Tyler Perry Suggests that BW settle....does not go over well

[RiffRaff]

Dating and marriage isn’t rocket science. Find a person you connect with, make sure they are a decent human being, bringing something to the table financially, be physically attracted to them, realize if you aren’t perfect you shouldn’t expect your partner to be, and eat.

Rest of this BS is just discourse babble.

Then again I’m a tall rich pretty nikka so I can’t relate to the every man or woman’s struggle

 

[Yzak]

the delusion that black women have around them and there status is fukking wild

It's media strategy to gas them up and make them incapable of forming relationships with Black men.

 

[Savvir]

literally all of them

you probably live in Atlanta where everyone is a trick but the vast majority of people marry within their income class

statistics completely disagree with you

https://www.sciencedirect.com/scien...marriage for,childless than low income women.

"study shows that high income men are more likely to marry, are less likely to divorce, if divorced are more likely to remarry, and are less likely to be childless than low income men.

Income is not associated with the probability of marriage for women and is positively associated with the probability of divorce.

female earning capabilities are unrelated or negatively related to female marriage and childbearing, unrelated or positively related to female divorce, and unrelated or negatively related to female remarriage after divorce,

this suggests no male revealed preference for earning capability in a long-term mate. "



If higher earning men chose higher earning women at an increased rate....

and we know higher earning men outnumber higher earning women...

the study wouldnt have concluded that higher earning women have an inverse relationship with marriage as their income rises.

 

[Yzak]

I'm so tired of the framing of this shyt, and I'm starting to feel like it's deliberate disinformation/propaganda. The idea that black women are largely out here making more money than black men is simply not true.

Statistics at a Glance: Earnings of Men Aged 20–59, by Age Group and Race/Ethnicity

Social Security Administration Research, Statistics, and Policy Analysis

www.ssa.gov

Statistics at a Glance: Earnings of Women Aged 20–59, by Age Group and Race/Ethnicity

Social Security Administration Research, Statistics, and Policy Analysis

www.ssa.gov

Just seems like there's this nonstop messaging about black men that we ain't shyt, we ain't doing shyt, black women have lapped us, we're going extinct etc. Are there major red flags about our future? Yea. Especially the college degree data we have. But if we're gonna keep it a buck most of the same red flags can be seen for black women. Black people in general have some potential rough times coming up if community and institutional changes aren't made. But pretending like only black men are struggling is wild.

Because it is! This has been going on for decades and it's embarrassing how unaware and just stupid Black men have collectively been for those decades. They got Black women out here chanting Black men ain't shyt as their mantra and brehs act oblivious.

 

[MajesticLion]

The money will not save you.

 

[BigMan]

statistics completely disagree with you

https://www.sciencedirect.com/scien...marriage for,childless than low income women.

"study shows that high income men are more likely to marry, are less likely to divorce, if divorced are more likely to remarry, and are less likely to be childless than low income men.

Income is not associated with the probability of marriage for women and is positively associated with the probability of divorce.

female earning capabilities are unrelated or negatively related to female marriage and childbearing, unrelated or positively related to female divorce, and unrelated or negatively related to female remarriage after divorce,

this suggests no male revealed preference for earning capability in a long-term mate. "



If higher earning men chose higher earning women at an increased rate....

and we know higher earning men outnumber higher earning women...

the study wouldnt have concluded that higher earning women have an inverse relationship with marriage as their income rises.

none of that correlates to what i actually said and it doesn't support a conclusion that men prefer lower income women either.

most people marry within their class

 

[Savvir]

none of that correlates to what i actually said and it doesn't support a conclusion that men prefer lower income women either.

most people marry within their class

ok, i found a source that directly refutes that

"In 29% of marriages today, both spouses earn about the same amount of money. Just over half (55%) of marriages today have a husband who is the primary or sole breadwinner and 16% have a breadwinner wife."

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-... marriages today,16% have a breadwinner wife.



This directly contradicts your assertion...

majority of marriages (55%) are women marrying a man that is higher earning/"higher class"

maybe you mean the families the women come from are in the same class?

because the stats dont line up with what you're saying

 

[King Poetic]

Black women do not make more money than black men.

Anyway, terrible fukking advice, and nobody ever says this to other races of women.

Why didn't he suggest that black men get their money up instead?

Because other races on a larger scale doesnt say they need a list like this



Now look at that woman…. And look at her demands..

That video was years years ago.. I guarantee she hasn’t find a man at all that meet all those requirements

 

[daiquiridream]

He wants us to marry a man who can only afford to pay the light bill and that's it?? Lmao sounds like a recipe for disaster

 

[Savvir]

He wants us to marry a man who can only afford to pay the light bill and that's it?? Lmao sounds like a recipe for disaster

i mean.... only if you arent able to get a man who can do more...



women who can get more... do

this advice is just for the leftovers who cant figure out whats going on

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Reason why black community is in shambles because we having conversations about everything under the sun like this BS instead of getting our money up collectively

2053 will be here before you know it

 

[Chrishaune]

No other race of women speak on being independent and not needing men like black women...



other women know and accept that they are expected to fall in line with their men

no other race of women has the concept of "settling" for their own community

Ya'll are going to have to stop expecting black women to get it.

They are brainwashed by the media and culture. Other men are in black women's ear talking down on black men.

Get your passports brehs. Get out of the West.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

He wants us to marry a man who can only afford to pay the light bill and that's it?? Lmao sounds like a recipe for disaster

And if it went wrong people would be rushing in to type “choose better “

 

[Mordith]

No other race of women speak on being independent and not needing men like black women...



other women know and accept that they are expected to fall in line with their men

no other race of women has the concept of "settling" for their own community

 

[Savvir]

And if it went wrong people would be rushing in to type “choose better “

the thing is...
the women who "can" choose better... do...

it's only the leftovers who need advice...

and obviously they aint doin too well if they aint already getting the results they think they deserve...



the men are out there... the stats show it...

theres a missing part of the equation that yall cant seem to see...

like i said... the call is coming from inside the house...