Washington Post: Hookup Culture Isn’t The Real Problem Facing Singles Today. It’s Math.
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What do you based that on? If quality women are rare wouldn't that mean quality men are rare too? I really don't understand when I hear you guys say this?
What makes a woman quality and what makes a man quality?
I keep telling nikkas, chicks are turning 18 everyday. As long as your salary keeps increasing with your age and you stay in shape there's no real reason to settle down before 35
That is the thing. That is why a older kat can go on campus and pick up darn near any women because of his earning potential. I mean how many of us folks have seen some local with a good job, ride up on campus and get the baddest women.
Women have to understand that they can't play around at a young age dating. They can't play the game men play because their value in society decreases as they get older (sad but true). And Young men need to remember that their value increases as they get older. So focus improving your self when you are young.
This stuff is nothing more than looks and money. Your looks are the best when you are young and your money and worth normally grows when you get older. Women like men who can give security and men like.women with looks.
Hell I go to china every month and you would be amazed at the amount of older dudes in their late 40s and 50s walking around with 20 and 30 year old women. These old men clean up so well (especially the foreigners) these young broke Chinese boys can't get no p*ssy or women.
Another thing folks don't really strategize and think when dating and end up losing a lot. Just poor overall decisions.
Exactly...how many times have brehs gotten mad on here about the limited optiona that women especially bw claim they have.
Quality man to me is;
1) family man that puts family first.
2) cooperative husband that sees his relationship as a team effort
3)good provider
Kenny West
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Not enough 6ft+ dudes for american hoes:kermitleanin:China is waiting, ladies.
Dat male overpopulation.
Tremendous.
What he doesn't mention is the social aspect, to wit, the majority of Silicon Valley guys are nerdy simps with asberger tendencies (truth). If this dynamic changed and suddenly cats turned into say, Chris Hemsworth in Blackhat (guys with extreme confidence in their abilities, their money, and their bodies), women would be getting the same treatment.
Imagine a bunch of hackers running around like:
No. See above. Getting married to subpar San Francisco women doesn't equal winning. The opposite actually.
This is the first advice all young men should be given, along with essential on talking to women and "game."
Never allow yourself to get washed.
Not cold at all...in any way. It's not cold when Kravitz, Clooney, or Jeter does it. nikkas out here looking, dressing, and being better than they were in their 20's.
Surrounded by 18 year olds right now (college), before that was surrounded by teenagers. People tend to assume these young dudes have swagger or whatever. Most nikkas aren't even close to interesting before the age of 25.
These young girls are basically enamored with men who are not washed. Even if you are washed, make a change.
Underrated point. Even among the outnumbered male college graduates that number is further whittled down considering how many of them ugly, too short, too swagless, no game etc. Truly the 80/20 rule in action. Dat hypergamy
I think you are selling a lot of men broken dreams by this belief that a 50 he old man will scoop up about teens or 20 yr olds.
And even if that was true how many men can actuallc do this? How many men are looking for casual relationships? You can't assume that everyone wants the same things in life or going to get it the same way.
Reality hits us all women like men just differently.
coli nikkas assume all 40+ got game, handsome looks, make six figures in a 6. I think thecoli really overvalues themselves. Most of the 30 to 40 that be doing this shyt was doing it in their 20's as well. I think these guys really underestimate the game for women and over for men. I really do.
Yep but in general society and doesn't look at men who date women less educated as them in a different light.
But the thought of a woman dating a less educated man is looked as settling or going a step back.which is really stupid.
I will never forget when I first started as an engineer fresh out of college (I was working in aerospace). I had an older mentor and he pulled me aside one day. He said young man folks think that engineers make all the money here outside of management. But you know who really make the money? These operators and technicians. They make the money and got the job security (union).
Later that day we go outside and my mentor says look at those folks leaving work (the first shift ended). You see who got them bad ass cars? Those operators, technicians and mechanics. Those jokers clocking up to $35 an hour, plus double time on Sunday, plus time and a half for anything over 40 hrs, plus triple time on holidays. Yet folks will tell you with a straight face that those aren't good jobs because they aren't educated.
