What are some good F girl indicators? - Things to help you vet a woman for a long term relationship

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Wow, amazing original content
Here's what i need you to do for me
Between now and saturday midnight,, you will post 30+ times about heterosexual relationships
You say you don't have one or want one
But i really need you to post voluminously on the subject
Can you do that for me??
Pretty please... I know you must be a busy man, sitting there all brolic,, but the world needs your thoughts on heterosexual relationships

shut your goofy ass up

 

[Taadow]

think we are discussing different sides of the same coin.

If a women is jumping from relationship to relationship that is a red flag however if loyalty/monogamy is there well, Atleast she has that going for her.

with women are single a long long time I find them to be
1) used to juggling multiple men & dates at a time. That whole “well if there ain’t a ring on it it’s fair game”. Mentality.
2) typically always the ones who are quick to fall for someone but the quicker u fall typically the quicker u leave (you do one wrong thing in the dating phase your gone).
3. Grow up and finally change their standards from ain’t shyt dudes to “good guys”. I applaud this & do believe people can change. But her standards usually change from a 2 to an 8 and her herself changes from a 3 to a 4.

& most importantly I actually do believe things happen for a reason, and if your single for a long long time there is usually good reason. I go to the supermarket multiple times in a week & see the same apple there over and over it’s usually other people are telling me something I might not see.

Both instances are not ideal, but if I had to choose between perpetually in a relationship versus single for extended periods I would choose the former.

I can understand what you’re saying here...but what I was saying is not so much about being “perpetually in a relationship” as much as the idea that there is little duration between those relationships.

Girls/women like that tend to never develop a personality of their own. As we know, when a woman is with a man for a long time, she begins to adopt his ways/habits/traits after some time. Then when they get a different man, rinse and repeat.

So when they are single long enough they have time by themselves, and some actually take some time to find out what their own likes/interests/desires/beliefs are. When they do that, they become more interesting, well-rounded and are more likely to be stand-up females who know what they want in life instead of just being a tag-along.

If they never take the time to do that, they make a habit of becoming chameleons to keep the next dude they catch.

And this situation can be even worse depending on how young she is. These are the girls who joined the Cheerleading Squad in HS to catch the Football Star and marries him, then leaves their husband because she met a guy who was an artist and fell in love with him because he was so sensitive and she gets into Art. Then when she feels Sensitive Artist Guy is too sensitive, she finds a Cowboy Republican and her social media becomes flooded with pictures of them posing with rifles and Trump memes. She done been 3 different, incongruent personalities in 5 years.

This is the drop everything and move because “I need to find myself” after she fell off broad.
This is the stays in toxic/abusive relationship because “I don’t want to be lonely” broad.
This is the cheated on you because “you always at work, and I he gave me attention” broad.
This is the “has nothing to talk about when she has no man, except how she wants to find a man” broad.

But yeah, I agree with what you said. The best chance is someone in the middle of these, who is balanced.

 

[King Poetic]

Damn, I was about to make a thread on Dating App tips that seem to be working well for me on Hinge..


I don't think any of this advice in here is anything BUT common sense or superficial

Well anyway here is my contribution.....BE REALISTIC!

EVERY WOMAN HAS RED FLAGS! Just make sure it's a red flag you can accept or change.

STOP Focusing ON WHAT YOU DON'T WANT AND FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT! But remember when you find it there is going to be a red flag attached to it...make sure its worth it.

And there is no such thing as a risk free relationship. Every relationship has the potential to end so all that guarded feelings "I'm scared of getting hurt" shyt doesn't fly as an adult, we have all been hurt.

c/s

about a woman with red flags!!

because a lot of dudes on here be tripped out if a woman slept with 10 or 15 dudes and she 30 or 35

now if she 21 or 23 years old, then that will be different

A lot of dudes has to wake up and realized if u not with a chick u grew up with, then she will have prior dudes before u and u have to understand that u not going to find a virgin or a woman who only been with 2 people in your lifetime

 

[Doobie Doo]

c/s

about a woman with red flags!!

because a lot of dudes on here be tripped out if a woman slept with 10 or 15 dudes and she 30 or 35

now if she 21 or 23 years old, then that will be different

A lot of dudes has to wake up and realized if u not with a chick u grew up with, then she will have prior dudes before u and u have to understand that u not going to find a virgin or a woman who only been with 2 people in your lifetime

One thing I realized from my dating experience Every woman has been pregnant before. I haven't dated a woman with a kid in over 10 years but every woman I messed with in her 30s had a story of either an abortion or miscarriage.

 

[Coli Bot]

One thing I realized from my dating experience Every woman has been pregnant before. I haven't dated a woman with a kid in over 10 years but every woman I messed with in her 30s had a story of either an abortion or miscarriage.