Washington Post: Hookup Culture Isn’t The Real Problem Facing Singles Today. It’s Math.

[kevm3]

Are you saying that men don't value commitment/companionship only sex ?

I'm saying men aren't going to want to commit to someone that a lot of other men have had and waits until she starts falling off to look for that commitment

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

to sum it up women lose in the dating game as they get older, and the older you get as a man the more of a prize you become

Then why are nikkas here so miserable

A lot of the dudes here who cry about women are in these cities. Something is not adding up.

 

[Kid McNamara]

I'm just saying you out here with a damn doctoral thesis on the subject when you sound like a kid fresh outta high school

What to tell young nikkas as a young nikka..hmmm

I'm 31 b, just now waking up and realizing how many different ways there are to experience the world and live life.

If I'm out here doing anything other than maximizing myself I'm truly wasting my time.

But you go ahead.

 

[Yup]

These women are waiting for some rich, degreed guy to marry them, but yet they are hooking up all the time, and yet they want to settle down at 30 with some rare catch of a guy... some guy who has money, a degree and access to women in their 20s who are all looking for this similar type of guy? These women won't cook and clean, but they expect some guy to ring up a 30+year old whose mileage has been ran up? Come on now. But we'll have a ton of articles telling these women lies and assuring them it will be alright and billy big bucks will be here to scoop them up in their 40s with millions of dollars and a fantasy lifestyle, but until then, all the men are gay or in prison or are too poor and unworthy of them.

I been telling these women, if you want the best chance at getting married, you better do it while you are in your prime and keep your mileage low.

What women is mature at 21 years old or ready for marriage.. to me it makes more sense for women to get married between 25-30. Most women like the idea of marriage young but have no idea what they are getting themselves into. They have to experience relationships/breakups like young men to enter a healthy relationship. It'seems silly to expect a woman barely out of highschool to be prime for marriage.

 

[Yup]

I'm saying men aren't going to want to commit to someone that a lot of other men have had and waits until she starts falling off to look for that commitment

Are these the only women that exist today? I have always been against hookup culture both from women and men.

 

[MikelArteta]

Then why are nikkas here so miserable

A lot of the dudes here who cry about women are in these cities. Something is not adding up.

there still young
things change as you get older

 

[MikelArteta]

Are these the only women that exist today? I have always been against hookup culture both from women and men.

for the most part yeah.

gettng sex has never been easier, just give a woman some mysterious vibe and tingles and you in her already

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

there still young
things change as you get older

The young college brehs have it better than ever and it's only going to keep getting better

There's no excuses. It's a feeding frenzy

 

[Kid McNamara]

What women is mature at 21 years old or ready for marriage.. to me it makes more sense for women to get married between 25-30. Most women like the idea of marriage young but have no idea what they are getting themselves into. They have to experience relationships/breakups like young men to enter a healthy relationship. It'seems silly to expect a woman barely out of highschool to be prime for marriage.

Problem is women age like cars not like houses. Women age line milk, not like wine.

And unmarried women over the age of say 28-29 tend to be far less emotionally healthy than younger women.

 

[Yup]

for the most part yeah.

gettng sex has never been easier, just give a woman some mysterious vibe and tingles and you in her already

Who says so, since your interaction is limited. I know within my circle that isn't the case at all. We are not a bunch of dimes but we are average young women. I am willing to bet there are many out there although, the pressure of easy sex are real among women and men.

 

[FSP]

I'm 31 b, just now waking up and realizing how many different ways there are to experience the world and live life.

If I'm out here doing anything other than maximizing myself I'm truly wasting my time.

But you go ahead.

Damn I was totally off wasn't i?

See I was just under the impression that people get hitched because they just get sick of being soooo self centered all the damn time. Like really son, your whole life?

In that way I sort of respect marriage, long term relationships etc... I don't advocate it, but I see why people do it.

But preaching to kids why they should never do it, its wrong under every circumstancd and fukk hoes all day till u die, is a disservice to the experience of life. Idk, it's just how I feel.

 

[#1 pick]

Keep convincing yourself that bad good looking chicks lack options into their 30's brehs. Ya'll know ya'll lying to yourself. Most of them still bad in their 30's unless their white or mexican.

 

[Yup]

Problem is women age like cars not like houses. Women age line milk, not like wine.

And unmarried women over the age of say 28-29 tend to be far less emotionally healthy than younger women.

Knowing a young woman's age is not the only determinant factor of how emotionally healthy she is when it comes to relationships. There are plenty of men who are stunted when it comes to relationships as they get older....but it is what people do and have been exposed to that creates that.

 

[JamilALAmin]

This sounds feminine and lame.

I remember this single mom talking to me about how her ex-husband used to dogg her out with other women. I quote, "We had kids but he wanted to keep messing around with his 18 year olds."

Dude was mid-thirties, in super good shape.

I remember thinking, "that's my kind of guy."



Plenty of white boys get laid off too, the American Dream is an antiquated concept and you should be invested in You, all the time. People get complacent and sink.

Stop telling half the story, black people thrive as well. It's a tough world for everyone.

At the end of the day in an office setting it's really about who likes you and who you know as much as it about what you can actually do for the company in terms of work. And when companies go from the black to the red and its time to trim the fat so to speak and let some people go, people always get cut who were good workers simply because they didnt play the office politics game right. They may have worked hard but they were aloof from their co-workers or maybe the boss just didnt like them. And Cacs dont like us. Plain and simple. They dont even like to be around us. To say anything else is a fukking lie. And quite often that person on the outside looking in those types setting like that is Black people. Ive always demo'd with older cats and old heads and thats the one thing I noticed early. Black men aint getting no love out there in the professional world unless we do this shyt ourself.

 

[Vice Queen]

fukk what you heard, I've been on that date a high school graduate thing.