Wack 100 Explains Perfectly And Logically Why Men Shouldn't Get Married. Why Do People Get Mad At Men For Making Sense?

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The bold is what I feel is part of the problem. Can you honestly nurture a relationship while constantly plotting and maneuvering based on the end of it? It's like starting a job, but feeling like you'll be fired any day. You don't focus on being a good employee or the actual job, you focus on making sure you're secure if the job goes away.

I understand your perspective and don't think you are anyone that thinks this way is "wrong", but its absolutely counterproductive to making an association work for the long term.
Well that’s why I’m not married. I can nurture a relationship as long as I know I won’t suffer the most severe consequences should it end.

If COVID has taught us anything, it has shown us that loyalty means nothing. You should be constantly plotting if you’re suddenly made redundant. No different with relationships.

You can still focus whilst having a Plan B. Anyone who is foolish enough to invest 100% of themselves into a relationship is destined to fail. You don’t put all your life savings into one stock do you? It’s about diversifying and planning for the worst.
 

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Every married man I've ever known that was married over 10 years told me not to get married. Who better to know the perils of marriage than a man who has experienced marriage?


Back when I was clubbing, if I was standing in line, I would ask the person who came outta the club if it was popping, not the dude who was standing in line with me...

The only man who still tells me to get married is my father.
He's a piece of shyt and I've done pretty well in life just doing the opposite of whatever he advises, so... yeah.
 

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What's with the extremes? Some of you are incapable of thinking outside the box.

Y'all act like not wanting to get married means being alone or to be constantly chasing women. The point is to find someone to build a partnership with without the state being a part of your relationship.

No one is advocating being alone. You can be together with a woman, live together, have children, work together financially, and not be married.

The main point of being against marriage is to avoid the hassle and stress that comes along with it like attorneys, judges, and family courts which historically have not been favorable to men. You can have judges decide not to honor a prenup. Without fair legal treatment marriage is too great of a risk.
 
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Well that’s why I’m not married. I can nurture a relationship as long as I know I won’t suffer the most severe consequences should it end.

If COVID has taught us anything, it has shown us that loyalty means nothing. You should be constantly plotting if you’re suddenly made redundant. No different with relationships.

You can still focus whilst having a Plan B. Anyone who is foolish enough to invest 100% of themselves into a relationship is destined to fail. You don’t put all your life savings into one stock do you? It’s about diversifying and planning for the worst.
Again, I understand what you're saying but I view things differently. I invest 100% in myself, so that I can properly foster All my relationships, not just romantic, but but also be in a position to deal if the relationship doesn't work out.

I can be redundant to one relationship, but never all of them. So yeah, I can agree never put all your worth into one type of relationship. Doesn't mean I believe you have to plot for the end either.
 

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I rather take a person like Samuel L Jackson, Denzel Washington and Grant Hill advice on marriage who been married a long time, but I would also take don cheadle advice because he didn’t married his wife till 20 years later despite them living together

But I also would take actor Jeffrey Wright advice who was married 14 years but ended up getting a divorce

Those the type of brothers I would listen to
 

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What's with the extremes?

Y'all act like not wanting to get married means being alone or to be constantly chasing women. The point is to find someone to build a partnership with without the state being a part of your relationship.

No one is advocating being alone. You can be together with a woman, love together, have children, work together financially, and not be married.

The main point of being against marriage is to avoid the hassle and stress that comes along with it like attorneys, judges, and family courts which historically have not been favorable to men. You can have judges decide not to honor a prenup. Without fair legal treatment marriage is too great of a risk.

Exactly, lawyers openly tell men to move with caution.
 

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What's with the extremes?

Y'all act like not wanting to get married means being alone or to be constantly chasing women. The point is to find someone to build a partnership with without the state being a part of your relationship.

No one is advocating being alone. You can be together with a woman, love together, have children, work together financially, and not be married.

The main point of being against marriage is to avoid the hassle and stress that comes along with it like attorneys, judges, and family courts which historically have not been favorable to men. You can have judges decide not to honor a prenup. Without fair legal treatment marriage is too great of a risk.
this is naïve and not in touch with the real world

not being married means you 100% have to have your assets and children managed by the legal system. the world is set up to automatically grant spouses certain things but if you are unmarried you will have to lawyer up for every little thing

bae is an attorney and the amount of bullshyt unmarried people both male and female have to deal with is unreal :sadcam: shoulda just got married smh
 
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One minute coli dude-We need to be in our kids lives and and and black love.

Next minute-every married man told me don't get married. Blah blah blah.

If some of yall ain't the most pathetic hypocritical fake weasels. Smh

And I know a typical coli genius gonna say we can be in our kids life without being married. Lol
 

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You marry one of these modern American women that don’t cook, clean, listen, and on top of that gotta pay all her bills :mjlol:

Then married women don’t even be putting out like that.

Now you paying all the bills for some p*ssy once a week. And whenever she feel like it she can just bounce and take half.

Worst deal ever. Only nikkas that’s still getting married is religious nikkas, dudes that just wanna have kids in a recession, and simps that can’t get p*ssy on the reg so they feel like they gotta lock one down as a safety net.

Marriage is a stupid deal, fukk I look like paying some broad bills in 2022 for some p*ssy once in a while :camby:
 

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Anyone scared to get married just doesn’t have the ability to find and choose the right woman in life.

Wack100 isn’t exactly the perfect example of a normal guy considering his antics, so he isn’t one to hang your hat on as proof of anything about marriage.

If you don’t want to get married then don’t :yeshrug:

If I had a dime for every guy that said they married they right woman and their wife would never do 'that'.
 

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I'll say it every time this topic comes up but I really wish y'all would make up your minds.

Y'all are against marriage :hula:
but if a woman isn't married by 30 then something's wrong with her :hula:
but if she marries a cac she's a bedwench :hula:
and if she has a kid she's damaged goods :hula:
But you're AGAINST marriage...



:dahell::what:
 
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