What are you struggling with that you dont want your outside folks to know?

[BlvdBrawler]

BlvdBrawler you my dog and all but......

Breh it is what it is. I'd also settle for her living in a house down the street, if that helps.

 

[So-Chi]

fukk it.

I don't know how I'm supposed to get out of this job. I watch my son when I'm not working and when I'm not working I'm watching my son. All my time goes to those two things and when that's not happening I'm spending "family" time with my girl and my son. I just want to be alone. I like spending time with my son and I know I have to be a man but sometimes I want to workout or hang out with friends but can't.


Damn reading that ^^^^ I sound like those teens dads I'm just trying to figure out how I'm going to go to school.

Man. I FEEL you. It's like you watched all those sitcoms of the stuck fathers that never do anything else to do , and then that becomes you. Honestly fam, what it takes from my experience, is to make SURE your girl gets time out. HAVE too. MAKE HER if need be, then that gives you your night. Other then that you start resenting that time with your son. I love my kids to DEATH, but without that mental vacation, it all seems like a neverending work shift. Now that my girl gets time, I get my time too. For every family day I have I take a mental day and get out with the guys, have a few drinks and everything is cool. I wish you the best my friend...

 

[Uffie]

the thread cant handle me.

 

[Chris.B]

Only 2 occasions in my life have I had sex without a condom.

Child support scares the sh!t out of me everytime I get naked

 

[The ADD]

Some of these situations ya'll are posting

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Daygotaco, you might wanna google the term co-depndancy, and really think about what the fukk you're doing with YOUR life. Very soon you'll be old and you one and ONLY life will be over. Do you REALLY wanna keep living for others only? What about you dawg? Also think seriously, will these said "friends" do the same for you and live their life to be efit you? Ever, in any instance? They sound more like a burdain to me, than homies.

Trust me, it feels good to start living your life only for you, and for the very few people who would do everything in their power to benefit you, as you do to them. I should know, because a couple years ago I cut off all of the leaching ass people from my circle, and it feels damn good. Also, fukk what others expect of you, be it material or just thoughts.

This is a great question. Yes, they've been my friends since before I decided what I wanted to do with my life, they've been with me through me getting dumped, going through shyt with school, and have just kinda been there all the time whenever I need them as someone to watch football with, to have all around my or their houses to drink beer and barbecue while we chat, and I unilaterally made the decision to go to law school.

I actually wanted to originally go to get into politics, but I later turned to the entertainment industry. It didn't occur to me until after I made the change that I could offer my friends (very talented themselves) that I could start their careers for them. I just don't want to let them down, now. Not only would they be deprived, but I think that they could really offer something to the audiences that they'd potentially reach if given the chance.

Thanks for the question.

 

[Pool_Shark]

Man. I FEEL you. It's like you watched all those sitcoms of the stuck fathers that never do anything else to do , and then that becomes you. Honestly fam, what it takes from my experience, is to make SURE your girl gets time out. HAVE too. MAKE HER if need be, then that gives you your night. Other then that you start resenting that time with your son. I love my kids to DEATH, but without that mental vacation, it all seems like a neverending work shift. Now that my girl gets time, I get my time too. For every family day I have I take a mental day and get out with the guys, have a few drinks and everything is cool. I wish you the best my friend...

I just remember this movie I watched in middle school. The dad is rocking the baby, his friends call him to kick it and he's like "Can't guys gotta stay home and watch the baby " At the time I gave it the but now that's exactly what my life is. Like I said I love my son and am cool spending time with him but man. Sometimes I wish I could throw everyone away and go somewhere else make money, be fit, and run through hoes. I wouldn't ever do it but it's one of those things. I'm going to pull forward and come up I know I will but I just don't know how.

Then my girl is so fukking dependent on me. Everything she does she has to run by me first and she's never wrong about anything.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Then my girl is so fukking dependent on me. Everything she does she has to run by me first and she's never wrong about anything.

I know the feeling.

 

[Anti-Anime]

*goes to write in diary instead*

 

[Urahara_Kisuke]

I've had the same chick for like 8 years and I don't wanna marry her. When I was an E-3 eatin' peanut butter and Bazooka Joe bubble gum for dinner.......she was talkin' mad greasy all the time about me being a good for nothing bum (). Then I got out, went overseas the past 5 years as a contractor making 100K+ bands/year and NOW she wants to get married and go raw. I resent her for it and have relegated her to eternal Lala status.

 

[So-Chi]

I just remember this movie I watched in middle school. The dad is rocking the baby, his friends call him to kick it and he's like "Can't guys gotta stay home and watch the baby " At the time I gave it the but now that's exactly what my life is. Like I said I love my son and am cool spending time with him but man. Sometimes I wish I could throw everyone away and go somewhere else make money, be fit, and run through hoes. I wouldn't ever do it but it's one of those things. I'm going to pull forward and come up I know I will but I just don't know how.

Then my girl is so fukking dependent on me. Everything she does she has to run by me first and she's never wrong about anything.

Yeah, the feeling is real. It's like you see these chicks out here, and you just want to be old you again, right? Start to notice your friends are locked down too, everyone needing that excape. I'm telling you fam, for your sanity, dependent or NOT, get your time. You WILL go crazy living for everyone else. Doesn't mean you don't love your family, men are just built to need that alone time. Either that or SNAP one day...

 

[Tres Chic]

broke....unemployed...little to no work experience....still live at home....student loans are knocking...quarter-life crisis about what my next step is going to be....applying to law school knowing full well that my credentials don't cut it....all the while having to put on a brave face in front of my employed, (or currently attending school) friends.....

 

[BlvdBrawler]

I've had the same chick for like 8 years and I don't wanna marry her. When I was an E-3 eatin' peanut butter and Bazooka Joe bubble gum for dinner.......she was talkin' mad greasy all the time about me being a good for nothing bum (). Then I got out, went overseas the past 5 years as a contractor making 100K+ bands/year and NOW she wants to get married and go raw. I resent her for it and have relegated her to eternal Lala status.

You got kids? Why not dump her if you resent her?

 

[Why-Fi]

wow all these dudes with stories about being trapped just made things clear for me...makes me appreciate my wife. she lets me do what the fukk i want...im good where im at

 

[Malfoy]

You got kids? Why not dump her if you resent her?

Great question.

This thread is beautiful, keep going!