Want to break up with my girl, struggling to find the right time to do it. HELP!!!

[Dipsey Doo]

Be a man and just end it. Ending a relationship is never easy and there is always blow back from the party that got dumped.

Be prepared for a huge wave of emotion from your girl. It’ll eventually pass.

 

[The Guru]

Wait if you like. Till she does it for youYou'll be

 

[inndaskKy]

"NOOOOW!"

"HHGGHHH..HHGLLHH"

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

She has also expressed how its one of the worst relationship she has been too. Both of us things aren't working. We are the wrong fit for each other

You wanting out is independant from her calender. End it.

“Listen. I am not happy…I know you have a lot planned in the next few weeks, and the problems we are having will distract them or make them worse. Things have not been good, and I have not been in a while. I’ve tried, but cannot continue being with you. I love you, but this is goodbye.”

Do not negotiaite. Be willing to give up the things you have at her place, or get them first. Don’t initiate conversation via txt after but no need to cut her off or block, especially after 8 months. Just keep it moving.

 

[CobaltBlue]

I’ll be honest with you, a woman would not extend you the same courtesy.

If she REALLY wanted to break up with you, she would… and you could have 10x the amount of things goin on that she does right now.

8 months ain’t shyt anyway

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Breh if you're both genuinely unhappy this isn't going to be as big of a bombshell as you think it is. You're both just sitting around waiting for the other to pull the trigger, so chances are if you sit her down and say " X...we're both unhappy and have been so for a while...I think this relationship has run it's course, and we should both go our separate ways".

She might feel relived. She might also be able to focus on the things happening in her life. So you break up with her...She gets this job. Her girl comes into town and they go out for a girls weekend, etc...She might view it as a blessing. Stop overthinking and do what you feel is best for you.

 

[Ed MOTHERFUCKING G]

Breh if you're both genuinely unhappy this isn't going to be as big of a bombshell as you think it is. You're both just sitting around waiting for the other to pull the trigger, so chances are if you sit her down and say " X...we're both unhappy and have been so for a while...I think this relationship has run it's course, and we should both go our separate ways".

She might feel relived. She might also be able to focus on the things happening in her life. So you break up with her...She gets this job. Her girl comes into town and they go out for a girls weekend, etc...She might view it as a blessing. Stop overthinking and do what you feel is best for you.

My on again off again from the past two years and i ended it for good with basically a simultaneous trigger pull, defintiely the most complete tear we ever have…not even an argument, just a double band aid rip. First time we both KNOW its over. I didnt shed a tear. And it wasnt the bomb i thought it would be, agreed.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

fukk wha these nikkas tombout

the wreck experience

 

[Chief]

Smash the friend

 

[RubioTheCruel]

She has also expressed how its one of the worst relationship she has been too. Both of us things aren't working. We are the wrong fit for each other

Breh 8 months and you're already on this time? Just call her up now and let her know this shyt ain't working and you wish her the best

 

[FeverPitch2]

As a man, you want to do anything and everything important the right way.
Breh said a woman would not afford you the same courtesy, but you don't want to put yourself on the same level as shytty people.
A few weeks is nothing and it's not going to kill you. Obviously, you feel that she is a decent person, but it just isn't working out.
After the cookout, let her know that it's not working. Give your reasons and let that be that.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

We been dating for 8 months, we are both not happy & forcing things, no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the "bad guy" who ended it.

I'm ready to end things but struggling to find the right timing, I don't want to mess up things going on in her life.

She is preparing for a big 100k+ job interview this week, She got a friend visiting her next week. She arranged for a cookout with another couple we know the week after. Over a month of things planned

When should I end things?

You worrying about being the bad guy? You the type of mofo that would stay in a bad relationship and be miserable all because you scared to say something..

 

[Belize King]

We been dating for 8 months, we are both not happy & forcing things, no one wants to end it because they don't want to be the "bad guy" who ended it.

I'm ready to end things but struggling to find the right timing, I don't want to mess up things going on in her life.

She is preparing for a big 100k+ job interview this week, She got a friend visiting her next week. She arranged for a cookout with another couple we know the week after. Over a month of things planned

When should I end things?

Sounds like you use the L word. I’d do it after the interview. Y’all both miserable so it will probably be relieving. Life is too short to not be happy.

 

[Splash]

"We are both not happy and are forcing things"

Tonight

Mr International Playa

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Keep playing this game and fukk around staying too long
Telling you right now
Your feelings may change to actually liking/loving her more
And I promise she gon hit you with a Riddikk Bowe uppercut to the chin when she gets ready to end it
Been there, Done that
Cut that shyt now because I promise you she ain’t going to be fukked up about you because she talking to a new nikka right now or has been for the past 2 to 3 months