What Are Your Unpopular RELATIONSHIP Opinions?

[Theraflu]

What are your unpopular opinions in relationships in relation to all aspects.....dating, sex, marriage, gender roles etc ?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

romantic love doesn't exist or is useless
The only pure love is between a parent and their child
And that's if you have a good one

Women choose the situations they want to be in

I don't trust anyone %100 except my parents

 

[Remote]

I think gender roles are generally a necessary thing.

To a degree, anyway.

 

[Theraflu]

• Despite being a man, I think women who give up their lives, careers, hobbies etc for their husbands are dumb. I've met so many older generation housewives who never did anything with themselves and it's crazy to me they didn't keep at least SOMETHING of their own, some kind of gig or something. I'll never get women who give up everything once they find a man or have kids....

• The concept that non black women are more 'feminine' than black women is a lie, I think people mistake different conversation styles for actual femininity, I think the idea that black women aren't feminine is the biggest lie people tell themselves. I believe this is a white supremacist lie because most of the black women I know are good women in the old school sense of being feminine...

 

[Theraflu]

• I believe people can meet good people online. People speak down against online dating but I have met many married couples who met online
• Being promiscuous will very rarely work in a woman's favour
• Most people are users and want the world but give very little back

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I think gender roles are generally a necessary thing.

To a degree, anyway.

I don't think they're necessary

But they will always exist
Even through ppl who claim they don't like them

 

[Theraflu]

• I don't get the point of 'shacking up' unless we need it to save money

 

[Diondon]

Any nikka that says past is the past is ing

 

[Panther]

People are not meant to be Monogamous.

Soul mates do not exist, there are plenty of people whom you could be in a healthy relationship with

 

[JAY?]

That you can't go to sleep mad at each other

I do that shyt all the time
I ain't gonna stay up all night arguing when I gotta wake up in a few hours to work and you ain't doing shyt the next day

 

[Theraflu]

• I don't see the big deal in men paying for dates or providing for women who they are in exclusive relationships with
• Marriage should return to being seen as a business arrangement

 

[Audemar]

Relationships, in general, are unnecessary.

 

[Theraflu]

• most women have low self esteem and will suppress their own desires and dreams if it means holding on to a man.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Men who are broke are more likely to settle

Pretty much fact...seen it too much with my own eyes

Seen my cousins first wife and the woman he is dating now

One looks like a school teacher and the other chick looks like a model

I was like
Money cash hoes

I just want a girl with a fat ass and pretty face but regular and down to earth

I don't wanna fukk with a chick who been dealing with upper echelon nikkas forever

 

[Remote]

I don't think they're necessary

But they will always exist
Even through ppl who claim they don't like them

Well, I'm not saying women need to stay home and shyt.
The problem is that people think of oppressive shyt when they think of gender roles.

I don't think that's necessarily the case.
There are certain roles in life that men need to play and that women need to play in order to build a successful/thriving/healthy family.

Just my view.