Unless they die you're not going to remember those experiences as fondly because you'll most likely break up with these "special someones" and you'll look upon them with so much contempt it'll poison the memories. My best memories are with friends.
We Are the Generation That Doesn’t Want Relationships
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Unless they die you're not going to remember those experiences as fondly because you'll most likely break up with these "special someones" and you'll look upon them with so much contempt it'll poison the memories. My best memories are with friends.
Unless they die you're not going to remember those experiences as fondly because you'll most likely break up with these "special someones" and you'll look upon them with so much contempt it'll poison the memories. My best memories are with friends.
I'm not a very jaded person. So even if I was to break up with someone I understand that we had good and bad times and I'll go from there. It's happened before...it's not like I look back at those past memories and scoff. We had a good time then and that's what I remember.
Woman of god
Banned
Hope.
don't be like that:justgodude:Hope made me take a chance on romance. Hope can eat a dikk
awkwardblackgirl
Shakara
I've gotten sonned and played by a lot of men trying to be the opposite of what the OP posted. I get ghosted a lot and then the 6month - 1 year later "hey stranger long time" text. It's exhausting having to go through that over and over, especially if you live in an area like the DMV where there are a lot attractive, black, professional men and women. It's like there are too many choices and no one can focus. The way these men act, it's like they're looking past me for the next best thing. It's hard not to get jaded in a dating environment like this.
:blacknerdlost:I echo your sentiments.
awkwardblackgirl
Shakara
I swear I've met so many guys like that original post. It's scarily uncanny
and a bit disappointing, it's been a surprise to see all these irrational, emotionally shut down men out here.
I've reached a weird point where if it happens it happens, if it don't, it don't.
A1aaa
Respectful Fade Runner & Card Puller
young black professional making good bread, so the concept of a traditional lovey-dovey relationship is to me
overall, i love the freedom of only being accountable to myself. and honestly, it's the 1-3 month flings that are the most fun for me anyway.
to me overall, i love the freedom of only being accountable to myself. and honestly, it's the 1-3 month flings that are the most fun for me anyway.
The average woman between the age of 18 and 30 is trying to hear that from a black man. Not the average black man anyway. The men they want to hear that from are the men who will never say it.
It's all about swag, bytches, money, and social validation.
That's true.
All you sad sacks are going to be the first ones hopping back on that love train when some thot/nikka toots that whistle. 
bennyfein
Banned
I don't want to end up like the women in my family.
The apple never falls far from the tree
SheWantTheD
Veteran
I'm 22 and I'd rather be in a relationship with one chick then fukk random broads I don't give two fukks for.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
I'm between 2 and 3. I've seen 1 a lot. These dudes do attract women and have had girlfriends and random flings or one night stands here and there, but a lot get gamed by a chick with more game then them. These guys become simps the woman controls the relationship, and more often then not is probably cheating on them or at least did early on or before they got married and had kids.
Thing is with me, I attract women easily just off my looks but at times I can't be bothered to holla at a bunch of chicks because a lot of them are flakey, expect you to chase'em, got dudes in the background, an ex they ain't over yet etc. I'm not a simp though.
If you go on YouTube and watch those boyfriend tag videos or my boyfriend does my makeup tag videos, those are the number 1 type dudes you described that are simps.