Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

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Stop it... Cause you just made all that scenario up like most women stay home with the kids.. They do not..

They are also not selecting partners who would allow them to stay home cause most americans don't make that much to allow supporting a family on one income

So back to REALITY... Men don't pick women based on money cause they not in a rush to spend up her money and be provided for... Women want this, and will throw away a good man who cant, for the POSSIBILITY of one who can... But what they are finding out, like everyone already knows, most men can't, and you winding up lonely, single and searching in your 30s, 40s and 50s, cause the dude who would love the fukk out of you and treat you right, makes 35k instead of 45k, and you make 40k

And what Tyler is saying is, if he covering the 80%, don't let the 20% fukk it up... And what you saying is... fukk that... We want 100%... but 90% of women ain't getting 60%, so what fukking world is y'all living in?
That is not what I said lmao

I was responding to someone saying that men don’t worry about a woman’s money so it’s basically fair for women not to worry about a man’s money. NO. We have to worry about a man’s ability and desire to provide because men and women are not the same and it becomes glaringly more apparent after kids.

And I’ve already acknowledged that most men can’t shoulder all of the bills in 2023.

The point was a man who “loves you” but can ONLY PAY THE LIGHT BILL is a man who should not have children!

My G, if you don’t have enough drive to do better than 35k for yourself wtf are you going to do when your woman is 9mon pregnant? What you gonna do when the kids arrive and her focus is nursing and nesting?

Every person isn’t meant to have a family.
 

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BW are too arrogant, I make more than the average man in America , but a bw will think I'm beneath them because I'm not 6 figures yet. I'm far from a bum and got A1 credit, but will literally get looked down upon by single mom in the black community. :mjlol: Make it make sense...:francis::francis::francis:
Get a Rari and a Rolex. BW love when BM buy stupid shyt
 

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Why do y’all insist on having these pointless conversations about situations that effect so few of you:mjlol:

The average blk woman makes around 40k a year (which is less than blk men despite this lie going around). In this economy that’s barley enough to take care of yourself let alone provide financially for a grown ass man:mjlol:

Who tf are these small groups of blk women that a) make enough to provide for multiple people b) are willing to???

Because let Twitter tell it without blk women blk men would be in poverty
 

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Tell me how y'all would feel about this, and be honest:

Oprah or Beyonce or Michelle Obama uses her platform to say "Listen. Black men are typically more fit and easygoing than black women. Black men want fit and feminine and friendly but the reality is, your soulmate may be overweight and have an attitude because black women go through a lot. It's okay. Choose her anyway because love is all that matters."

Y'all cosigning that or nah?

No. No fat chicks. :scust:
 

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The four-hundred thousand
My dad would be considered low value by a lot of modern day women for simply not making more than my mom.

Funny enough when I talk about my dad I speak more about his work ethnic and house work ethic first and women are usually impressed.

When I wait and tell then he made less than my mom they are shocked.
There's making less, then there's making only enough to pay one bill. I doubt your dad falls into the latter category.
 

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That is not what I said lmao

I was responding to someone saying that men don’t worry about a woman’s money so it’s basically fair for women not to worry about a man’s money. NO. We have to worry about a man’s ability and desire to provide because men and women are not the same and it becomes glaringly more apparent after kids.

And I’ve already acknowledged that most men can’t shoulder all of the bills in 2023.

The point was a man who “loves you” but can ONLY PAY THE LIGHT BILL is a man who should not have children!

My G, if you don’t have enough drive to do better than 35k for yourself wtf are you going to do when your woman is 9mon pregnant? What you gonna do when the kids arrive and her focus is nursing and nesting?

Every person isn’t meant to have a family.
I agree that kids aint for everyone. That aint just for financial reasons either. However I think people are being to literal with his "light bill" statement. I dont think he was talking about a man that could just pay 1 bill. Also he was talking about well off women. Women for whom finance isnt gonna be an issue like that. If you got money as a woman why does his money matter? You can support yourself and your child without any contribution from him so why not focus on love and companionship?
 

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The notion that black women are 'settling' when dealing with a black man that makes less money than her is laughable. Money-making ability isn't a criteria that men put highly on a scale of top desired traits in a woman, so if that's the only thing a woman offers what puts her on a pedestal that she is 'settling' when dealing with a black man that makes less money than her?

Honestly, it's better to not even argue and engage with the type of women that get enraged at what Tyler Perry said. Just let them live in their delusion world and be lonely.
 
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