My mentor spoke nothing but the truth on that. One of my partners is an aircraft mechanic and makes like 120k a year easily with a certificate he got in like a year and a half. Funny cause I tried to hook him up with a girl I know but she was acting funny because he was a blue collar dude. She asked me like two years ago how he was doing and I was like yeah my boy got married. She was like wow he got married? I was like hell yeah dude a aircraft mechanic making six figures and working for American airlines.....you think some sista wasn't gonna snatch him up....
Women have to realize they arye not men...I will not deny this. The big draw for men to women is beauty/youth, I understand but that doesnt sustain relationships. Shoot dudes complain that women think the only thing they have to offer is looks, guess why cause that is what is rewarded more so than maturity/life experience/etc...
People overestimate what they'll end up based on stats? Seems men are in as much need of that humble pie as women
The word quality has PLENTY of meaning for someone with common sense. We can play semantic games and argue all day long, or we can use our heads and identify traits that are likely to contribute towards success in a long-term relationship. One key trait is her moral basis and how well she adheres to the moral code she claims to subscribe to. Obviously, you're going to want to be with someone who you enjoy on a personal level. I can go on and on. It's only a bunch of nonsense if your definition of quality is nonsense.
Yep but in general society and doesn't look at men who date women less educated as them in a different light.
But the thought of a woman dating a less educated man is looked as settling or going a step back.which is really stupid.
I will never forget when I first started as an engineer fresh out of college (I was working in aerospace). I had an older mentor and he pulled me aside one day. He said young man folks think that engineers make all the money here outside of management. But you know who really make the money? These operators and technicians. They make the money and got the job security (union).
Later that day we go outside and my mentor says look at those folks leaving work (the first shift ended). You see who got them bad ass cars? Those operators, technicians and mechanics. Those jokers clocking up to $35 an hour, plus double time on Sunday, plus time and a half for anything over 40 hrs, plus triple time on holidays. Yet folks will tell you with a straight face that those aren't good jobs because they aren't educated.
My mentor spoke nothing but the truth on that. One of my partners is an aircraft mechanic and makes like 120k a year easily with a certificate he got in like a year and a half. Funny cause I tried to hook him up with a girl I know but she was acting funny because he was a blue collar dude. She asked me like two years ago how he was doing and I was like yeah my boy got married. She was like wow he got married? I was like hell yeah dude a aircraft mechanic making six figures and working for American airlines.....you think some sista wasn't gonna snatch him up....
Ya your right, people need to change their attitude that education is limited to university which lands you cushy desk jobs. But attitudes are slowly changing...
Most chicks are not still 'bad' in their 30s. They may still look decent, and yes, dudes will still sleep with them, but the likelihood of a man throwing a ring on their finger plummets as they age.
Dude you read that and that is all you got out of what I wrote....lol.
As a man it is easier to date as you get older because your earning will grow (if you have a job). As a woman it is easier to date when you are young because of looks and whatnot.
It has always been like this in most societies. How many times do you see 50 year old women with 30 year old men. Now how many times do you see 50 year old men with 30 year old women. I see this shyt all the time here in Dallas. I am just laughing seeing these old kats with women young enough to be their daughters.
There is one expensive restaurant my wife and I go to here. Man these old men pull up in their expensive cars with this young ass women with their tight Instagram skits and dresses on...
. The girls be dressed up half naked and old dude walking around looking like my dad.Even my old VP who was 60 married a young girl in her mid 30s. Man these old dudes love young women.
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Kenny West
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I saw a grey haired 45ish looking white dude on a starbucks date with a chick who looked in her mid 20s 2 days ago. And she was black
My oldhead I used to work with was on the wrong side of 50 with grey patches and a face that looks like someone smashed one side of it with a hammer. I came by to pick up my check on a saturday (office was closed) and this nikka had just got done smashing a 27 year old in the bathroom.
She was nice too. But he's married and an excon so that's like playing with a cheat code.
I said most bad chicks are still bad in their 30's.