You gotta be tall and athleticThe Netherlands on average have the tallest people. Shouldn’t there be way more Dutch basketball players based on this logic?![]()
You gotta be tall and athleticThe Netherlands on average have the tallest people. Shouldn’t there be way more Dutch basketball players based on this logic?![]()
That is not what I said lmaoStop it... Cause you just made all that scenario up like most women stay home with the kids.. They do not..
They are also not selecting partners who would allow them to stay home cause most americans don't make that much to allow supporting a family on one income
So back to REALITY... Men don't pick women based on money cause they not in a rush to spend up her money and be provided for... Women want this, and will throw away a good man who cant, for the POSSIBILITY of one who can... But what they are finding out, like everyone already knows, most men can't, and you winding up lonely, single and searching in your 30s, 40s and 50s, cause the dude who would love the fukk out of you and treat you right, makes 35k instead of 45k, and you make 40k
And what Tyler is saying is, if he covering the 80%, don't let the 20% fukk it up... And what you saying is... fukk that... We want 100%... but 90% of women ain't getting 60%, so what fukking world is y'all living in?
Oh. Well ionno I don’t talk to old ppl about this shyt lmaoYou keep bringing up kids.... Tyler ain't talking to no 25 year old women... He's talking to these old bitter women crying about being single and can't find a good man.. They probably can't even have kids at this point
Get a Rari and a Rolex. BW love when BM buy stupid shytBW are too arrogant, I make more than the average man in America , but a bw will think I'm beneath them because I'm not 6 figures yet. I'm far from a bum and got A1 credit, but will literally get looked down upon by single mom in the black community.Make it make sense...
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I mean I guess. Lemme sit in my bubbleI understand your sentiment but you are living in fantasy land
Black folks don't make the same money as cacs we have to be real here.
Tell me how y'all would feel about this, and be honest:
Oprah or Beyonce or Michelle Obama uses her platform to say "Listen. Black men are typically more fit and easygoing than black women. Black men want fit and feminine and friendly but the reality is, your soulmate may be overweight and have an attitude because black women go through a lot. It's okay. Choose her anyway because love is all that matters."
Y'all cosigning that or nah?
There's making less, then there's making only enough to pay one bill. I doubt your dad falls into the latter category.My dad would be considered low value by a lot of modern day women for simply not making more than my mom.
Funny enough when I talk about my dad I speak more about his work ethnic and house work ethic first and women are usually impressed.
When I wait and tell then he made less than my mom they are shocked.
I agree that kids aint for everyone. That aint just for financial reasons either. However I think people are being to literal with his "light bill" statement. I dont think he was talking about a man that could just pay 1 bill. Also he was talking about well off women. Women for whom finance isnt gonna be an issue like that. If you got money as a woman why does his money matter? You can support yourself and your child without any contribution from him so why not focus on love and companionship?That is not what I said lmao
I was responding to someone saying that men don’t worry about a woman’s money so it’s basically fair for women not to worry about a man’s money. NO. We have to worry about a man’s ability and desire to provide because men and women are not the same and it becomes glaringly more apparent after kids.
And I’ve already acknowledged that most men can’t shoulder all of the bills in 2023.
The point was a man who “loves you” but can ONLY PAY THE LIGHT BILL is a man who should not have children!
My G, if you don’t have enough drive to do better than 35k for yourself wtf are you going to do when your woman is 9mon pregnant? What you gonna do when the kids arrive and her focus is nursing and nesting?
Every person isn’t meant to have a family.
Oh. Well ionno I don’t talk to old ppl about this shyt lmao