We Are the Generation That Doesn’t Want Relationships

[Black Cobain]

I don't want a relationship, I don't even wanna fukk most of the time

 

[Matt504]

a relationship shouldn't be a source of additional stress in your life, when you have work and bills to think about, it should be a place of comfort

which is exactly why I say relationships in 2016 are outdated

and hopefully when sex robots come we can limit interaction to 0

you've got a lot of living and learning to do if you believe there was ever a such thing as stress-free relationships.

 

[Audemar]

relationships with other human beings require hard work.

Which is why I do the obvious: avoid people unless interaction is absolutely necessary.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

And if u do go against the depressed, scared ass, love-hatin, bitter Twitter nikka brigade, u get called all kinds of unrealistic, living in Lala land, crazy, simp, sucka.

Im so sick of people who think hurt and pain is the only thing real in life.

Getcho scared ass out the way so the rest of us can thrive. Some people stay suckin on lemons, trying to hurt others the way they've been hurt.

It's a lotta wounded deers out here in the dating game pretending they hustlas and playas and...maaaaaannnn getcho corny ass outta here. Lmao!

Too fukkin scared and u can't love scared. It's impossible!

 

[DrX]

theres a major disconnect between people ...ppl down even look at each other anymore....theyre very cold

 

[Yapdatfool]

I can see both sides of this argumament

 

[Rawtid]

We do want them but don't want to work for them or be "stuck" with one person.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

I just fukk these hoes and never cuff em.

 

[Mugenight]

We do want them but don't want to work for them or be "stuck" with one person.

Tbh I usually see comments like this from folks who sleep around.

 

[Vice Queen]

I don't want to end up like the women in my family.

 

[Spin]

These are the 3 types of guys I generally see today:

#1 This is the guy who is "traditional" and wants to be seen by everyone else as doing the "right" thing. He finds a girl he has known for a good amount of time from his social circle and settles down. On paper, everything looks great. In reality, this guy is suffering. He never really sexually courted his mate to begin with. Generally these types will be friend zoned for years and either because of their job, status, or some other benefit, the girl decides to settle down with him. These types of guys also fall prey to girls they're not even attracted to, but give them attention. The worst part about these guys is they have no say in their relationships. As their male friend, you have to be very careful with this type because they're quick to turn on you to save face.

#2 I'm seeing much more of this today. These guys see what's happening to guy #1 and don't want any part of that life. Yet they have yet to develop the skills to attract the kind of woman they do actually want. The end result is they stay single. There are varying degrees of happiness in this crowd. Some are ok with it while others still crave a relationship.

#3 This guy also doesn't want to end up like #1, but takes a different approach than #2. He might still be single, but allocates time to talking to different women. However, he doesn't place much value on any one interaction. Knowing all the media brainwashing out there, this guy knows many of the interactions are going to be a waste of time. The main thing is he keeps the time wasters from wasting his time. Generally guys in this category are working on goals that are beyond trying to find someone to settle down with.

 

[010101]

blahhhhhh blahhhhhh blahhhhhh
it's always only been about a nut
feed that appetite and keep moving

but 99% of individuals are goofy and end up hypnotized by that disney fairytale fukkshyte jajajahahaa

*

 

[Mugenight]

#3 is the way to be.

 

[www.THUG.com]

Tell me about it. I enjoyed every goddamn moment with my ex, but lord knows I should have felt more. As open as I was, I wasn't open enough. Past experience has me

in this place where potential romance isn't exciting, cause people have fukked with me for so longFools out here training us to be bitter beings.

We're going to be and always like a damn zombie flick

 

[tater]

I agree that ppl in that age demographic don't want the hard work of maintaining a relationship, but tbh with the advent of technology and globalization u really can live an exciting and fulfilling life without romantic love. Especially if u can finance it. A trip to Italy, a trip to Spain, a trip to South Africa, etc. A wine and painting class. Indoor skydiving. Running a marathon. Volunteering. U can do all of these things with ur friends (or alone if ur brazen enough). Could they be more fun if done with a spouse? Possibly. But long gone are the days where u need a loving relationship to live a prosperous fulfilling life

I've done most of these things, with friends, alone, and randoms. I can say without a doubt they all would have been more fulfilling if I had someone I truly cared about doing it with me. I've travelled all over the world alone and with friends, and no matter how good of a time I have the thought creeps into my head at times that I wish I had someone to share these experiences with that I had a deep/er connection with. Not saying I don't enjoy myself, it's just...different.

What fun is it remembering a trip or something funny only to have no one to chat about it with because the friend you made isn't really a friend just an associate you picked up at a hostel or online? Idk...I just don't agree with you.