We Are the Generation That Doesn’t Want Relationships

[At30wecashout]

Don't blow up my spot. I'm trying to get this thread kicked off

 

[concise]

the difference is commitment. There's not much commitment in a generation that upgrades its phone every year and has the shortest attention span ever.

Smartphones are only built to last about 3 years.

 

[FSP]

There it is.

There used to be a huge huge stigma in this country when it came to divorce. That's why marriage was such a big deal. You basically got married just once and that was it. You didn't just get divorced, your husband/wife better damn die first. But by then you've already had 2-3-10 kids and plus you didn't work as a woman most likely so you didn't just marry the next guy. Cheating and stuff happened then too, but because the stigma of divorce and fear of loneliness from the womans POV, you just stuck it out. Divorce didn't even make any sense. Compare that today.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Smartphones are only built to last about 3 years.

You get the point connie.
Everyone wants the next new thing.

 

[CinnaSlim]

There used to be a huge huge stigma in this country when it came to divorce. That's why marriage was such a big deal. You basically got married just once and that was it. You didn't just get divorced, your husband/wife better damn die first. But by then you've already had 2-3-10 kids and plus you didn't work as a woman most likely so you didn't just marry the next guy. Cheating and stuff happened then too, but because the stigma of divorce and fear of loneliness from the womans POV, you just stuck it out. Divorce didn't even make any sense. Compare that today.

Not just because of the stigma but divorce was actually a lot harder to get.

 

[Mugenight]

Article is bs. Men want relationships, but these women are hos and its no repercussions for it anymore. It's actually celebrated. Society is fcked

Feminism/sexual liberation or whatever you wanna call it is fukking both men and women and it seems like no one is talking about it.

Men who play the field are literally creating the thot's they don't wanna wife up.

Women who seem keen on behaving like pseudo-men seem to forget they are the gatekeepers of sex.

Which is why most seem to either not discuss,distort or outright lie about sexual history.

shyt's a mess

 

[Giselle]

People look at the couples that made it 50+ years and it warms their heart but they ignore the shyt they went thru to make it there. U gotta decide if someone is worth taking that journey with, u don't have to date anybody and if a few obstacles are gonna bother your soft ass then go ahead & die alone

Example being the nikkas on here that be leaving a bytch cause she getting big instead of getting her into better, healthy habits.

nikkas want somebody to fukk and somebody who reaffirms their love for them but they also forget that by going into a relationship with somebody you've agreed to go through he journey of life together, and a main part of that is pushing each other to be the best they can.

I'm glad that you said that. I thought you were going to say something about staying through disrespect such as cheating and other abuse.

I do understnd leaving if your partner refuses to try to get healthy after you've asked them. It's better to leave than to cheat on them.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

You get the point connie.
Everyone wants the next new thing.

'Dat new.

 

[BocaRear]

Fall in love brehs & be in a relationship brehs

You nikkas just wasting your time. Lemme give you a spoiler: you end up either divorced or unhappily married if you even make it to that stage

If not, you end up forgetting about em after a while and carry on with your life on to the next bytch

Might as well just be a dog since women in the west aint shyt

 

[Klyk21]

Didn't like the style of the article with all the " we want" crap but it seems to be true,

 

[www.THUG.com]

I wanna be in a relationship. I just don't wanna deal with the fact that flakes, phonies, and cheaters seem to be rampant.

Meanwhile, the best people to partner up with...I am always too late.

This! My last relationship which ended horribly caused me to shut down and shut myself off from the dating arena. My skin isn't thick enough to put up with the unnecessary bs floating out here.

I'm a great friend but a horrible girlfriend

 

[Matt504]

Seems like this article is missing the larger scope of the issue which is, this generation wants things without having to actually work for them, this isn't limited to relationships.

"People of this generation want to be rich but instead of working hard to enjoy the trappings of their effort, they are content with giving the illusion that they rich by taking pictures in vehicles they don't own or holding fistfuls of cash that's destined for rent and utilities."

 

[Giselle]

There used to be a huge huge stigma in this country when it came to divorce. That's why marriage was such a big deal. You basically got married just once and that was it. You didn't just get divorced, your husband/wife better damn die first. But by then you've already had 2-3-10 kids and plus you didn't work as a woman most likely so you didn't just marry the next guy. Cheating and stuff happened then too, but because the stigma of divorce and fear of loneliness from the womans POV, you just stuck it out. Divorce didn't even make any sense. Compare that today.

When I think about that, I think about how there's one for black people having kids without being married. I believe that will change as well.

 

[At30wecashout]

This! My last relationship which ended horribly caused me to shut down and shut myself off from the dating arena. My skin isn't thick enough to put up with the unnecessary bs floating out here.

I'm a great friend but a horrible girlfriend

Tell me about it. I enjoyed every goddamn moment with my ex, but lord knows I should have felt more. As open as I was, I wasn't open enough. Past experience has me

in this place where potential romance isn't exciting, cause people have fukked with me for so longFools out here training us to be bitter beings.

 

[newworldafro]

Yep. Crazy time.