Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

[Contrefaire]

Legacy,

You do know those women of the past were married at a 80% rate. What LEGACY are you talking about??

Help me understand your point. Drop some stats

Let's talk without feelings and without a sitcom/Disney mindset and talk with logic and with sense.

My fault. When I used the word "legacy" I meant it more in terms of how we use that word in the tech world. "Legacy" computing etc, meaning "the old ways" and whatnot. "Legacy BW" = your grandmas and how they did things as opposed to normal modern day women.

 

[King Poetic]

Black women watch too much television and movies when it comes to relationships

They think after watching love and hip hop, real housewives of whatever city and these black movies with a black man who’s some type of lawyer, athlete, entertainer or big drug dealer who trying to live the straight life and have all this money and big home, that’s what life is really is and if a guy isnt that he’s a lame….

These the same 70% of women making less than $60,000 a year themselves…with kids by a man who wasn’t even making minimum wage himself

 

[CBalla]

Your first mistake was thinking the modern woman is afraid of "ending up single".

I know it's a tough pill to swallow but a lot of y'all favorite aunties and grandmas pulled your sisters and girl cousins aside early on in life and schooled them about the realities of marriage and relationships to a point where it made them think twice.

Also, a woman can be good, loyal and wholesome without entertaining men below her tax bracket. Entertaining bums, losers, scammers and broke nikkas is NOT a virtue. I also don't know why you as a man would be okay with your woman leveling you up like this.

But at the same time, as soon as a chick is supporting a bum nikka and things go left, y'all are quick to say she "should've chose better" so which is it???

that ra ra talk on the net dont mean nothing to me, women are jealous creatures and deep down be in they feelings about not having what other women do have



save the long paragraphs full of cap for someone else next time, you undoubtedly missed the entire point

 

[NO-BadAzz]

My fault. When I used the word "legacy" I meant it more in terms of how we use that word in the tech world. "Legacy" computing etc, meaning "the old ways" and whatnot. "Legacy BW" = your grandmas and how they did things as opposed to normal modern day women.

The old ways are gone.

Modern women and modern men

Modern Women can't lean on old traditional ways when they themselves are not traditional and old school.

Thats why this is so warped, you want old school ways from men, but you as a modern woman is not traditional. Modern trumps being traditional.

Men have not changed. Women have. That's the disconnect

Women paying for first dates or going dutch is being equal and modern.

Women are making more money, that should not be an issue eh?

You can't pick and choose when things should be traditional and when things should go how you see on a sitcom and on a movie as a woman

 

[Contrefaire]

When I had the audacity to date in 2023... I'm in the DMV and mind you, I work a blue collar job...and we know how black women feel about those.. Anyway dating in the black community is so warped, I'm leaving that ish alone.

So do black women tend to choose to lay down and procreate with losers and bums or are their standards too high to a point where they'll only entertain 6/6/6/ ballers and millionaires???

 

[Contrefaire]

The stats say that women chose men who are bums

54% of BM are single with no children, 64% of those BM are in the middle class.

Most BW who are single have babies by bum ass nikkas. Those bum ass nikkas have multiple baby mamas.

Again, Let's be all the way 100.

Bum dudes are the ones who are populating the community.

I shouldn't say bum dudes, but dudes that are not in the top 12% of men as earners

And yet....there's a growing contingent of BW who are choosing to say no to dating, sex, marriage and procreating.... Interesting...

 

[Contrefaire]

that ra ra talk on the net dont mean nothing to me, women are jealous creatures and deep down be in they feelings about not having what other women do have



save the long paragraphs full of cap for someone else next time, you undoubtedly missed the entire point

So basically I won this round and you have nothing else to contribute. Got it. Better luck next time I guess

 

[africngiant]

And yet....there's a growing contingent of BW who are choosing to say no to dating, sex, marriage and procreating.... Interesting...

cause the guys who wouldn’t dog them are too lame and boring to them

they’d rather be cheated on and manipulated by dumb nikkas because they’re cool and have swag

since the age of like 15

 

[NO-BadAzz]

And yet....there's a growing contingent of BW who are choosing to say no to dating, sex, marriage and procreating.... Interesting...

I don't see it, I see more complaining about wanting to find a life partner or husband.
They are fussing about Brehs not planning dates.

Most are not procreating, because most already come with kids. They are now seeing and understanding that the men they want are not being step-fathers, they are now seeing and hearing men say no to women who have kids or treating women with kids as jump offs or just something to mess with until I find something new.

Yea, it's very interesting.

 

[ORDER_66]

So do black women tend to choose to lay down and procreate with losers and bums or are their standards too high to a point where they'll only entertain 6/6/6/ ballers and millionaires???

Both but if you in the middle they consider you boring...

 

[CBalla]

So basically I won this round and you have nothing else to contribute. Got it. Better luck next time I guess

No basically you are the exact person who is being talked about, thinking your tax bracket makes you above someone else

You got alot to learn about life

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

People overuse the term "settling". Settling is if a 5 star recruit in football picks a lesser school like Western Michigan when he has offers from Bama or Georgia. When folks "settle" for something, you pick a lesser option when you actually QUALIFY for better options. And those options come quickly too.

If you out here waiting 5, 10, 15 years and that better option ain't came yet, then you clearly don't qualify for them. Water finding its own level isn't "settling".

Ding ding ding

 

[africngiant]

So do black women tend to choose to lay down and procreate with losers and bums or are their standards too high to a point where they'll only entertain 6/6/6/ ballers and millionaires???

pick the first when you’re young then the second after you been dumped on your ass too many times then want to hit that 180 emergency plan to cop out the game you chose to play

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Because women today aren’t realistic lol. They’re in fairy tale land.

It’s either die alone, be the “fine auntie”, or get a dog. A dude isn’t gona have everything lol so you all have to sacrifice something.

Be like the Asians and find the best deal.

Morrisborismichaelbstpatrickshemarshakur does not exist

This is just internet rhetoric

Irl these women be fukking bums

 

[Contrefaire]

cause the guys who wouldn’t dog them are too lame and boring to them

they’d rather be cheated on and manipulated by dumb nikkas because they’re cool and have swag

since the age of like 15

They'd "rather be cheated on and manipulated" so they opt to....stay single? How exactly does that work?? Think before you fukking speak my god!