Welp...got hit with the lesson again. (fukk co-workers...)

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fukk you! This ain't about race ya fukkin racist.
I say what I mean and mean what I say. I don't bail out on people over bullshyt or for bullshyt reasons...THAT is the core of why I'm mad.
I can't stand bullshyt people.
One of the reasons was hanging out with his kids. That's not a bullshyt reason lol. You seem a bit codependent breh. They probably just don't want to hang out with you.
 

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Co workers so slick they prolly arranged it just leave you hanging kuz they thought it was funny. Usually all except the black folks be on that hoe shyt. Bouta time we start hoeing other groups now
 

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Ahhhhhhh ok, I see what you mean.
I dunno...I think back to my mom and how tight she was with her coworkers at Jacobi Hospital and how they all hung out at work and outside of work. Shoot, one of her coworkers/friends was almost my first sexual experience. They were like cousins most of the time...they came around that much and if they didnt, my mom took us to visit with them. Hell, one of my moms coworkers sons was a tenant of hers for over 15 years!!

Now I go to work and deal with this "Perfect Strangers" bullshyt and I'm just like...wondering where I fukked up??
Howd I get stuck with these fukkin united nation ass, no soul havin ass, fake bullshyt talk ass, no loyalty ass motherfukkers???

Maybe I need to get a job in a hospital again...

I want friends.

I understand what u saying. Just cuz ur mom was tight with her coworkers doesn't mean u gonna be tight with urs. U gotta factor in the differences like her work environment, how much they interact, if there any age differences, their personalities, work stress, etc. Ur mom's work environment may have been conducive to fostering good friendships and work relationships. Ur work environment may not be the same. I think working in a hospital...u have to engage more with ur coworkers. Plus u working with older folks of different races who aren't reliable. I understand that u want friends...I feel u. But work isn't always the best place to meet best friends....sometimes u can but not all the times. But I would engage in coworker lunches and happy hours once in a while...just not regularly. Also, if u go to a happy hour...don't consume any more than 2 drinks. Some would say only have 1 drink but I would say don't do over 2 drinks and don't go over ur limit. U don't wanna be known as the employee who has a drinking problem.
 

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:yeshrug: They assumed and I don't care what they think. nikka I'm trying to secure the bag I don't want to get hemmed up by HR cause some white girls thought I crossed the line with a joke.
:stopitslime: or you could tell them dumb bytches to act professional and let HR know you have nothing to do with their behavior. Lumping yourself in by acting gay and looking like a follower and laughing at their inappropriate jokes isn't going to get you any type of bag. :russ: at any manager that would promote the kid that acts gay around stupid slores so he won't ruffle any feathers... Sorry to tell you but you've reached your ceiling until you grow up brehs breh:francis:
 

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:stopitslime: or you could tell them dumb bytches to act professional and let HR know you have nothing to do with their behavior. Lumping yourself in by acting gay and looking like a follower and laughing at their inappropriate jokes isn't going to get you any type of bag. :russ: at any manager that would promote the kid that acts gay around stupid slores so he won't ruffle any feathers... Sorry to tell you but you've reached your ceiling until you grow up brehs breh:francis:

:dame: Who said anything about acting gay for promotions? Ain't no mango throwing on my end, breh.
 
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