I just gotta say 3 things, from my perspective.....
1. Women care about looks. But there is a BROAD RANGE in what people find attractive.
2. STOP LISTENING TO WOMEN ON THE INTERNET!!!!! WOMEN ARE PATHOLOGICAL LIARS ON SOCIAL MEDIA!!!!!! THEIR nikkaS NEVERRRR MATCH THEIR WORDS/ACTIONS!!!!! I KNOW/KNEW MORE CUTE GIRLS MESSING WITH & HAVING BABIES BY TOAD nikkaS THAN ANYTHING ELSE!!!
3. If you don't find yourself attractive, you gotta change what you don't like about yourself. When you look good, you feel good, then you perform good. Lose some weight, see a dermatologist, go to your dentist, start dressing better (dressing better =/= more expensive clothes) get more consistent haircuts & find a haircut that suits you. I honestly find that most people aren't really ugly, they're just outta shape/don't take pride in their appearance.
If you keep these in mind, I promise you'll never lose.