Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

[Contrefaire]

I don't see it, I see more complaining about wanting to find a life partner or husband.
They are fussing about Brehs not planning dates.

Most are not procreating, because most already come with kids. They are now seeing and understanding that the men they want are not being step-fathers, they are now seeing and hearing men say no to women who have kids or treating women with kids as jump offs or just something to mess with until I find something new.

Yea, it's very interesting.

I mean I guess you and I are just around two (or more) very different groups of women

 

[Voice of Reason]

Everyone gets online and tells BW to date damn near homeless men. Just take any old bum off the street just to say you have a man but then when his worthless ass uses you, it's your fault because you should have known better. I am so glad BW are waking up to this nonsense. The "Fund a Bum Foundation" is working over time to get BW back in the box. Luckily BW are beginning to see the light.

This sentiment is idiotic and unproductive. No one is telling Black women to date bums he was telling Black women that Black men do not have the same economic opportunities as White males currently because racism and discrimination. Honestly neither gender has those prospects so be realistic.

 

[ShackZilla89]

So do black women tend to choose to lay down and procreate with losers and bums or are their standards too high to a point where they'll only entertain 6/6/6/ ballers and millionaires???

I find that it's a very complex issue that tends to lean towards extremes on opposing sides with little middle ground. I know a dude from DC that looks like he don't have a problem getting a woman but he struggles. Once they realize he's not a street ninja, or a super high earner and will actually treat them nice, they dead the situation.... It's disgusting for normal black men.

 

[Contrefaire]

Both but if you in the middle they consider you boring...

How convenient.....

 

[ShackZilla89]

This sentiment is idiotic and unproductive. No one is tell Black women to date bums he was telling Black women that Black men do not have the same economic opportunities as White males currently because racism and discrimination. Honestly neither gender has those prospects so be realistic.

They always jump to extremes...smh

 

[ORDER_66]

How convenient.....

doesnt make it any less true... who do you think they call lames??? an average man is boring to them i aint lie...

 

[Contrefaire]

No basically you are the exact person who is being talked about, thinking your tax bracket makes you above someone else

You got alot to learn about life

Sounds like a lot of wild assumptions and conjecture tbh because I never once put MYSELF in it. Sorry that your circumstances have made you feel generally inadequate tho

 

[africngiant]

They'd "rather be cheated on and manipulated" so they opt to....stay single? How exactly does that work?? Think before you fukking speak my god!

you conveniently skipped over the first part. there’s your resolution

go find the one of those 64% single middle class 9-5 black men who’ve been working on finding a serious woman for a minute but get rejected cause they’re too lame

 

[Contrefaire]

pick the first when you’re young then the second after you been dumped on your ass too many times then want to hit that 180 emergency plan to cop out the game you chose to play

Is this what your mother did with your dad?

 

[Contrefaire]

you conveniently skipped over the first part. there’s your resolution

go find the one of those 64% single middle class 9-5 black men who’ve been working on finding a serious woman for a minute but get rejected cause they’re too lame

Which part did I skip over again? Was it the part where I refused to pretend all women are exactly like that one girl who rejected you 15yrs ago in high school oooorr????

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

So you are ok with him telling you what to do, beating you, raping you, and fukking all the women he can afford?

Yo that was a crazy statement

"I WANT ONLY THE PARTS OF PATRIARCHY THAT BENEFIT ME!"

that's women in a nut shell
At least she admits it

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

A little bit about life kids..

Your degrees show that you can commit to something and follow through. Your degrees show that you are willing to delay gratification and willing to invest in yourself.

 

[africngiant]

Which part did I skip over again? Was it the part where I refused to pretend all women are exactly like that one girl who rejected you 15yrs ago in high school oooorr????

nobody said all. a large segment of middle class bm exist who are unmarried because of the pettiness of bw and threads like this that further delude the minds of bw across the country with false info. reinforcing the narrative of “nikkas not being shyt” when a majority of bw could simply choose better and look past all the dumb love and hip hop glitz and glamour and trying to live out a hip hop music video their entire lives. it’s not hard to find a good man if you took accountability for once.

good boy timmy from stem was waiting for his shot but you were too busy fukking off on him thinking there was something better for you out there, trying to be a party girl entertained by the streets your whole lives

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Edit: Fụck this topic. I'm tired.

Everything he said is true and also the reason for more current single older black women and moms.

I've gotten to the point where as a man, I don't go for my physical equivalent on women because my physical equivalent is 99.9% of the time, a stuck up, self centered bıtch with no sense of awareness and either has sponsors, an OF or an older out of shape gentleman with a kind heart, low self esteem and a fat wallet.

I think that's more due to women getting with dudes and feeling like they can do it all on their own, and not caring who the dude is

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I gotta homegirl that I grew up with that is straight up government assisted and will tell you in a heartbeat that she's getting money and don't need no man.

My hood ass neighbors are like this
Bragging about scamming