Man idk tbh.....
Its funny though because I was having a conversation with my grandmother earlier this week and she told me regretted not settling down and getting married. She's the prototype of modern women who swear they have a million options and chances wit men.
They do a certain extent but the point is the illusion of choice, something better being out there, screws a lot of these women in compatible relationships over. Over the years I learned not to believe the bs of trifling men screwing women over. When there's just as many women who leave relationships with men who treated them right, by the textbook.
In the end, she regrets not taking dating more serious with men who would have married her. She's been alone completely for the past 30 years, but is now struggling to keep up with bills due to inflation. My grandmother choose what is equivalent to social clout, being seen, clubbing and having a good time in her prime years over a solid mate. Despite having a child in her early 20's.
All her family and friends who married, were able to receive their husband's checks / pension to support them into old age.
So for me, the biggest things I look for is intelligence, being unselfish, and empathic. I've traveled around the world, and one thing I hate are entitled women, who constantly want material bs and always expect to be taken to 5 star restaurants and shyt. I like that shyt too, and money isn't the problem, it's the principle. I can't fukk with people who can't humble themselves.
There's legit people starving in third world countries. They don't have a fraction of the resources we have in here in America, and yet they're able to find happiness meanwhile some women act like the world is ending if they don't go to Ruth Chris.
Basically now I just recognize the selfish traits my grandma exhibited and avoid it like a plague when I deal wit women.
Its funny though because I was having a conversation with my grandmother earlier this week and she told me regretted not settling down and getting married. She's the prototype of modern women who swear they have a million options and chances wit men.
They do a certain extent but the point is the illusion of choice, something better being out there, screws a lot of these women in compatible relationships over. Over the years I learned not to believe the bs of trifling men screwing women over. When there's just as many women who leave relationships with men who treated them right, by the textbook.
In the end, she regrets not taking dating more serious with men who would have married her. She's been alone completely for the past 30 years, but is now struggling to keep up with bills due to inflation. My grandmother choose what is equivalent to social clout, being seen, clubbing and having a good time in her prime years over a solid mate. Despite having a child in her early 20's.
All her family and friends who married, were able to receive their husband's checks / pension to support them into old age.
So for me, the biggest things I look for is intelligence, being unselfish, and empathic. I've traveled around the world, and one thing I hate are entitled women, who constantly want material bs and always expect to be taken to 5 star restaurants and shyt. I like that shyt too, and money isn't the problem, it's the principle. I can't fukk with people who can't humble themselves.
There's legit people starving in third world countries. They don't have a fraction of the resources we have in here in America, and yet they're able to find happiness meanwhile some women act like the world is ending if they don't go to Ruth Chris.
Basically now I just recognize the selfish traits my grandma exhibited and avoid it like a plague when I deal wit women.
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