“U Should Know Within 6 Months If U Wanna Marry A Woman”

[Shorty K]

These nikkas in these 10 year relationships(and thats not including the inevitable 5 year engagement) are just wasting time.

How's a 10 year relationship a waste of time if you don't sign a government contract that entitles a woman to a piece of what you built if she decides to leave

 

[BrehWyatt]

This.

I've been married since 2013.

What I knew about my wife or how I felt about her is going to be different than every other relationship.

You know when you know. You know when you critically think about all of the pros and cons and decide a married life with that woman has an overwhelming amount of pros.

You know when you acknowledge marriage isn't some fairytale shyt where you have cartoon birds singing on your shoulder every morning. You know when you realize you can't see yourself in this life without this woman, period.

Hopefully, this sheds some light.

I feel that.

Just curious, though. How long were you with your wife before you knew these things about her and decided you want to lock it down forever?

 

[Towlie]

Think it's different for everyone. But by month 8 we were engaged

 

[serial]

Do you ever really know someone? 6 months to me is a very short period of time. I know people who have switched up on their partners after 10 years of marriage.

 

[DPresidential]

I feel that.

Just curious, though. How long were you with your wife before you knew these things about her and decided you want to lock it down forever?

I hate to over simplify it because many different assumptions can be made... But... For times sake...

I had the ultimate crush on my wife when we were teenagers.

I was a shy kid.

College... I grew into my confident self.

We got together in my sophomore year of college.

By the 1st year, I knew, if she survived the bullshyt I put her through, I'd want to spend the rest of my life with her.

I didn't propose until our 8th year together.

That being said, I look back now and wish I didn't put her through the heart break of infidelity and fear of true commitment.

Doing it all again, I should have either not cheated or completely end the relationship so as not to hurt her as much as I did.

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I've been with a spectrum of women, none completed me like the woman I married.

It must sound crazy, right? How could you be in love or know you want to marry someone and not be ready to commit or be faithful.

Humans are flawed, temptation is ever present and growth is important.

I grew.

I've posted this before but my writing on it -

 

[BrehWyatt]

I hate to over simplify it because many different assumptions can be made... But... For times sake...

I had the ultimate crush on my wife when we were teenagers.

I was a shy kid.

College... I grew into my confident self.

We got together in my sophomore year of college.

By the 1st year, I knew, if she survived the bullshyt I put her through, I'd want to spend the rest of my life with her.

I didn't propose until our 8th year together.

That being said, I look back now and wish I didn't put her through the heart break of infidelity and fear of true commitment.

Doing it all again, I should have either not cheated or completely end the relationship so as not to hurt her as much as I did.

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I've been with a spectrum of women, none completed me like the woman I married.

It must sound crazy, right? How could you be in love or know you want to marry someone and not be ready to commit or be faithful.

Humans are flawed, temptation is ever present and growth is important.

I grew.

I've posted this before but my writing on it -

Real.

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

I say a yr at least. Vetting for marriage is more than red flags and love.

I have only heard women spew this 6 mos nonsense.

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

I say a yr at least. Vetting for marriage is more than red flags and love.

I have only heard women spew this 6 mos nonsense.

I'm actually surprised so many women in here are saying 6 months.

 

[NoChillJones]

Married brehs is this true

Ive heard this from alot of married people.

Some of them are divorced now though

Took me 2 years........

 

[Gold]

I'm tryna get married this year so this better be true

 

[75 Others]

Married brehs is this true

Ive heard this from alot of married people.

Some of them are divorced now though

There is no handbook for women breh. All women are different, but for me personally i knew in a little less than a year. Some dudes I know it took YEARS, some other dudes got married in a month.

There's no set standard at the end of the day

 

[MaxPain]

Took me 2 years........

Well ur wife is well known for her extra curricular activities afterall......

 

[NoChillJones]

Well ur wife is well known for her extra curricular activities afterall......

Says the lonely fukk taking advice from anonymous basement dwellers....


If you don't live with her there is no way you should know ....

 

[MaxPain]

Says the lonely fukk taking advice from anonymous basement dwellers....


If you don't live with her there is no way you should know ....

Thanks for letting me share ur wife. Next time I wont smoke all ur black & milds while ur at work.

 

[SadimirPutin]

Look at the divorce rate

Does that shyt sound like it makes sense to you