UPDATE - Timberland's.... Infidelity or dumb paranoia?

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SOUND TO ME LIKE YOUR HUSBAND IS A BREAD WINNER MAKES GOOD MONEY SO YOU NOT GOING NO WHERE YOU'LL TAKE WHATEVER HE DOES BECAUSE HE MAKES GOOD MONEY...IF HE WAS BROKE YOU WOULD LEAVE...


bytchES AINT shyt

FIRST THINGS YOU TALKED ABOUT WHY YOU DONT WANT TO LEAVE MOSTLY HAD TO DO WITH FINANCIAL THINGS...bytchES LIKE YOU LOVE MONEY ITS OK JUST ADMIT IT

Financially I'm actually good without him. But I dont want to be just good I want to be the best I can be.

Dont want to just get by.
 

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SOUND TO ME LIKE YOUR HUSBAND IS A BREAD WINNER MAKES GOOD MONEY SO YOU NOT GOING NO WHERE YOU'LL TAKE WHATEVER HE DOES BECAUSE HE MAKES GOOD MONEY...IF HE WAS BROKE YOU WOULD LEAVE...


bytchES AINT shyt

FIRST THINGS YOU TALKED ABOUT WHY YOU DONT WANT TO LEAVE MOSTLY HAD TO DO WITH FINANCIAL THINGS...bytchES LIKE YOU LOVE MONEY ITS OK JUST ADMIT IT

Financially I'm actually good without him. But I dont want to be just good I want to be the best I can be.

Dont want to just get by.
 

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Sorry to hear.

You seem to have a lot going on so I don't know what you should do.
However, don't sleep on therapy. You might respect that he doesn't like/love you anymore and you may respect that the woman told you about it but your feelings are still hurt.

You should def let yourself feel the pain so you won't burst later on and hurt him or act a fool in front ya kids. Pain can hit you at the wrong time and then you acting like somebody you not.

Therapy and then figure out what you really want to do. I personally can't tolerate a cheater but it's not my life. Think things through.

I know.

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SOUND TO ME LIKE YOUR HUSBAND IS A BREAD WINNER MAKES GOOD MONEY SO YOU NOT GOING NO WHERE YOU'LL TAKE WHATEVER HE DOES BECAUSE HE MAKES GOOD MONEY...IF HE WAS BROKE YOU WOULD LEAVE...


bytchES AINT shyt

FIRST THINGS YOU TALKED ABOUT WHY YOU DONT WANT TO LEAVE MOSTLY HAD TO DO WITH FINANCIAL THINGS...bytchES LIKE YOU LOVE MONEY ITS OK JUST ADMIT IT

Ill admit it. I love money but its more complex than that. I can't get into it without providing even more unnecessary information.

I will say. I work hard along with him. I make active contributions to our life. Financial and practical. He is indeed the main breadwinner but I actually do a lot of background work like legal and other things.

Im not just sitting on my ass like a baby bird in a nest waiting to be fed. I am working on my law degree and I actually use the knowledge I have gained to our legal and financil advantage in real life. So I wont leap into something. I have to consider the legal and practical ramifications.

But leaving abruptly without a plan is crazy. A LOT of OUR financial interests are tied up together.
 

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Have yall tried couples therapy? If you're leaning toward staying it really can't hurt.

I don't know. For the kids two parent would be good.

Im not inlove with anyone else so I can stand being with him.

Breaking up is also a viable option.

I think therapy would be goos if I knew or felt 100% that I want to work it out.
 

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I know.

I don't know


Ill admit it. I love money but its more complex than that. I can't get into it without providing even more unnecessary information.

I will say. I work hard along with him. I make active contributions to our life. Financial and practical. He is indeed the main breadwinner but I actually do a lot of background work like legal and other things.

Im not just sitting on my ass like a baby bird in a nest waiting to be fed. I am working on my law degree and I actually use the knowledge I have gained to our legal and financil advantage in real life. So I wont leap into something. I have to consider the legal and practical ramifications.

But leaving abruptly without a plan is crazy. A LOT of OUR financial interests are tied up together.

Well if it's all about money like I knew it was stay with him and get some side dikk...that's why he stayed with you but got some side p*ssy...he wants new p*ssy but knows it's cheaper to keep you and you are over dude but know it's cheaper to keep him...get some side dikk and hide it well and you'll be fine just don't fall in love with whoever you fukking...sound scum baggish I know but hey if your mind is already wondering then you'll pull the trigger sooner or later just takes him to keep fukking up...if you in LA PM me :cape::pachaha:
 

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Should have chose better.:mjgrin:

I have been of the opinion that people aee shytty and unpredictable.

It's like it doesn't matter who you choose.

I say pic someone solely based on the physical.

But also taking into consideration things like drug use, alcohol consumption, intellect, mental disorsers...
 

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Well if it's all about money like I knew it was stay with him and get some side dikk...that's why he stayed with you but got some side p*ssy...he wants new p*ssy but knows it's cheaper to keep you and you are over dude but know it's cheaper to keep him...get some side dikk and hide it well and you'll be fine just don't fall in love with whoever you fukking...sound scum baggish I know but hey if your mind is already wondering then you'll pull the trigger sooner or later just takes him to keep fukking up...if you in LA PM me :cape::pachaha:

I don't have the desire for such a double life. It would be easier and less stressful to just breakup.

I have two kids and according to my hubby and the coli thats like a dating death sentence. Lol.being a single mother id only be able to date a simp - or so the coli says.
 

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I don't have the desire for such a double life. It would be easier and less stressful to just breakup.

I have two kids and according to my hubby and the coli thats like a dating death sentence. Lol.being a single mother id only be able to date a simp - or so the coli says.

Well if you got 2 kids and caught him cheating you'd probably win in divorce court and get a nice check outta dude...

If you haven't noticed the laws in your favorite concerning this because you have a vagina so you win in court no matter what...

Divorce, file for alimony and child support...since you're so conflicted
 

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Well if you got 2 kids and caught him cheating you'd probably win in divorce court and get a nice check outta dude...

If you haven't noticed the laws in your favorite concerning this because you have a vagina so you win in court no matter what...

Divorce, file for alimony and child support...since you're so conflicted

I wouldn't want alimony. Just a fair separation of assets would do for me. I don't feel any anger.
 
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