What are some good F girl indicators? - Things to help you vet a woman for a long term relationship

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Damn, I was about to make a thread on Dating App tips that seem to be working well for me on Hinge..


I don't think any of this advice in here is anything BUT common sense or superficial

Well anyway here is my contribution.....BE REALISTIC!

EVERY WOMAN HAS RED FLAGS! Just make sure it's a red flag you can accept or change.

STOP Focusing ON WHAT YOU DON'T WANT AND FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT! But remember when you find it there is going to be a red flag attached to it...make sure its worth it.

And there is no such thing as a risk free relationship. Every relationship has the potential to end so all that guarded feelings "I'm scared of getting hurt" shyt doesn't fly as an adult, we have all been hurt.
 
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Doobie Doo said:
Damn, I was about to make a thread on Dating App tips that seem to be working well for me on Hinge..


I don't think any of this advice in here is anything BUT common sense or superficial

Well anyway here is my contribution.....BE REALISTIC!

EVERY WOMAN HAS RED FLAGS! Just make sure it's a red flag you can accept or change.

STOP Focusing ON WHAT YOU DON'T WANT AND FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT! But remember when you find it there is going to be a red flag attached to it...make sure its worth it.

And there is no such thing as a risk free relationship. Every relationship has the potential to end so all that guarded feelings "I'm scared of getting hurt" shyt doesn't fly as an adult, we have all been hurt.
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thats the thing everyone is messed up, the thing is identifying things you find “not normal” and then ask yourself are things things you can live with or not. Searching for some perfect disney mate = dying alone
 
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Lumumba said:
thats the thing everyone is messed up, the thing is identifying things you find “not normal” and then ask yourself are things things you can live with or not. Searching for some perfect disney mate = dying alone
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majority of people will die alone whether they find a mate or not
seems like most people get in relationships to deal with loneliness and fear of dying alone instead of finding a quality partner
 
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Lumumba said:
maybe. Regardless chasing fantasy doesnt help
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people are often not good judges of character. they ignore character issues in their friends, family, and lovers but only care when it comes back on them. the way I see how people seek out their partners like some computer algorithm, of course you will be unfulfilled and miserable because they are going after specific parameters when in real life it doesn't work like that it's more organic. there is no perfect partner out there it's about compatibility and the character of the people in the relationship.
 
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@Taadow also anecdotal evidence about this very subject.

matched with a hinge girl like two weeks ago…. BAD! :wow: Ass faster than my head and drop dead gorgeous for real. A decent job job no kids. Both 27… mentions she been single for 4 years.

We talk “guys ain’t shyt blah blah blah… I’m a lot to handle”.

fast forward 3 days. We meet just for brunch enjoy ourself both go home keep it moving.

Next day at 9:00AM
Her: “I don’t think we should do this anymore”
*I don’t respond*
9:30AM
Her “wtf why ain’t u respond I’m sorry I didn’t know until u ain’t answer I liked u this much please please :mjcry:… I’m alot to handle I know…. Let’s go out to dinner my treat”.

me: :gucci::dwillhuh: you know what fukk or whatever. Saturday @ 7.

I fukk up and forgot I had my boys birthday on Saturday. I let her knew friday….. this women called me up cursed me tf out and blocked me on everything :laff::laff:.

On the flip side my real long term ex before me both dudes proposed within a year… & I was privileged enough to see why :wow:.


Moral of the story is self delusion is a bytch… we all got it. Sometimes we have to let other people tell us who we really are.

So yeah, if a women has been moderately looking for a relationship for years, have tried countless men, and still come up dry…. She the common denominator :yeshrug:
 
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In the women I know:

- History of long distance relationships, No real proof of relationship skills over time.

- Flirting by roasting instead of making their interest known or giving you compliments, can't deal with boosting a man's ego. Can't have you thinking you got her

- Building a life around the look, she'll get fly to take pictures for the gram, but in the real world isn't putting the same effort.

- You can appease her emotional world, but she can't respect your logical world

- Loves to travel and take trips, still no man in sight. Just living in the moment
 
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Deep_Black_Conscious said:
people are often not good judges of character. they ignore character issues in their friends, family, and lovers but only care when it comes back on them. the way I see how people seek out their partners like some computer algorithm, of course you will beaaaa unfulfilled and miserable because they are going after specific parameters when in real life it doesn't work like that it's more organic. there is no perfect partner out there it's about compatibility and the character of the people in the relationship.
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Wow, amazing original content
Here's what i need you to do for me
Between now and saturday midnight,, you will post 30+ times about heterosexual relationships
You say you don't have one or want one
But i really need you to post voluminously on the subject
Can you do that for me??
Pretty please... I know you must be a busy man, sitting there all brolic,, but the world needs your thoughts on heterosexual relationships
 
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Deep_Black_Conscious said:
people are often not good judges of character. they ignore character issues in their friends, family, and lovers but only care when it comes back on them. the way I see how people seek out their partners like some computer algorithm, of course you will be unfulfilled and miserable because they are going after specific parameters when in real life it doesn't work like that it's more organic. there is no perfect partner out there it's about compatibility and the character of the people in the relationship.
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people ignore character because they are chasing a fantasy.
 
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BaggerofTea said:
I get what you are saying, but a woman should know how to moderate those sorts of impulses. Especially a grown woman
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That's part of the issue people are ageing not growing. If as a women simps have tippytoed around you your whole life the room for growth is limited. Case in point the women who went viral that thinks her ex should pay for her car and rent even though she has another boyfriend.
 
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