Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

[Contrefaire]

women gonna miss the point of what hes saying and end up single

if they was as good loyal and wholesome as they claimed they was, theyd help that good man that can only afford “xyz” to level up

Your first mistake was thinking the modern woman is afraid of "ending up single".

I know it's a tough pill to swallow but a lot of y'all favorite aunties and grandmas pulled your sisters and girl cousins aside early on in life and schooled them about the realities of marriage and relationships to a point where it made them think twice.

Also, a woman can be good, loyal and wholesome without entertaining men below her tax bracket. Entertaining bums, losers, scammers and broke nikkas is NOT a virtue. I also don't know why you as a man would be okay with your woman leveling you up like this.

But at the same time, as soon as a chick is supporting a bum nikka and things go left, y'all are quick to say she "should've chose better" so which is it???

 

[Gloxina]

Oh the real though, we have never seen Tyler maintain a relationship/family. Who GAF what he thinks about relationship dynamics?


I’ll sit at the feet of Denzel and Pauletta and Boris Kodjoe and Nicole Ari Parker before I listen to a man who allegedly paid someone to pose as his girl, pop out a baby out of wedlock and then “break up” with her after the kid.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Where is this happening, exactly? How often have you really been "looked down upon" by a single mom in the community because you weren't making six figures but had A1 credit and a good career?? And be honest because these are some wild ass claims...

Kevin Samuels made his living off of these women who would call into his show every other night for 2-3 years wanting the top 8% of black men.
You may want to check out that channel.

KS would asked these women if they could marry an average man making 42k and these women would either laugh, pause and say no, or say that they can elevate him which he would say, no that's his salary until he dies. He would even point out to these women that they themselves fathers and mothers didn't make 6 figures.

Trust and believe these women are living out here in masses and I meet them all the time. Most Brehs do too. Their mindset is on some Disney shyt. They'll never get a man or the man that they want with that mind set.

Life is not a sitcom

Also you can go on SM and see. You can even look in the comments of the tweet and see how these women are reacting to what TP said.

Let's not act like the Breh you quoted is lying.

Let's keep it 100.

 

[Wiseborn]

If black women make more money than black men...

then is there really a patriarchy in the black community?

Both statements are untrue.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Your first mistake was thinking the modern woman is afraid of "ending up single".

I know it's a tough pill to swallow but a lot of y'all favorite aunties and grandmas pulled your sisters and girl cousins aside early on in life and schooled them about the realities of marriage and relationships to a point where it made them think twice.

Also, a woman can be good, loyal and wholesome without entertaining men below her tax bracket. Entertaining bums, losers, scammers and broke nikkas is NOT a virtue. I also don't know why you as a man would be okay with your woman leveling you up like this.

But at the same time, as soon as a chick is supporting a bum nikka and things go left, y'all are quick to say she "should've chose better" so which is it???

The stats say that women chose men who are bums

54% of BM are single with no children, 64% of those BM are in the middle class.

Most BW who are single have babies by bum ass nikkas. Those bum ass nikkas have multiple baby mamas.

Again, Let's be all the way 100.

Bum dudes are the ones who are populating the community.

I shouldn't say bum dudes, but dudes that are not in the top 12% of men as earners

 

[Gritsngravy]

I love how they just make up stats and run with them. A few years back Obama blatantly lied about their being a huge wage gap, when there is not, and here is Tyler, who is claiming that there is a huge gap in the opposite way, when there isn’t. They just make up shít to defend their agenda whenever they feel like it

Yea and now people are just confusing themselves and further feed into this man vs woman bullshyt

 

[Contrefaire]

Kevin Samuels made his living off of these women who would call into his show every other night for 2-3 years wanting the top 8% of black men.
You may want to check out that channel.

Also you can go on SM and see. You can even look in the comments of the tweet and see how these women are reacting to what TP said.

Let's not act like the Breh you quoted is lying.

Let's keep it 100.

Yeah, sorry but I used to work in radio so I know how that shyt goes. Sensationalism sells and the women who "called in" to KS were more than likely specifically selected because they were THE MOST delusional, crazy and entitled.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

Yeah, sorry but I used to work in radio so I know how that shyt goes. Sensationalism sells and the women who "called in" to KS were more than likely specifically selected because they were THE MOST delusional, crazy and entitled.

You can miss me with that one. I would have rather you said you didn't listen to his show.

You can't select crazy, delusional and entitled, it's already in you as a person.

Nobody has the time to do such a thing every night.

I'd rather you say, you didn't listen to his show.

 

[Contrefaire]

The stats say that women chose men who are bums

54% of BM are single with no children, 64% of those BM are in the middle class.

Most BW who are single have babies by bum ass nikkas. Those bum ass nikkas have multiple baby mamas.

Again, Let's be all the way 100.

Bum dudes are the ones who are populating the community.

I shouldn't say bum dudes, but dudes that are not in the top 12% of men as earners

None of what you said disproves or contradicts what EYE said tho. You're talking about LEGACY BW meanwhile I'm talking about modern/current BW.

 

[Contrefaire]

You can miss me with that one. I would have rather you said you didn't listen to his show.

You can't select crazy, delusional and entitled, it's already in you as a person.

Nobody has the time to do such a thing every night.

I'd rather you say, you didn't listen to his show.

K?

 

[ShackZilla89]

Where is this happening, exactly? How often have you really been "looked down upon" by a single mom in the community because you weren't making six figures but had A1 credit and a good career?? And be honest because these are some wild ass claims...

When I had the audacity to date in 2023... I'm in the DMV and mind you, I work a blue collar job...and we know how black women feel about those.. Anyway dating in the black community is so warped, I'm leaving that ish alone.

 

[The ADD]

Your first mistake was thinking the modern woman is afraid of "ending up single".

I know it's a tough pill to swallow but a lot of y'all favorite aunties and grandmas pulled your sisters and girl cousins aside early on in life and schooled them about the realities of marriage and relationships to a point where it made them think twice.

Also, a woman can be good, loyal and wholesome without entertaining men below her tax bracket. Entertaining bums, losers, scammers and broke nikkas is NOT a virtue. I also don't know why you as a man would be okay with your woman leveling you up like this.

But at the same time, as soon as a chick is supporting a bum nikka and things go left, y'all are quick to say she "should've chose better" so which is it???

 

[NO-BadAzz]

None of what you said disproves or contradicts what EYE said tho. You're talking about LEGACY BW meanwhile I'm talking about modern/current BW.

I'm talking about stats from this year. You can go to black demographics.com the CDC and see for yourself.

 

[NO-BadAzz]

None of what you said disproves or contradicts what EYE said tho. You're talking about LEGACY BW meanwhile I'm talking about modern/current BW.

Legacy,

You do know those women of the past were married at a 80% rate. What LEGACY are you talking about??

Help me understand your point. Drop some stats

Let's talk without feelings and without a sitcom/Disney mindset and talk with logic and with sense.

 

[Contrefaire]

When I had the audacity to date in 2023... I'm in the DMV and mind you, I work a blue collar job...and we know how black women feel about those.. Anyway dating in the black community is so warped, I'm leaving that ish alone.

Congrats I guess