Stop it! Common sense is not so common when it's an opinion laced comment. You don't know how many men and women talk about a lot of quality this and not enough quality this...
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And I can find examples of women who are way past their 20's who are going into their third or 4th marriage. Some people have got it like that but most people don't.I saw a grey haired 45ish looking white dude on a starbucks date with a chick who looked in her mid 20s 2 days ago. And she was black
My oldhead I used to work with was on the wrong side of 50 with grey patches and a face that looks like someone smashed one side of it with a hammer. I came by to pick up my check on a saturday (office was closed) and this nikka had just got done smashing a 27 year old in the bathroom.She was nice too. But he's married and an excon so that's like playing with a cheat code.
Maybe, men can do this more than women but not a majority of them can or care to do that.
Common sense isn't common because we have too many people kicking fantasies and telling people some falsehoods. For example, you can tell a dude not to marry a stripper or a woman that clubs every night, and 'back then', it would be common accepted wisdom. Now, dudes think they are above reality and they'll argue with you and go ahead and wife up the party girl. It's no wonder people are confused to what quality is.
Never disagreed....but you did say vps, men with big cateens are more likely to be able to do this. I thinK it's silly to assumed thatS going to me even half of adult make populationa reality.Dude you read that and that is all you got out of what I wrote....lol.
As a man it is easier to date as you get older because your earning will grow (if you have a job). As a woman it is easier to date when you are young because of looks and whatnot.
It has always been like this in most societies. How many times do you see 50 year old women with 30 year old men. Now how many times do you see 50 year old men with 30 year old women. I see this shyt all the time here in Dallas. I am just laughing seeing these old kats with women young enough to be their daughters.
There is one expensive restaurant my wife and I go to here. Man these old men pull up in their expensive cars with this young ass women with their tight Instagram skits and dresses on.... The girls be dressed up half naked and old dude walking around looking like my dad.
Even my old VP who was 60 married a young girl in her mid 30s. Man these old dudes love going women.
but if you say it, your a "hater", or "misogynst"
Things a man finds attractive in a woman fades as she gets older while the opposite is true.
I'm 30 and wouldnt even be caught dead looking at a 30 year old woman
till im like 36an older woman got emotional damage, cant have kids, bonded sexually with to many nikkas, looks decaying, best days are gone.
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Oh some of these dudes do because it is the internet. But overall it is much easier for an old dude to.get a young woman than an old woman to get a younger man.
Like I said from high school to college old dudes have always went to high school or a college and picked up girls because they had a car or some money or a job where they could buy women things.
Women like security and older men can provide that. I can't tell you how many times in college or early in my career where some bad female me and my boys knew was messing with some old kat. Dude was paying bills or taking her on trips to wine or dine her.
One of my home girls messing with some 52 year old dude now and she is 35. I was like hey whats up I saw you with this old kat. She was like oh yeah that is Roger that is my boo thang. I am like so why didn't you tell me and our peoples you were dating that older kat.
She like well I didn't know how to get y'all and uhhh you know my house. They was gonna take it man.....but my boo thang be taking care of me and he made sure everything was alright.
China is waiting, ladies.
Dat male overpopulation.
Trust I been their countless times there are plenty of men to date. However you better do it soon because they are laxing that one child rule so that gap won't be so big in the coming decades.
It still is for most. Most dudes wifing strippers are in that lifestyle to some degree. You using exceptions and acting like it's the rule. If you are talking about public perception, that's on the media not us.
some cats take what women say they want too literally, employment gaps on a resume aren't ideal, but if you can articulate positives of what you were doing with the time or what you can bring to the table you aren't out of the running, its the same shyt lol
Good read
NEVERWomen are done in by their own mentality. You want a responsible man with money cares for you but lets you do you.
So does a 21 year old with lower mileage on her odometer.
You too good to eat at chipotle or red lobster? that's a gourmet meal to that struggling 21 year old
Women never see the big picture or the long con
Dude I said as a man ages his money grows or his career grows. Don't no dude start off as a VP or Director or Engineer at 18. Most likely he gets a job and keeps moving up. Even the dude on campus with the shytty McDonalds job normally grows career wise and ends up having some form of career.
Most men in their 50s will have more money and a bigger salary than they had at 20. shyt is like investing in stock or an IRA. It is the time that you are looking at.
Last either you young or haven't gone outside because old dudes with young women is as common as a blue sky. Like I said before how many old women you see with young men?
I have literally seen old dudes go into a club and ask young chicks if they need a sugar daddy and by the end of the night dude has a pocket full of numbers and walking out with a young lady.
Let a old 50 year old women walk in a club asking some young dudes if they want a sugar momma. Man dudes would be running away from her unless she looked like a 50 year old Pam Grier.