs help
 

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Tell me how y'all would feel about this, and be honest:

Oprah or Beyonce or Michelle Obama uses her platform to say "Listen. Black men are typically more fit and easygoing than black women. Black men want fit and feminine and friendly but the reality is, your soulmate may be overweight and have an attitude because black women go through a lot. It's okay. Choose her anyway because love is all that matters."

Y'all cosigning that or nah?
I'd think them full of shyt because those are two easy things to fix.
 

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Here is one the stupid sources being used to push the narrative that women are outearning men:

In fact, in 22 of 250 U.S. metropolitan areas, women under the age of 30 earn the same amount as or more than their male counterparts, according to a new Pew Research Center analysis of Census Bureau data.

As we have seen by other graphs, neither men or women reach their financial peak before age 30. So even with this article we are literally talking a difference of less than $5000 a year in their "women best case scenario" if they were willing to break down the financials:comeon:


Pew Research - Link to article

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I could also dig deeper into the claims that wives are making as much or more than husbands. That data is also flawed but I'll save it for another topic to keep the data to a minimum.
 

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Black women should never marry down.
the problem is that women "think" they are marrying down if they only qualify for men who make less than them...

but men dont rate women on how much money they make...
women are rated on looks and how good they can make a nikka feel, social etiquette, making life easier, etc.....


if a woman makes alot of money, but she aint got the traits men actually want...

then being with a lower earner isnt marrying down at all...

it's marrying at her level....
 
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Listen. No shame in working ANY job, especially since black men still face discrimination in the labor market. Salute, and I mean that.

My issue is, why do black women HAVE to marry down? Why can't she marry on her level or higher? There are real consequences to this for women, but bw are expected to look past logic and reality just to have a man on her arm.
You don't HAVE to do anything.

A LOT of y'all will end up snuggling up with that degree at night, but if you want to wait for @Tupac in a Business Suit do you.:manny:
 

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How you contradict yourself in the same post??? :what:
even though she's an intelligent poster...

the narrative about broke/unfit men is so strong in our community...

her subconscious still believes men are the problem

:mjlol:

statistics facts data show black men have their shyt together just as much if not more than black women

but still...

(any problem in dating/marriage in our community) = "well black men just need to get their shyt together"

:mjlol:

this is the perfect example of how ingrained it is... they cant even control themselves
 
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